Why do some girls make boyfriends wait for sex, but don't make non boyfriends wait?

What is the logic in waiting for months to have sex with a guy you deem boyfriend material, but giving it up early for the guys you deem non-boyfriend material? If the guy is some douche which is why you deem him not boyfriend material, why give it up on the first night to him? No wonder so many guys act like douchebag fuckboys. That's how to get laid. Then women wonder "Where are all the good guys. There's nothing but fuckboys"


"It's like having two kids. One's a piece of shit and you give him a nice car right away and the other one you're like "oh you're a good kid you have to work for it"
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  • she wants different things from different guys so treats them differently

  • Disgusting slut mentality. No way I would date a girl that gave her pussy to some fuckboy in 10 minutes but made her boyfriend wait. It's so sick and twisted. The boyfriend should be getting the hot lustful sex, not some gutter trash manwhore.

  • Because if she's dating the guy she doesn't want to end up being used by somebody she sees as a potential husband. If it's someone she considers as just eye candy then she'll use him and he'll be using her as well since it's mutual. No one likes to be used as a toy when they're looking for something serious. They figure that the longer they hold out, they'll see if they really like them for who they are as a person rather than being arm candy for them.

  • Because sex is meaningful when you wait

  • Same reason guys do. The 'keepers' will wait and want to get to know you as you do them. The ones you sleep with right now are not keepers and we don't hold them in as high regard as ltr material men. Why can't we have it the same way that guys do?