Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Why does a woman who is good in bed scare a guy?
Anonymous
I notice that if you are amazing in bed, and if you've had enough experience you will know this, guys are scared of you, they play mind games to see if you will chase them, talk about other girls and try to compare you after you just made him make all kind of faces and say stupid shit, try to act cold and if you're like me you will just start to ignore him and then he'll regret it, all while trying to wipe your memory of the stupid shit he said by saying it never happened or you took it wrong, guys why can't you stfu and just have fun?
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I really see it now, men don't listen, they don't listen, they must never be wrong, okay.
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I'm over this conversation, it will make for good conversation piece when I start making YouTube videos, some people actually helped with the confusion, others acted like my exes, she must not think she is all that, it wouldn't have made a difference if you didn't make it one.
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What Girls & Guys Said
5 30because we wonder how many guys she has slept with in order to be this good...
Probably this^^^
@ThisDudeHere What if she's just gifted, did you know that I got good after one year of sex, my first was dominating and controlling me, he was manipulative and seemed obsessed over me, from there on my number kept growing because they behave the same. I cried, did what they said, acted insecure, nothing worked for too long, wanna know what I've learned?, men have lower standards than they want to admit, if you exceed it they don't feel comfortable around you, I've had many friends that I would never marry if I were a guy and her man complains about her behind her back, I don't get complaints, I get mind games and brags behind my back, then hot and cold behavior, then influences from outside, then bam I'm the one who hasn't settled yet because I move on for my sanity.
Well... bummer...
Maybe she was in a committed relationship for a long time...
@Warmapplecrumble A lot of my relationships were serious, I had clingy bfs and it forever confused me because after they push me away they said I pushed them. They ask for commitment and wanted to move in or have kids or marriage then get weird, and these men on here telling me you're just mad cause you got dumped, actually girls who have not made it past the one night stand are not as angry as I am, only relationships make you this mad.
I know what it was. When you love someone a lot, you become a part of them. And men don't want to loose their identity. I won't brag about my partner... but I believe he is a organ in my body. And if my organ decides to leave me I'd be dead.
@Warmapplecrumble I am not bragging, I need to make a YouTube video, I am the least boastful person and my exes take it to mean that I am full of myself because I don't act like other girls, they show off or boast, and try to prove, one moment it's attractive next moment they are trying to compare me to force me to want to prove soemthing so I look worried, wtf should I do?, I know when a man sees something special in you he tears you down, I am too tired of it, I get into it at the grocery store too, one time I was shouting at a guy saying fuck off, I looked crazy but I have actually been followed so I have to be standing up, shocked when I saw people defending me, usually they just ignore or take the man's side, and I'm not married so no one to protect me, but protect me how?, he won't be different.
The guy probably doesn't understand you. And is scared to loose himself. What exactly happened? Who did what to you?
@Warmapplecrumble I was wearing shades because it's hot out. I went into the store and took up a basket, guy follows me. I act like I don't see him. Every where I go he follows I pretend to not see him. I went to wine Isle he follows take off shades you look stupid, I go huh?, and walk away. It was not dark in there I did not need to take off shades I will need when I go back outside, so I ignored, followed me, Idiot girl take off shades you think you look good. I went to cash register, he went across from me turned around stupid girl take it off, I said FUCK OFF IDIOT BOY BEFORE I STAB YOU, YOU'VE BEEN FOLLOWING ME GO AWAY, I'M SICK OF MEN LIKE YOU, WHY DO YOU GO OUT YOUR WAY TO MESS WITH ME? I frequent this supermarket and I think that's why people felt compel to tell him to leave me alone. I am attractive okay and men tend to just come up and say or do things, I've been groped, shoved into side walk rails, followed home so many things I'm exhausted.
I meant it was bright out in Jamaica, also as I said I dress in jeans and shirts flats, no make up to not draw attention, my dad used to attack people for grabbing me when I was a teen he's be behind me and they don't know. He also had weird obsession withe me, I was never molested by him or nay family member but I was scared growing up, people tried but I was blunt and my mom said she never worried about me being molested due to my personality, she knew I might be raped. My dad once said it was him that made me so attractive, when I got to age 22 he tried at me and I told her she said I'm disrespectful to my dad, look honey the world is insane and from what I read here they think I'm the filthy one who needs counselling, the guy next door is obsessed with me, and I've changed so many houses because of weird landlord who say what are you mixed with then I catch them staring at me weird then rude comments and slam door in my face, all this and I'm expected to think I'm the insane one.
Ugh I understand what you go through. That sounds disgusting... can you move to a better country? I don't think it sounds safe at all... Get your self a dog or a husband or a gun... you can't walk in the streets with people like that :-/
@Warmapplecrumble I stay inside a lot. I only go out when I need food, I work for myself and even then when I have to deal with men in business they stand their wasting my time trying to impress me or trying to get girls to ridicule by insulting my intelligence. I am capable of many things and one is conquering my problems so I don't rush to leave, you are right it's not safe especially because I look different from most here, that is another reason I go through the relationship issues I do. I've had close calls with my life but I am in the clear now. this is why I'm on here trying to have fun on the internet.
Well if you think its not safe try to get some protection or leave. But men here are no different they are the same and do the same stuff. :-/ Yeah I come to internet to have fun too. I like doing polls on this site its fun to see :-) how vain some people get lol :-D
@Warmapplecrumble Oh I see, how was your day? I have a red eye problem for two days, makes me worried. They are painful and super red this has never happened to me before, they make me look like I have been smoking weed.
I feel bit depressed its very cold here lols, could your eyes be red from not getting enough sleep or not blinking enough. Put cucumber on it.
@Warmapplecrumble Yes I think I needed sleep, it's gone now. I stayed up all night and morning responding to this post, plus I was already sleep deprived from working on a project so that must have been it, I was so worried that I might have some illness when I looked in the mirror, my eyes were red like blood and I looked frightening, oh my good people must rest.
All are good. There's not much difference.
LOl suuuuure, I would be happy if that were true then there wouldn't be this problem. You sound like my exes, and one time i had this girlfriend damn it was good and we were all in the back of the car, right Richie lol, because I just blew his mind in the room, please stop the nonsense we want to enjoy it too, it's not a competition.
What makes you so good? What do you do?
Not important, what's important is we don't shimmy around the , smh the problems starts again, it's like a guy who calls you ugly because you seem uninterested, saying, "girls in here are prettier anyway, you ain't all that" I'm out it's pointless.
I think you just don't have an answer
Why would I give details, you've never had good sex in your life?
That's where you're wrong. I'm very good and everyone tells me so.
I don't believe you but this is not about you so bye. I've met men great in bed and you don't sound like one.
Believe whatever you want
the experience one are tough and make the guy to perform, so better they stay away with great once, but i love challenges.
They're intimidated. If you rock a guys world and he gets weird about crazy good sex, he's probably not what you're looking for
Yes but why is he so hard to find? I'm starting to think many men out there really want a boring sex life at home so they can cheat, I'm starting to think that is the norm in their heads.
Your question makes it sound much simpler than the deeper relationship issues that appear to be going on in your comments. I think you're attributing behavior to that that -probably- is driven off other things.
becuae some thing she is slut
... but you never have sex - you're too busy looking for attention on the internet.
Because I'm single for years now fish market twat, as a lot of them tell me so many of you smell because you're busy trying to attack other girls for men, you don't know what you're really suppose to smell like. You must be a man posing as girl or a girl who knows she's bad at it but her man stays because he's cheating anyway, if you were getting it all the time and was good you'd experience the same or if you met a good one you'd be trying to figuring out what all the whooplah was about and be civil. You call this attention?, Virgos don't seek attention we hide form it, it's a burning question like the STD some of your husbands bring to you from the hooker and I thought this was a Q and A site, I can smell you from here, you're not really modest for crossing your legs, you really smell smell, straighten your posture, oh my bad men hate confidence keep slumping.
I'm not scared... bring it!
I know a gd psychiatrist. You clearly need one
yes right after you... man.
So cute you think you're intimidating
... woman
You just let me know you're intimidated I just thought you were a POS my bad, guy.
You are scary like a teddy bear with herpes. Gotta lay off ass that experience
... Girl
You need to stop humping your Teddy bear, I think you're projecting right now because I've never met a Teddy with an STD, plush love is nasty dude, staaaaaahp.
25 3 Sponsored My Conversations AnonymousAnonymous (25-29) 2h I know a gd psychiatrist. You clearly need one 0|01|0 Reply Asker (25-29) 1h yes right after you... man. Reply Show All Opinion Owner (25-29) 1h ... Girl Reply Asker (25-29) 1h You need to stop humping your Teddy bear, I think you're projecting right now because I've never met a Teddy with an STD, plush love is nasty dude, staaaaaahp.
because most guys actually want a girl that's in love with him who actually wants a committed relationship, not a slut who thinks its all fun and games.
Your future wife will be a bigger slut than I am, and she won't even know how to please you or anyone, just searching for someone to look at her the way you don't, like the way your type look at girls like me while we put out clothes back on, I hear Doctor Phil is good.
no girl really knows how to please a guy anyways because most girls are all stupid conceited slut bitches. if most girls weren't so physically beautiful guys wouldn't even want a girl in the first place.
Girls you have fucked can't please, I already know that. I tell you guys tell me, praise me then shame me then act funny, then want to be friends again, then shame me, then want to have a baby, then try to make me jealous by acting attracted to nasty women, then threatening to hurt me if I leave again. You need lame women, I get it now, they are normal to you, so you can go buy pussy at a whore house then show up in church in Sunday like a saint, everything cannot be at home, it's too scary.
no, im not a player alpha male jerk. I'm actually the nice type guy girls avoid. so don't hate on me because you fucked up and can't pick the right guy. and I only have one girl in my life and I'm married to her, she's no slut, I'm her first and last. and she's mine.
Lmfao okay good and the reason it's hard to believe?, it's because real pure hearted people don't talk like you do, you're bigoted and clueless, I was saving mine too and got raped at 17 by a Jamaican artiste because I'm pretty and I was late out, that's kinda when it started when my rapist became possessive and then the guy after him, then the guy after him then after him, you men seem to think head games mean they fuck and dump you, my one night stands for the brief period I was promiscuous turned into be my girlfriend or marry me or one time this girl (then they describe me making it seem like they know so many like me and want me to compare myself) and they'll play stupid head games, men are disgusting and protected by society, your wife doesn't know the real you because she probably is from good background of people who will kick your ass if you hurt her, look how you're talking to a woman you don't know on the internet, you're a real POS that's the real you, moving on.
just because you've been raped doesn't mean you have to be cruel to me. I didn't know you were and I feel sorry for you, and I understand why your soo bitter. I've been hurt too and you should understand that also.
I don't she's a slut for saying her statement and I appreciate the love part because I believe its true for some men but not all :-)
Don't feel sorry for me because I don't pity myself, I am a strong woman. Feel sorry for your daughter and those who will carry the legacy of slut shaming and the subjugation of women. You will all be sad pretending not to be, see you stated *I didn't know you were raped, don't take it out on me poor ole sad girl , I feel sorry for you* smh, yes while being condescending, I really scorn your kind more than you could ever pretend to do me, dear father help us, my mother was right. I have a story and it built character in me, you live in a bubble and I know it's quite boring in there, I don't try to offend people like you but people like you go TRYING to put us down, tell me something.. this need to feel superior, what does it stem from?
I am not standing up for anyone but I felt a need to reply to the guy so I did. Yes you are and everyone else to is strong. No one is weak or strong but the environment we are put in. I already feel sorry for the slut shaming. What does rape have to do with anything? Its a horrible act and any man or woman goes through it needs affection. I was never superior.. and no else is. We all come from soil and will turn to soil.
@Warmapplecrumble He tried to ridicule me for my misfortune and I'm not even sad about it, I'm just taking it in, I never attacked you, I said he is weak and I stand by it. I've been in so many situations seeing people be so weak with all the shelter and help, why do you think I get attacked so much even by my exes? I not only get attacked here, it's everywhere and many times they admit to me that they think I am strong and it's intimidating, I try to help them, they tear me down and try to destroy me, both men and women. Some people are weak and I hate to say it but they must stop projecting that on others, we are not Islands, I've had a rough enough life. Take daddy's money and mommy's love and support, get help and stop telling me I need a shrink, I'm more grounded than a lot of people here who sounded like they have it made and never struggled, fix it please I want the best for you guys okay?, slut out.
Ahhh I misread. I've gone through similar misfortunes and I understand what a rough life is. I would never feel sorry for someone in that situation or see a shrink etc. People don't really go through emotional hardship and they are worried about little things like the colour of their nails or how big their reproductive organs are. I guess the reason they don't care or understand us because they never have gone through it themselves. I've pretty much isolated myself and stay in my woman introverted cave. I just do what I like now and I still care about others, they still get to me. But you got to let them go... not everyone is nice... people are just out to get everyone. Children steal from parents, parents steal from children, doctors rely on diseases for money, lawyers rely on disputes, the whole system depends on blaming someone. You can only be yourself, only change for yourself.
@Warmapplecrumble And I plan to do just that, I just lost it because some of the people here were being immature and childish and actually tried to turn it around on me. I'm sorry that happened to you I know it's a traumatizing situation, I masked mine by dating him so I blocked it out that I lost mine to rape, he tried to marry me and so I fled, what would I have told our kids? I'm not sad about it anymore, I cried once and got over it, he's the least of my troubles. I just wanted to known why men play head games and it turned out into this :D I am usually a cheerful person with a good sense of humor. I am glad I met you and had this chat, you're a cool girl and you have great aura I can feel it.
Thanks... I am glad I helped some what :*
I don't scare them they want more but once is enough for me
They don't dump me, they don't hit and go, I am saying weird behavior, weird thing they say to try to make you think oh I do this often, I play it off and just ignore but they take it further inviting me out to hit on girls in front of me, when I break up with them, they act insane and call me crazy tell me I'm imagining things, and they don;t want me to say no in relationships after trying to sink me I must not get turned off, so I don;t know how you are allowed to say no after once, kinda odd I must be the problem, *sarcasm*