Why do some guys only want a hook up but not a relationship? Is it because of the girls?
Anonymous
This guy I used to work with said guys will only boo up 10/10 girls and the ones below average they will just use for sex
is this true?
so for example will a girl like this ever be used for sex or will she always be seen as girlfriend material due to her looks?Will guys always view her as girlfriend material and not a booty call?surely guys don’t just go off looks? Surely it’s 50/50.. But I could be wrong
If every man would be as shallow as I am, the global population would drop by 99%.
Most women on earth are morhers out of shape but still loved by their men.
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seannnoooXper 1
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Drama... Don't want the drama. Girls watch too much TV just like guys watch too much porn. Guys have unrealistic views or woman's sex drive and desires while woman have completely messed up and skewed views on how to act in a relationship. They think Jerry Springer attitude is normal.
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red324Guru
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Honestly in my experience girls are their own worse enemy. I've seen them do a 180 so fast and I never even did anything wrong. It's all in their head.
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CjbruserXper 1
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Then why are you talking to or interacting with a guy like that? Its clear the guy is desperate and is only looking for tail by putting on a bravado. Intimacy is good, but its better if it is with someone that you actually like and have a bond with.
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Jamie05rhsMaster
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No; that's not true at all. Guys use 10/10 girls for sex All The Time!
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Blueeyes81Guru
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Its more than looks. Guys will say and do almost anything to get laid. But for the guy to want a relationship, he wants her as well as her body. Vs. the girls that get used, its he wants her body and not her.
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convo_king89Yoda
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Well we just want to fuck but not deal with making her happy. We don’t want strings or anything.
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Jay3344Xper 7
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Not true, I’ve liked plenty of girls that would be considered like 7’s for serious relationships because we went through stuff together or they had great personalities. 10’s would be tough to keep happy too and sometimes I just want to relax.
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Lucina_RoseXper 4
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Is this a troll question? What's gender got to do with this?
How can that be a guy? This post is actually making guys look bad lol. The other link you posted is gender neutral. Besides, they're probably just as many fake blue accounts.
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Uptowngirl88
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Girl imma need u to think 🤦🏽♀️. Are u new here? It's not really not. Ur missing the point of a troll. They usually post shit to stir up drama and criticize women. That's what the men do behind pink anons and post half naked pics of women to entice men on this app. They've been doing this forever
Lucina_Rose
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How can you be sure? Anyone can be posting as anyone here. What's gender got to do with this? I feel for guys as they face plenty of sexism these days.
Asker
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Im not a troll hun, my username is priv9696 Not a troll, just a girl fed up with horny insensitive men
Lucina_Rose
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Well then don't bring gender into this. Members of our gender do the same exact things.
Asker
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Because it’s MAINLY men that don’t want commitment. Don’t tell me what I can and can’t do. If you don’t like my question… bye bye
Lucina_Rose
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Women don't have risk of pregnancy. Sex drive has nothing to do with it.
Asker
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Wtf.. women get pregnant what are you on about?
Lucina_Rose
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*Have risk of pregnancy I meant. It's a barrier.
Immanuel_thefirstXper 1
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Not really It's all about the guy. The trend this days for guys is to get on as many girls they can get on while they can
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Wise4myageMaster
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Hook up? Hell, Id marry her today. 🤣
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Asker
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But i bet you wouldn’t marry a girl who is less attractive than her? It’s all about looks
Wise4myage
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Actually, I would.
DWornockYoda
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You can probably find several exceptions but almost always it is looks because most everyone wants someone out of their league.
Regardless, as for the question, there is such a wide variety in behavior of guys that it is in a girl's best interest to use the good sense they should have regarding her relationship with guys.
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jahaimsMaster
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Poor values and morals in my opinion
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motownplayer2000Guru
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I don’t think that is particularly true. But I know men don’t want to put up with a lot of the bullshit that comes with women sometime. I’m not saying all women, but there are a lot that come with BS. Just like men, so it’s much easier to fuck and leave than actually stay and pretend to like it
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Uptowngirl88Explorer
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Girl/ boy whatever you are log off 🤣💀💀
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Asker
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What’s your problem? Just cause you have a amazing luck with relationships doesn’t mean others do. Stop being so insensitive
Hispanic-Cool-GuyMaster
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It's called playing the field. Have all sex with different people then as you get older settle down and marry.
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JuxtaposeMaster
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What are you smoking? Guys are so desperate these days you could be a 3 out of 10 and you will be hooked up for life no problem.
There's a woman who's body odor literally smells like shit because of a rare medical condition and her nasty ass is married.
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noohairYoda
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Guys had to make commitments for sex with women, when I was young. Women wanted equality and freedom. This is what it looks like. Unintended consequences bite hard.
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MasonAlucardthethirdXper 5
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The girl just isn’t the one. When it comes to relationships guys can be fairly picky
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Asker
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We work our arses off trying to impress the guy but still not good enough
MasonAlucardthethird
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What women think will impress guys likely isn’t what will actually impress guys. And of course every guy is different. If it doesn’t work out, just move on. It happens
TwalliMaster
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Some of it has to do with maturity. If the guys isn't ready to settle down he won't seriously date many girls. Most of the time, by the time a guy is entering his 30s he's looking to settle down more and looking for a long thlerm relationship.
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27 111If every man would be as shallow as I am, the global population would drop by 99%.
Most women on earth are morhers out of shape but still loved by their men.
Drama... Don't want the drama. Girls watch too much TV just like guys watch too much porn. Guys have unrealistic views or woman's sex drive and desires while woman have completely messed up and skewed views on how to act in a relationship. They think Jerry Springer attitude is normal.
Honestly in my experience girls are their own worse enemy. I've seen them do a 180 so fast and I never even did anything wrong. It's all in their head.
Then why are you talking to or interacting with a guy like that? Its clear the guy is desperate and is only looking for tail by putting on a bravado.
Intimacy is good, but its better if it is with someone that you actually like and have a bond with.
No; that's not true at all. Guys use 10/10 girls for sex All The Time!
Its more than looks. Guys will say and do almost anything to get laid. But for the guy to want a relationship, he wants her as well as her body. Vs. the girls that get used, its he wants her body and not her.
Well we just want to fuck but not deal with making her happy. We don’t want strings or anything.
Not true, I’ve liked plenty of girls that would be considered like 7’s for serious relationships because we went through stuff together or they had great personalities. 10’s would be tough to keep happy too and sometimes I just want to relax.
Is this a troll question? What's gender got to do with this?
It's a troll
It's a man too the same troll posted this
Guy, if you're girlfriend is wearing booty shots at home when alone with you, do you think it's cute and playful or it is just trashy? ↗
How can that be a guy? This post is actually making guys look bad lol. The other link you posted is gender neutral. Besides, they're probably just as many fake blue accounts.
Girl imma need u to think 🤦🏽♀️. Are u new here? It's not really not. Ur missing the point of a troll. They usually post shit to stir up drama and criticize women. That's what the men do behind pink anons and post half naked pics of women to entice men on this app. They've been doing this forever
How can you be sure? Anyone can be posting as anyone here. What's gender got to do with this? I feel for guys as they face plenty of sexism these days.
Im not a troll hun, my username is priv9696 Not a troll, just a girl fed up with horny insensitive men
Well then don't bring gender into this. Members of our gender do the same exact things.
Because it’s MAINLY men that don’t want commitment. Don’t tell me what I can and can’t do. If you don’t like my question… bye bye
Women don't have risk of pregnancy. Sex drive has nothing to do with it.
Wtf.. women get pregnant what are you on about?
*Have risk of pregnancy I meant. It's a barrier.
Not really
It's all about the guy. The trend this days for guys is to get on as many girls they can get on while they can
Hook up? Hell, Id marry her today. 🤣
But i bet you wouldn’t marry a girl who is less attractive than her? It’s all about looks
Actually, I would.
You can probably find several exceptions but almost always it is looks because most everyone wants someone out of their league.
Regardless, as for the question, there is such a wide variety in behavior of guys that it is in a girl's best interest to use the good sense they should have regarding her relationship with guys.
Poor values and morals in my opinion
I don’t think that is particularly true. But I know men don’t want to put up with a lot of the bullshit that comes with women sometime. I’m not saying all women, but there are a lot that come with BS. Just like men, so it’s much easier to fuck and leave than actually stay and pretend to like it
Girl/ boy whatever you are log off 🤣💀💀
What’s your problem? Just cause you have a amazing luck with relationships doesn’t mean others do. Stop being so insensitive
It's called playing the field. Have all sex with different people then as you get older settle down and marry.
What are you smoking? Guys are so desperate these days you could be a 3 out of 10 and you will be hooked up for life no problem.
There's a woman who's body odor literally smells like shit because of a rare medical condition and her nasty ass is married.
Guys had to make commitments for sex with women, when I was young.
Women wanted equality and freedom. This is what it looks like.
Unintended consequences bite hard.
The girl just isn’t the one. When it comes to relationships guys can be fairly picky
We work our arses off trying to impress the guy but still not good enough
What women think will impress guys likely isn’t what will actually impress guys. And of course every guy is different. If it doesn’t work out, just move on. It happens
Some of it has to do with maturity. If the guys isn't ready to settle down he won't seriously date many girls. Most of the time, by the time a guy is entering his 30s he's looking to settle down more and looking for a long thlerm relationship.