Why do so many men expect to receive oral sex but then never give it in return?

At first, I just thought this was my experience. It’s been two years since I’ve had sex but I haven’t received oral since I was 21. But then I googled it out of curiosity, and apparently this is a trend a lot of women seem to be dealing with.

A lot of men want (and to some degree EXPECT) oral sex or ‘head’ from their partner but never return the favor, even if she wants it. People, including comedians like Katt Williams, joke about women not wanting to give head looks bad and is a negative but what about guys who don’t give oral in return?

Personally, I’ve decided you aren’t getting oral if you’re not going to do it to me. I remember liking it, and I don’t think it’s fair to have me do it but refuse to do it to me.

Is there a reason why this is a trend? I’m sure some women do it, too, but this seems to be more relevant to men from what I’ve read. Is this fair?
Why do so many men expect to receive oral sex but then never give it in return?
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  • I first off love eating pussy it's the best way to get a woman to a multiple orgasm them getting off turns me on so much more

  • Men who refuse to eat pussy (assuming it's clean) are the same men who whine and complain they don't get any.

  • Not true. My girl gets her pussy locked, sucked and fingered whenever and wherever she wants. Irrespective of whether I get a BJ.

    • Your single experience doesn’t negate the experience of others 🙄

    • Your experience doesn't support your sweeping assumption

    • Studies have actually been done on this and a woman is 2.5x more likely to have this happen to her than a man. Facts are what they are lol. You can literally google this and find this info lol

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  • Lack of education. Ignorant about women.

  • I don't know why anyone would refuse its super hot

  • Many of them lack the patience to bring her to a peak.

  • Only time I wouldn't, is if I didn't trust her or thought she was fucking around. I'm not trying to get herpes or warts on my face.

  • Those are boys that do that shit. Men give and receive without being asked.

  • Because you got the wrong boyfriend. A real man going to take joy in tasting every part of you.

  • I to have been wondering the same thing for years.

  • That's just selfish..

  • I have no idea why that is. I enjoy doing it. I love to give oral to my girl and hear her moan and grab my hair harder and harder as she gets closer to come.

  • Good im glad guys dont like it makes me a more scarce commodity.

  • More women want to, fewer guys want to, that's all.
    Most men and women are fine with it though.

  • Because they’re selfish

    I think men who are against giving but want to receive, don’t deserve to get head. Unless if the girl doesn’t want it then that’s alright

  • i don't know if it's a trend. I'll always give it in return

    • It is. Studies have been done in this. Women are over twice as likely to have this happen versus men.

      Here’s one article about it:

      www.refinery29.com/amp/en-us/men-and-oral-sex

    • I don't know. I got nothin. Should I maybe pimp myself out as a pussy eater?

  • Giving a girl head is so fucking beta and submissive. I'm never going down on a girl LOL

    • I disagree, id consider the person giving in the dominant position. As they r controlling their partners pleasure for those moments. also, they r in a prime position to tease all they want and if thats not taking control then I don't know what is.

    • No just no. It looks so weird doing it on a girl.

    • Plus getting ur dick sucked is so much sexier. There's a reason a lot of guys dont wanna go down lol and the reason isn't nothing

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  • It's one of the reasons I little 69, I really get into it, and love pleasuring my girl, often more than receiving it, it has to be reciprocal.

  • I have no idea where you get the false notion that men expect oral or that men are not will willing to give oral unless the woman has some awful odor.

  • I'd love to give some without receiving back

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