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Sexual Health Why does he slap me in the face during sex?
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In the beginning of our relationship he never slapped me in the face, he would just grab me by the hair during sex, not too hard. We have been together for a year now and he has been more rough with me during sex. I told him one time that I don’t mind it but that I don’t like it when he slaps me in the face very hard. He ignores it and continues to do it. One time he even hit me so hard that it made me cry and we stopped and he apoligized right after. Why does he slap me in the face? And how can I make him stop doing it?
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Just to give you all an update. We broke up. He was ignoring my feelings and was even being more agressive. So I told him I wanted to break up he went off on me, had to call my friends to help me get away. It was the best decision I ever made. Can’t believe how someone can act so different in the beginning. Thank you all for the advice!
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What Girls & Guys Said
14 32He nat get lost in the moment
He figures you deserve it.
It looks like he likes to abuse you, it does not like a good sign at all to me.
Good that you left him. Progressive abuse like that is never a good sign because it usually only get worse until you ask yourself "How did this happen? How am I in such an abusive relationship?". You saved yourself, that's good.
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Fuking ashole... I wouldn't slap my girl even if she asked. ... Show him you are mad about and let him fear losing you
I'm sorry for what happened but it was for the best. you will find a better man
Have you told him no? Sounds like his kink is rougher and rougher sex. Dangerous...
Threaten to leave.
You like fuckboys, deal with it. Woman up you slut
if you do not like it you NEED to say something. say it Now...
He watches too much porn
he doesn't care.
Your guy is simply into rough sex and if he is to have sex with you, without making you cry out of pain forhim that is not sex.
So in this situation him slapping you turns him on crazily. But you talked about himto stop slapping you face hard and he does not atop or plays deaf. Go by actions and live him for sometime untill when he realises hw messed he is.
Phrase it anyway you'd like but he considers you a piece of meat which he uses to stick his penis in and cums
We have been together for a year though.. and he shows me he loves me it’s just during sex..
He's just showing his dominance over you
So I should just let him do that?
Well question more is can you handle it?
Domination, but I think it detracts from the sex although some girls love pleasure/pain
Tell him to slap you with his boner instead, it won’t hurt much
My boyfriend does it. It’s because they like aggressive sex and are dominant or think it makes them appear dominant I think.
What you like doesn't matter. If he wants to slap you, you need to learn to accept it. Your only job is to give him pleasure. Why don't more girls understand this?
Classic weird guy with domination fetish. I'd say there's an even darker side of him that you haven't seen yet... you can't.. that's his weird fetish. Only he can stop himself and seems like he doesn't want to. Breaking up is the best option for you
sorry I misread the question ignore me please
Lots of guys like to dominat their partner
However it's not ok that he does it when you told him you didn't like it