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Sexual Health Why do some guys not wear condoms?
Mermaid_girl201 Xper 4
Ok so I met this guy he seemed nice. Anyway he was telling me about his last relationship.. and the reason why they broke up was because he got the girl pregnant and she had an abortion. And in my head I was like damn... that's deep. Any way got to know the guy started seeing him a bit more. And got to a point where we got intimate and he didn't want to use a condom... I'm a little confused because he got the girl pregnant and still didn't learn the lesson. After having sex a couple weeks I was scared I didn't get my period but got my period :) but anyway so I confronted him about and said that isn't right and he goes there's nothing for you to worry about I just want to know Wtf is wrong with this guy? Because he tells me he loves me he thought that night was special and to be honest after that night I felt a feeling for him but I stay away from him because basically it's weirding me out lol... I haven't seen him since can someone explain this guy for me?
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Oh by the way left out information I hadn't had further sex with him becauae of that night because felt uncomfortable was only one time that night. So I'm not having and further intimacy with him
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Any * I type to damn fast sorry
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What Girls & Guys Said
9 24It's not that fun with condoms... I always use condoms
Its better that way
He is an idiot.
condoms are 98% full prof I assume that 2% is if they're not on fully and slip off or something?
after that the 2% is multiplied by the risk without so overall it's much smaller per time but i couldn't find the average risk without protection?
Apparently the pill is even more effective for avoiding pregnancy at 99%
Use both and gets low enough not to have to worry much
1%* 2% * ? = 0.02% * ? I assume? is a good chunk less than 10% each time considering most couples find getting pregnant takes them awhile so less than 0.002% or a 1 in 50000 risk each time. If there's a male pill as well? Then you could take that risk down yet further.
Nothing is 100% fool proof. the 2% condom failures are caused by users. One problem is that an orgasm can cause a girl to ovulate. That explains many improbable pregnancies.
@jacquesvol wrong words 98% effective then
Some people don't learn their lesson and you want to make sure you don't get burned by their decisions
Easy to explain: he's a selfish ass.
You REQUIRE condoms. Simple. If he is being stupid, that doesn't mean you have to be stupid too.
Feels better without. Who wants to fuck a plastic bag?