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Sexual Health Why does he keep giving in to the unprotected sex if he doesn’t want to get me pregnant?
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I don’t need people to judge here I’m just simply looking for some advice. This guy and I we have sex sometimes and lately I haven’t been on any type of birth control. We have had unprotected sex more than once. He claims he doesn’t want to get me pregnant but yet he has had unprotected sex with me multiple times. If he doesn’t want to get me pregnant why do you think he keeps giving in to having unprotected sex?
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26 71It feels better. I don't care if my girlfriend is on birth control because I know she cheated if she gets pregnant.
Why's that? You infertile?
@Littlemissbrat got a vascetomy, so yeah.
Interesting. Do the doctors perform vasectomy on demand and with the right amount of money or are there any restrictions?
@Unit1 I think it depends on location. In Oklahoma you have to be 30 or already have 3 kids. But I got it in August and had no problems in Missouri. The main thing is that a guy has to see it as permanent and irreversible. Since I am not married, it will limit the number of people who will date me, because most girls want kids.
I see. I would like to find a doctor, who just takes my money and cuts the vasa deferentia - no questions asked. Childfree that is. Is this a possibility?
@Unit1 Depends on where you are. Typically you have an appointment to talk about it. Then you set up one to get the operation. After that you have 2-3 more things. You have a post op appointment about a month after to make sure you are doing fine. You also need to provide a semen sample twice. Once after cumming at least 15 times (or after 3 months). Then again a week later. If both prove negative for semen (the test of your cum doesn't take long, so you should hear back the same day) then you are declared sterile.
Cool. What are the common questions asked on the appointment?
@Unit1 Do you ever plan on having kids? Do you have any kids? This should be seen as permanent and irreversible so don't do it unless you are sure you will never want kids. P. S. DO NOT get one just so you don't need a condom for sex
Huh. I expected more sophisticated talks but if these surgeons give in that easily and take my money and make me sterile, I'll take a vacation there to find them and get it done.
@Unit1 It's not a surgeon who you talk to. It's an urologist and there needs to be information to prove you are safe to get it done. After you meet with the urologist it could take a. onth before you get the surgery. Then you have to ice it nonstop for 48 hours. After that you can't masturbate for another 8 days. I had my meeting in June, the operation in August, and e8as declared sterile halfway through September. So it wouldn't really just be a vacation. You aren't allowed any exercise for 7 days, and nothing strenuous for 14. It's not just a quick thing.
Sounds good to me. It saves me millions down the line :) Some things require small sacrifices and those are worth it to me. I'll take that. Yeah, I've been before on a surgery. I can imagine how the procedure goes before the actual surgery. When I got LASIK I had to undergo medical examination by the eye doctors and then another examination by the surgeon himself. And then I had to submit blood analysis to check for common diseases such as Syphilis. All prior before the operation.
I mean y'all in y'all middle ages so I mean...
Because it feel better
Raw is best
you say “giving in” do you want him to get you pregnant if not then maybe you should not have unprotected sex
This is a strange phenomena in men. It’s widely known kink for men. Maybe biological or something. So girls just have to take the lead. But make us pay for birth control at least.
Because it feels so much better to cum without a condom.
I’m protected sex feels better and the feeling is too much to resist it sounds like
Why are you giving in to Unprotected Sex if it's such a big deal?
I'll admit, I laughed. She's bitching about him yet hasn't the intelligence to say no.
He’s not using a condom because it feels better he trusts you to not get pregnant or if you do to he trust you to handle it the way he wants, if you have sex wanting to get pregnant knowing he doesn’t want to, don’t complain when he’s shocked and leaves you
He does that because it feels a lot better, but you will wind up pregnant if you don't do something. See your doctor and ask about an IUD.
Maybe he likes the pulling out method or maybe he just hopes he is infertile.
Point is taken.
Does he ejaculate inside?
Sometimes and sometimes he pulls out.
If he didn't I'd say because it feels better, but since he does inside that's a bit suspicious, specially if he knows you're not even on pills.
Cause he’s one night that bright or he does want to get you pregnant.
Maybe it feels better or he wants to please you and hoping that you don't get pregnant?
It feels better & is super hot
1. most guys hate condoms
2. when a guy is in his horny mode he doesn't really think about the consequences
3. he might think that if you do get pregnant you will have an abortion and for him its obvious.. if for you it's not then make sure he understands it. and for the record I would make him sign an agreement so he will take responsibility in a case of you get pregnant.
it does feel better but the question is what happens if you do get pregant will he stick around or take off you need to make sure he uses a condom at least till you know if you to know what you want
Ladies follow me for a second...
What if everytime you have sex, you must 95% numb the inside of your pussy?
Does that sound good to you?