F*&k this guy and I don't mean have sex with him. I mean leave him. He finds every other woman attractive but not the woman he supossedly loves. I don't think things well ever change, guys like this have their head too far up their ass that they can't see what's in front of him. You 're obviously attractive since every other guy loved what they saw so why are you staying with this guy when you could do so, so much better? This is taking a toll on your self esteem and you need to just leave. You say it has been from the beginning, it's not going to get any better.
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well it sounds to me like you tolerated it to begin with so now he doesn't feel like he's doing anything wrong since he's doing exactly like he's done in the past
but you can address the matter. explain to him, in a calm kind way, how his actions make you feel.0 0 0 0Same reason why if you work in a chocolate factory after a while you want to eat anything but chocolate most of the time. It's just an extreme manifestation of the Coolidge effect.
https://www.heretical.com/wilson/coolidge.html0 0 0 0That's a two way street! I'd agree but this has been since the beginning!
The Coolidge effect is also true for women but to a much much lesser degree. Some guys also seem to treat the woman they have a relationship like their mother or something. To resent her for dominating or making demands on them or controlling their sexuality. That's the only other thing i can think of.
Sad thing is your right. Instead of the sexy, crazy woman I am I'm with a man that kisses me on the forehead like his mother. But the Coolidge effect part I think your off. I think men use that as an excuse to oggle and the truth is women enjoy eye candy just as much! Just like sex get boring for them too!
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0 5Taking you for granted is my guess. Sorry. Not sure how to fix it. I'd find a good couple's therapist.
1 0 0 0Okey men are like this, but first, are you sure you are sexy? Because if not, it would explain his behavior. Dont take it as doubt, but it is difficult to answer without knowing how do you look.
0 0 0 0I'm sure! Since he's met me we have couples trying to pick me up. that's new to him, not me. Guys half my age ask him if we could 3 some. Men try to pick me up in front of him as do women. I look around and others eyes are on me just not my mans eyes!
I'm 5"7 almost all leg. Weigh 120 lbs. I'm a c cup. Green eyes, hi cheekbones, bodies toned since I have a very physical job. I was a model for years!
His friends meet me and say " she's pretty"
He's an idiot for not appreciating what's in front of him
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0 0 0 0He's being respectful
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