Why do women think they should orgasm before the man?
CT_CDMaster
Why do they think they deserve to orgasm first? Why do women put their pleasure before the guys? Why do so many women believe the man should give her an orgasm or even multiple orgasms before he even has one?
Never ever heard of this thing before, what the heck
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BOUNTYGUY9
+1 y
yes all true most guys no use for nothing
DemosiacXper 5
+1 y
Because male finish faster? Just a thought, but if a woman push men to do things he can't then she gotta go.
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ScarletAngelicXper 6
+1 y
Well maybe she thinks you won't spend the time to pleasure her after you finish.
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AFishy2Xper 6
+1 y
@kaylaS91 exactly
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ForeverSingle28Xper 6
+1 y
I Don't Care If The Sex Isn't Good To Me As Long As Its Pleasing Him I'm Happy
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DanishSaintXper 7
+1 y
We know very different kinds of women you and I lad!
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Alan180188Xper 7
+1 y
since when a man's penis usually goes flaccid after an orgasm for at least a while before taking another round, and the orgasm lasts like "seconds" so he cools down after and some don' t put the same effort as before the orgasm and might go colder, therefor women would like to finish first since no physical changes happens to them that might affect the sex plus their orgasms are more intense and can last for "minutes" and by having it they become more interested in you and would put more effort to please you as a reward ! dude !! if you want a rocking sex, then you should make sure they "CUM" first, after that my friend the "real show" starts !
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liarenaeXper 6
+1 y
Its no point in having sex in my opinion in the other persons not getting as much pleasure as me. In other words I dont think its that we dont care about the mans pleasure but its makes sense. If a woman cums first the man still can. If a man cums first it’ll go flaccid and the woman most likely won't be able to unless he gives her some good ass foreplay.
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liarenae
+1 y
If* not in
helvaGuru
+1 y
If I know the guy already more than somewhat I don't think I should orgasm before him. But i've experienced a few times with boys that they were going for nothing else than falling asleep when they came before I did.
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BOUNTYGUY9
+1 y
l never fall asleep on the job all l like to do is please your pussy and your mind
helva
+1 y
@BOUNTYGUY9 Perfect.
The_UpsideXper 6
+1 y
I let my girl cum first as many time as she likes before I cum because once I cum I feel relaxed and loss a bit of motivation but in saying that if she wants more I never let her down
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kaskas19Yoda
+1 y
Would you look at that, another biased poll that doesn't look for any logical answers.
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CT_CD
+1 y
What is the logical answer?
kaylaS91
+1 y
that male ejaculation=flaccid dick. So... basically, it's end-game once he reaches orgasm. If both people care to make sex enjoyable for their partner, it only makes sense to ensure the girl orgasms first before calling it a night as the guy and his dick drift off into a post-orgasmic slumber.
GoochbreakerXper 6
+1 y
terrible options, the woman wants to cum first because she will still be horny after she cums, once the man comes, it's quite likely the woman won't be able to achieve orgasm. It's biology don't be butthurt
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WitchesqeXper 4
+1 y
I see it as the woman should cum first because if the guy cums first he would just stop
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omgjassyMaster
+1 y
Not true
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jacquesvolMaster
+1 y
A woman can go on after her orgasm. Many men can not.
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Browneye57Master
+1 y
If you don't get your woman off and you do, she many never. So get her off first, then come all over her, in her, whatevs. Unless it's a session just for you - then all bets are off. And fuck them well, and hard. They'll keep coming back for more.
A vagina is a lot like a tin roof - you have to nail it a lot or it ends up over at the neighbors house. :)
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BOUNTYGUY9
+1 y
thats so true what you said love it you made me smile lol
raspberry0416Xper 7
+1 y
It has nothing to do with selfishness. It's the only way to satisfy women sexually, unless the guy wants to go down on her after he finishes.
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BOUNTYGUY9
+1 y
l would love to go down on girls pussy as l love pussy so hot l never refuse to lick girls pussy day and night
love_conquers_lustExplorer
+1 y
It's also disappointing to hear all the young girls in here who have "experience" with the issue. If you fornicated, that may be the root of your problem as to why guys won't "try".
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jeremythedrummerXper 7
+1 y
They are not automatically "entitled" to come first. Its just common sense which will create the most pleasure. However it should not be a problem if the man learns to restrict ejaculation while orgasming. In fact, the girl can help too! Ask him to let you know when he is going to peak, and get ready to squeeze his shaft. that will give him an orgasm but no ejaculation, effectively skipping the refractory period. The male can tske charge of this as well. Both parties benefit; he can last longer while being multiply orgasmic, and she gets to peak as well! Do take note that he will get too tired from thrusting so much though. So when he is getting tired, take the reins, and when she gets tired, givr the reins back! Mutual co-operation and benefit. Also, that poll is pretty discriminatory.
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AGuyWhoKnowsALittleXper 5
+1 y
Usually by the time i do im ready to fall asleep. Thats why i try to let my girlfriend first.
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43 52Never ever heard of this thing before, what the heck
yes all true most guys no use for nothing
Because male finish faster? Just a thought, but if a woman push men to do things he can't then she gotta go.
Well maybe she thinks you won't spend the time to pleasure her after you finish.
@kaylaS91 exactly
I Don't Care If The Sex Isn't Good To Me As Long As Its Pleasing Him I'm Happy
We know very different kinds of women you and I lad!
since when a man's penis usually goes flaccid after an orgasm for at least a while before taking another round, and the orgasm lasts like "seconds" so he cools down after and some don' t put the same effort as before the orgasm and might go colder, therefor women would like to finish first since no physical changes happens to them that might affect the sex plus their orgasms are more intense and can last for "minutes" and by having it they become more interested in you and would put more effort to please you as a reward !
dude !! if you want a rocking sex, then you should make sure they "CUM" first, after that my friend the "real show" starts !
Its no point in having sex in my opinion in the other persons not getting as much pleasure as me. In other words I dont think its that we dont care about the mans pleasure but its makes sense. If a woman cums first the man still can. If a man cums first it’ll go flaccid and the woman most likely won't be able to unless he gives her some good ass foreplay.
If* not in
If I know the guy already more than somewhat I don't think I should orgasm before him.
But i've experienced a few times with boys that they were going for nothing else than falling asleep when they came before I did.
l never fall asleep on the job all l like to do is please your pussy and your mind
@BOUNTYGUY9 Perfect.
I let my girl cum first as many time as she likes before I cum because once I cum I feel relaxed and loss a bit of motivation but in saying that if she wants more I never let her down
Would you look at that, another biased poll that doesn't look for any logical answers.
What is the logical answer?
that male ejaculation=flaccid dick. So... basically, it's end-game once he reaches orgasm. If both people care to make sex enjoyable for their partner, it only makes sense to ensure the girl orgasms first before calling it a night as the guy and his dick drift off into a post-orgasmic slumber.
terrible options, the woman wants to cum first because she will still be horny after she cums, once the man comes, it's quite likely the woman won't be able to achieve orgasm. It's biology don't be butthurt
I see it as the woman should cum first because if the guy cums first he would just stop
Not true
A woman can go on after her orgasm. Many men can not.
If you don't get your woman off and you do, she many never. So get her off first, then come all over her, in her, whatevs.
Unless it's a session just for you - then all bets are off.
And fuck them well, and hard. They'll keep coming back for more.
A vagina is a lot like a tin roof - you have to nail it a lot or it ends up over at the neighbors house. :)
thats so true what you said love it you made me smile lol
It has nothing to do with selfishness. It's the only way to satisfy women sexually, unless the guy wants to go down on her after he finishes.
l would love to go down on girls pussy as l love pussy so hot l never refuse to lick girls pussy day and night
It's also disappointing to hear all the young girls in here who have "experience" with the issue. If you fornicated, that may be the root of your problem as to why guys won't "try".
They are not automatically "entitled" to come first. Its just common sense which will create the most pleasure. However it should not be a problem if the man learns to restrict ejaculation while orgasming. In fact, the girl can help too! Ask him to let you know when he is going to peak, and get ready to squeeze his shaft. that will give him an orgasm but no ejaculation, effectively skipping the refractory period. The male can tske charge of this as well. Both parties benefit; he can last longer while being multiply orgasmic, and she gets to peak as well! Do take note that he will get too tired from thrusting so much though. So when he is getting tired, take the reins, and when she gets tired, givr the reins back! Mutual co-operation and benefit. Also, that poll is pretty discriminatory.
Usually by the time i do im ready to fall asleep. Thats why i try to let my girlfriend first.