Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Why do some guys think they’re entitled to sex?
StormMistress Xper 7
Like seriously I’ve dated and befriend so many guys where things are great and peachy but as soon as they realise sex is off the table they get hostile and want nothing to do with me. Some have even said they deserve it considering the effort and money they’ve put into the relationship. Like dude wtf.
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a lot of confusion here. What I mean is that sex is off the table until I can see if we have chemistry which can take 2 or more dates. If we don’t then I end it. I’m not going to waste my time if we don’t click. It’s guys who get upset with this because they got nothing out of it that I have an issue with.
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19 116Some guys think they're entitled to lots of stuff, from the right-of-way on.
This is the bitch who feels she's entitled to a man's money, attention and energy without giving anything in return at all. Yes, men move on to someone else if they don't get something back. That's the way to do it.
Who knows what it is. My guess? It’s social media and everything we see on tv nowadays. With everything at our fingertips, many people are used to getting what they want when they want. So, it transfers over to sex and such. I’m more old fashioned. It’s tough finding people with core values in life and actually follow them.
In your case, you got the name stormmistress coupled with having big cannons. A lot of men see that as you putting yourself out there that you want to get rocked. When you turn them down, many don’t know how to react. They either don’t like it themselves or they take it out on you and think you think there is something wrong with them.
Because women abort pregnancies, block relationships, and general take the position of 'I know best, it is my body' - then they go mad, cry, throw things around, and keep calling it 'theatre' - which is a split reality/schitzo
Chemistry is sensable from the moment you glance at another person. Whether the are trans or cis gender and whether they had abortions is not that easy to establish (mostly because the habits of how we were abused since birth keep playing into the mix)
Because they are intellectually challenged, selfish, and entitled
@jess2022 no, seek therapy
Hmmm. I’m not very sure that that is true. If you’re dating guys who feel some kind of entitlement, then you need to change your selection process.
When a man who isn't your husband is taking you out and paying for dates food etc he isn't doing it because he thinks you're special.
He hopes for you to drop the panties because he opened his wallet for those expensive dinners you been eating for the last couple weeks.
I agree. That's why I always pay my own way on dates.
@Cathy7734: You can do that so that he doesn't he you owe him.
@Cathy7734 that's really big of you. Personally I don't expect sex right away but I would be pleasantly surprised if it came around. A girl willing to go Dutch till we knew each other? The first month maybe? Or if she was okay letting me cook because I enjoy it anyway? That's a long term keeper imho. The whole reason men paid was because of social power dynamics. Now I'm not one to have a woman pay for me unless maybe it was a bday present or they insisted PRIOR to the date. Ideally I try to pay, even if I honestly can't afford it. But I want a woman willing to do it. Not because I want or expect it but because it shows humility and selflessness. That's the kind of person I want to spend my life with. Not an entitled snot.
I guess these days unless otherwise specified, sex is assumed to be on the table and I think both sexes are guilty of this kind of stuff. I blame hookup culture for the glamorizing of sex to this absurd degree.
Pathetic, Isn’t it.
Women want attention, guys want sex.
You got attention, yet he did not get any sex so he felt used and god upset and denied attention to you.
It's just simple, both genders have wants and needs. And both should be upfront about what they want or expect.
Otherwise this type of mess happens
Because they’re immature and probably think relationships are just for sex. If a guy can’t wait, then he’s not worth being with.
We wouldn't make it past date 2 if sex won't happen within the first two years.
Two years? Lol if there’s chemistry I’d be down with date 3. If no chemistry then we go out separate ways. Simple.
Well I don't have sex before 3 months into a relationship, 6 if I am with a virgin, but I am willing to wait 2 years.
In a relationship yes but dating no. you're dating simp incel men.
I might take a girl out to a fancy restaurant because i want to go and i want to go there and i want company. If she then acts cold to men in a romantic way then i dont invite her again. I get to make the call and im the one in control. This is why men should never date one girl, until you're exclusive you should be talking to multiple women.
you're supposed to pay... not for sex... but because you are the one in control. Yet these moron men think they are paying for sex. Smh.
Personally i only pay for virgins OR girls who fucked me OR if i just want company what do i care ill pay for someone to come out with me but its literally still at my choice and for my benefit.
Dumb ass men try to date hookers off the clock basically. Error, they base this on faulty assumptions that money equals sex. In that case get her on the clock and call the same girl off an escort ad or make a proposition. And of course these girls not on the clock will just use you. Duh.
Why do some girls think they're entitled to nice things?
I don't think I am entitled to it. Neither are my partners.
if you think like this and get married, you'll be divorced quickly. Why do you think they are there, to borrow your vacuum? the main reason a man likes walks on the beach or paying for overpriced dinners is because he expects he is putting you in the mood for something great. Ever see a man go for a long walk on the beach with his buddies? by himself? of course not, that is for YOU. In return you are expecting his resources and possibly his dedication to raising your child. It shocks me that women don't know this shiot
If I got married I can guarantee you we would have chemistry and I’d be having sex a lot lol. My question is related to waiting to see if we click when dating and if not I end it. It’s the guys who get upset when I end it that they didn’t get anything out of it I have the issue with.
Same reason why some women think they're entitled to sex and money
The downvotes prove double standards i love it
Lets explore this a Little. If everything is so peachy and great in those relationships up to that point, Why is sex out of the question and off the table?
If you're saving yourself for marriage and actually dating I guy to find a suitable life partner, that's great. He needs to be aware of those things. If not, why are you dating guys at all?
Because…because…. shut up and blow us!
If you're married you are entitled to sex, either way.
Um no you’re not. If she’s not in the mood you aren’t entitled to rape her just because you’re married.
Entitled to doesn't mean you don't drop it when she/he says no. Just saying they need a good reason to say no otherwise it's a bit mean.