Why does it turn me on so much when my boyfriend cheat on me?

My ex cheated on me. At first it upset me a little. But than I started thinking more and it aroused me more than anything ever had. My boyfriend from highschool. We were together my full 4 years (he was 2 grades ahead of me) but he cheated on me all 4 years. I knew he was cheating but acted like I didn't. When he went away to college it went into like overdrive. All I could think of was him with other women. I had never been that aroused in my life. When he sent a text breaking up with me because he found the girl of his dreams their I spent that night rereading the message while touching myself. Since than I always imagine whoever I am dating cheating on me. I have had 2 more boyfriend's and 1 girlfriend in that time and thought of them cheating on me too. My last boyfriend actually did cheat on me with my own cousin. But I didn't find out until after. But even that turned me on.
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  • I know a girl who only dates guys who suck 🍆 with her she’s been like that since we were kids I liked her until then but yea she wants a boyfriend who’ll suck 🍆 with her mad weird yo

  • You sound like th efemale version of a cuckold. I'm sure it has a name

    • Cuckqueen

    • Thats actually a pretty cool name

  • Should arrange a threesome

  • Because you're a Cuckqueen

  • So you have a cuck fantasy it seems

  • Cuckquean kink, perhaps

  • Well its just a fantasy i guess not all fantasies are rational

    • But it's not a fantasy. I know they cheated and stayed with them.

    • Respect yourself

    • I do. I know what I like

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  • my wife is into this

  • do you think you would like to watch them cheat

  • I suppose some people have that kink

  • Cheating is a bad manner. it shows that there is some thing wrong related to he or she.

  • I have the same exact dilemma, except for me I get upset first (even cry or get mad) but getting upset makes me even more aroused. For me I think it's also a submissive thing. The thought of a man being dominant and doing what he wants/ telling me what to do makes me so aroused.

  • You want a polygamous relationship. One where your partner has multiple lovers but you just have him.

  • I assume he was the one who hit on you

  • Sorry but this is weird af. Get help.

  • Some people have some weird fetish of watching their partner having sex. I would never do that, it's cheating to me.

    • “Cheating” is about going outside the boundaries of a couple’s relationship agreement/understanding. If a pwrson consents to their partner having sex with another and wants to watch that, and both people in the couple are ok with that then all of that isn’t “cheating” for that couple.

  • I don't know why it is but I know what it's like if I'm the same way

    • Have you ever asked to watch them do it

    • No it's been a year since my last ex

    • I regularly watch my wife have sex

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  • Cause you're a dumb hoe

    • Dude what even 💀

    • @TheLittleInnocent what?