Why does sex have to finish when the guy cums?

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Real life isn't porn... Most of you are selfish for this reason, and if she cums, well, that was just luck.

Makeushiver · Accepted Answer

Because right after I cum my cock gets acutely oversensitized to the point that friction on my post pumped cock fell so goog, it's almost impossible to stand. what still feels pleasurable but almost painfully so. I'd love to learn to hang in for that and keep pounding pussy multi-orgasmically like some women have the incredibly sexy capability to having multiple orgasms through on going head I am giving her. I've had lovers who could cum multiple times but every on after the 1st was massaging her g-spot and fondling other less visited places on her body the returning with sucking her clit as her g-spot orgasm starts Correct me if I'm wrong but it's my impression that many women who can cum multiple times but do the later feel like clit orgasms or g-spot, and some girls have cervicle orgasms while other girls have told me they find that tapping their cervix is very painful, comment on that would be appreciated.
I make a point of getting most lovers off orally a couple times before fucking so she's been tended to. Lastly, you don't know how much many guys want partners to cum and will use different anesthetics to lessen the sensation on their hard ons so they don't cum to quickly. If that ever is a problem and you use condoms for birth control then you muy the least expensive ones on the market. It make your dick feel like your opssy isn't in the same time some. I always feel shitty if I hear, feel, see if I, m fucking a lover and it'as built slowly and you've devmy wad wheeloped a rythymn then I hate to shoot my wad when I know she's a couple more strokes of coming. I usually have a vibrator and a few other toys so when the fleash weakens the imagination steps in. If I can get a powerful vibe on her clit or a rabbit that vibrates both g-spot and clit. that can snatch victory from the jaws of ignominius defeat usually is a story where everyone live ha

caring__1 · Accepted Answer

After a man ejaculates, he becomes drowsy. He can focus and continue to stay connected, but many men just give in to the drowsiness. The drowsiness is short-lived. If he stays in the moment, it passes fairly quickly.

If he's not falling asleep, preferring to get up and focus on something else, then he just saw sex as a stress-reducer, not a connection with you. In other words, he was just masturbating using your body. He achieved his objective, and now you become irrelevant.

Communicate how you feel and see if he cares. Your relationship can grow if both of you choose to be both student and teacher, learning all you can from your partner, while clearly educating your partner as to what works best for you. Choose your partner wisely. Never expect others to change for you. That will only lead to frustration and disappointment.

Anfin · Accepted Answer

It should be a two way street. Yes, sometimes he will have an orgasm before you, but he should do the effort of giving you one too.

I am usually fine with him finish before me, but if it happens all the time I get bored and just don't want to sleep with him anymore, and why should I.

KimKardashiansFeet · Accepted Answer

I dont get guys who do that.. I see many comments here about the wiener going limp but like- ever heard of fingers or toys? sometimes my guy finishes before im satisfied but he will still do whatever he can to make me cum, very stubborn on wanting to satisfy me as well.

chrissykerdock · Answer

after they cum they generally lose interest... plus their dicks go limp... besides after they cum isn't it a good time to get something to drink.

heymynameisMatt · Answer

The girl should cum before the man if not twice.

maceygirl · Answer

The "round" of sex is finished when he cums But that doesn't mean he can't go for round 2? If he isn't willing then he isn't worth it!

AshleyTaylorDanny · Answer

It doesn't with us... my husband stays hard and keeps going

Quackthulu · Answer

Only the case if its only one guy.

SoapySandwich · Answer

It doesn't have to finish but often it can and there are many reasons it could. The guy could be selfish, it could be accidental and he hasn't got the ability to continue, she might have made it awkward for him over it or he might've tried for really long and just given up XD

weysally · Answer

not if you have the right man, who understands your needs

Hawner · Answer

If I happen to finish before her, I simply try to keep pleasuring her as I can until she does. I may not be able to continue penetrating her, but there are other means.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Thank you for telling us that we are assholes. That was very inspiring!

Tyrael · Answer

That's why i always try to make them come with oral first, that way I've at least done that.

Everyoneisplastic · Answer

When a guy cums, he can't go any futher. It's called biology. The penile erection goes away after the male orgasms. In other words, boners go poof after cum. No boner=no penetration, no penetration=no sex. You have to wait a little bit (10-30mins depending on the guy) then you can go at it again. Real life isn't porn, the guy doesn't still have a full throb on 10mins after cumming.

nerdybutlazy · Answer

I kinda like to follow this rule, "if you have sex with someone and they didn't cum, they fuck you. You didn't fuck them".

rachel776 · Answer

sometimes i prefer this, i like the feeling of sex and don't need to cum every single time

JackSmy · Answer

But some of us are not, and some of us actually specifically dedicate some days, just for her joy, and anything she desires. . .

Gooblegobble · Answer

Your boyfriends have been selfish, don’t blame the rest of us.

Berethor · Answer

A guy's orgasm is important for reproduction, a girl's orgasm don't, blame biology. :)

Tamera952 · Answer

Because if a male is involved, that's when it comes to an end, literally.

Alyssa11 · Answer

True :(

AndyOh · Answer

I think you need to find better lovers, like ones that will get you off a few times before they blow.
I like to get my partner off a few times before I even penetrate.
Now if it is a Tuesday morning and I roll over and and pop it in for a quicky, a little different.
Part of that man-woman thing.

TruthBringer · Answer

Like others have said, dicks get soft after cumming and it's not something men can control. However, lasting longer is something that can be controlled through having sex more often, good rest AND NOT MASTURBATING TO PORN. Sorry hun, but you have to find yourself a dude who will last longer.

I personally have no issues making a girl orgasm multiple times (no they don't fake it, otherwise I can tell). Because I don't ruin my body with porn or masturbation.

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