Why do you feel it's not okay for a woman to dress sexy?

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Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

It’s not ok if she is dressing sexy for other’s attention , but if she is dressing sexy for me , then nothing wrong with it , When a girl is in a relationship with a man he only wants her to have eyes for him , if she barely dresses sexy for him but then all of a sudden she starts dressing sexy to go out with her friends , he is going to think she is up to no good , by wanting and seeking attention from other men and he will feel like she is cheating on him. Cuz she is pretty Much putting herself out there to get attention from other men so in a sense , she is pretty much already cheating on him Most men are territorial over a girl he gives his heart to , He pretty much knows what other men are thinking and what other men will do to try to get her in bed with him. Me personally loves girls’ that dress casual in public but then dresses sexy for me in bed , She is the type of girl I would keep by my side cuz girls that seek constant attention from other men is a turn off to me , it’s just a matter of time before she ends up in bed with another man.

EricSummer · Accepted Answer

Actually, I find it absolutely okay for a woman to dress sexy.

Except, when I had this girlfriend who liked to put her ample breasts on display with revealing or figure-hugging clothes when we went to parties. In addition she was flirty and friendly there and I did not like her getting so much attention from guys.

I learned to relax more, though. She always knew where she belonged and she never cheated on me. She did not even really notice people were trying to flirt with her. She thought they were all just naturally nice to her.

Katie1964 · Accepted Answer

Its fine if its in an appropriate time and place.  Church = not ok; Kindergarten meeting with the teacher = not ok Vaca alone with Hubby = More than OK Clubbing = ok

Jazzy54 · Accepted Answer

It’s just a personal preference for me. I don’t like showing off my body. 🤷🏽‍♀️

God_of_Thunder · Answer

I think women can dress however they want to dress.

Quackthulu2 · Answer

Lol, who the fuck told you I think that?

Sour-rose · Answer

... who you talking to exactly? the world or some singular person? Because idgaf, more power to her.

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

I don't feel that at all. The lady above looks great. I'm disinterested when a woman looks trashy. Not the same thing.

slatyb · Answer

They can wear whatever they want.

Miristheiss · Answer

Well, if I'm in a monogamous relationship with her and she is going out dressed in a really revealing way I consider that disrespectful to me and our relationship. She is still advertising herself sexually to other men. That is unacceptable. I would never have stayed in a relationship with a woman who dressed in a way I found disrespectful.

She is off the market. Quit advertising to other men. If she insisted on continuing to advertise her body/sexuality to other men then it was a deal breaker.

If she is single then there is some freedom to advertise her body to some degree to draw/attract suitors.

Still there are limits... to the wise men out there. I mean if she is dressing like a total prostitute then only fools would pursue relationships/marriage with a girl who takes it too far. She is only worthy of a casual hookup. Anyone who tries to make a girlfriend of a girl who really dresses sleazy is just a fool and he deserves the misery coming his way.

MementoMori777 · Answer

Well if it was like that women wouldn't be dressed they way they dress nowadays but something I do notice that wouldn't be too off topic from your question is that women dress sexy and then complain when they are sexualized, do what you like with that information

Dargil · Answer

She must understand there are risks of comments or cat calls. It is her free choice.

Nikki1989 · Answer

The only time I ever hear this is from incels on here.

Ben487 · Answer

I don't have a problem with women dressing sexy. I like it. That picture looks doctored though.

DextroShade · Answer

Unless she is with her man she is advertising by dressing like that. If she's single then go for it.

LiamJHayden · Answer

I don't think that way. It would be really weird if I did, actually, since I live at the beach.

LavLavLuv · Answer

Umm❓

lorenzomichael · Answer

Who told you that? Should I rather have her look all shot out. I think only the Amish like there women to look, well Amish.

Reorx · Answer

Thats fine, just don't expect to get interest from a man like me with this tactic. A woman on display seeks validation from all men. I've no interest in a woman unless its my attention alone she's seeking.

shades777 · Answer

I think its an issue if a woman acts stank if someone looks at her when she dresses sexy,

msc545 · Answer

I am fine with it but a lot of guys are not. It can lead to some uncomfortable situations with other guys who start coming on to her while you are standing there. I've had a few of those problems with drunk guys, but no violence fortunately.