I have seen some say that it's worse for men to have sex with underage girls because they have to take in the guy, as in the girl gets fucked.
Isn't just me who thinks this is an absolute travesty? That's how nature made it. I can't see that being a reason at all.
Why do some men have these strange views?
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Men are drawn to young femininity, and God gave us all a certain level of desire, some have more than others, I had sex with a girl in school 5 years my junior, it worked out well, and I helped her discover herself.
A view is not "strange" just because you disagree with it. Some of your problems with getting angry at people who disagree with you could probably be resolved more readily if you were to consider that opinions are generally based on experience, history, and education, and these things vary from person to person and also change over time.
Perfect agreement would give you a very boring echo chamber that you probably would not enjoy at all. I myself would prefer to argue or discuss issues with people who disagree with me, because that gives me a chance to teach them new things, and also a chance for me to learn new things. My closest friend, for example, is a conservative, right-wing, serious Republican, and while I disagree completely with his politics, we have wonderful discussions. That would not happen if all we did was to agree with each other.
Just a suggestion, but maybe you should try some new approaches to all of this, since what you are doing (getting really angry at people who don't agree with you and very frustrated) seems to be pushing others away, and making you very unhappy as well. There is a way to discuss even the most sensitive things that you feel the most strongly about without triggering others and evoking chaos.
They say that because woman run various risks like pregnancy, social judgement, injuries etc.
I've read in many places that for most women, sex is something emotional and intimate.
But these risks are easily hindered
Means? 🤔
Stopped from occurring...
Many girls have sex and not get pregnant
What about emotional risks?
It depends on the girl and circumstances
If it's short term or a fling it's not a problem in my opinion
Yeah, each person is different
Why did hitler hate jews, and americans and basically anyone that wasn't like him
Everyone has their own views
But what do you think about it
That's my point Everyone has their own views, OPINIONS
I think they are ignorant
It is said that if there is 3 human, 2 factions will emerge. (Or something like it.) I personally think all this fuss is because the society is getting more complex day by day. Position, money, fame if you think of all these things before getting into a relationship then where is the scope of building interpersonal relationships in the first place? It’s fault for women for chosing partner that way. And It's a fault for men maybe thinking that way. But some people think that if relations are made in the light of money and status in the first place then why not try to make them superior in the relationship based on the same thing. As a Muslim. I believe men and women are equal in a relationship. Cause Muslims teachings are like that. Both have the responsibility to take care of each other (yes responsibility). I don’t care how you guys will take it anyways. It's just what I think.
I remember that I read in a novel that a female character thought something like this, "If males judge me by my looks then why not judge them by their wealth." (lol) I didn’t really know how to rebuke her back then. Cause it reflected the current social standards perfectly. The man version of it will be something like this "If women judge men by money then why not set our positions by money" (lol) See? That's what this fuss is all about. Just learn to engage in relationships basing on your affection for each other and all these problems would be solved. Lol. (Again this comment was only based on current social standards. So, Don't get angry with it for me lol)
QA is just upset about how society is
Yeap. But changing personal thought process is not a small achievement. Society hasn't improved much over the past decade.
It’s all about mental capacity in power, weather it’s age, gender or position
underage sex is illegal... no matter man or woman...
Because it perverted
That isn't a gender specific view or an uncommon one, it is the default position generally held by society, not because its right but because we are yet to achieve equality and it remains to be seen what that really looks like, we have tackled the most obvious things but there are so many subtleties and deeply engrained errors in thinking which are just taken in by people and then repeated without ever being challenged.
Thats just how culture works, you soak it up and conform to the group, its only later on and with time and effort that you have the tools of thought required to challenge them and decide if they are going to be your own beliefs or not.
But I noticed only few men say this to justify their complexes or bias. I don't believe it's a view held by majority
Well hopefully that is because you are 10 years younger than i am and society is changing for the better but just as its commonly said that you can't be racist against white people, people think that women can't be rapists or domestic abusers etc. Its has always been men who are painted as the offenders. Im not sure if i said this to you before or not, i may have done but can you honestly say that you have never scrunitised a man interacting with a child more closely than you would a woman? If you have then you should know where this comes from, its extremely common because sexism is very deeply engrained into society and it will take a long, long time to go away, generations.
It's ignorance
Well, Im not defending the view, Im simply explaining it.
Yeah
There is also the nature of the language and the act. There really is no getting away from the mechanics of it etc. A woman is penetrated by a man, it may not be the same as an attack penetrating a defence but there is no getting away from those connotations. This is really what i have been trying to express to you about how deeply engrained it is, its there in the language. You would need a entirely new language, new words. Were I to say that a vagina engulfed a penis, the language is working the other way around, now it is the vagina which is the aggressor and dominant noun in the sentence, but no one speaks like that.