Why does sex have to finish when the guy cums?

Real life isn't porn... Most of you are selfish for this reason, and if she cums, well, that was just luck.
Why does sex have to finish when the guy cums?
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  • Not necessarily true. I understand that might seem the way things are, but if women stay in it and say im not done than I am certain their matter will help them finish

  • It doesn't in 4 minutes i am hard again and ready for another round 4 minutes after im ready again.

  • It's painful to keep going after cumming

  • If the guy could last longer he would, you can't help the fact he gets excited during sex

  • After a man comes he wants to sleep, that is how we function biologically. We're not multi-orgasmic.

  • O for one don't even think of getting any attention untill I've made my partner cum at least once before we start. Then after that is is a lot easier and fun to carry one with more.

  • I agree with you... Guys need to pay more attention to the girls needs and wants in bed. A guy is going to get his, he should make sure she gets hers too.

    • Exactly!!!

  • Some guys are just selfish. I do my best to make sure she cums first every time

  • Sex absolutely does not have to stop if the guy cums. I got fingers and a tongue and many skills. And round 2 is just a few minutes away most of the time. Besides, I like to make a girl cum before I even use my cock in her. Just the way I roll

  • it doesn't and shouldn't

  • Because that’s when we get soft. I usually make sure the girl cums 2-3 times first tho.

  • A lot of guys go limp after they cum. Fortunately, I have Hyperspermia which means my body makes a very large volume of ejaculate/cum. I don’t go limp after fucking and cumming. My cock will stay hard for 2-3 hours and I will normally cum 3-4 more times. I make sure my girl cums multiple times and I try to cum when she cums. If she is cumming and I am shooting load after load of cum into her, it often extends her orgasm. I love to fuck and I love making girls cum with my fingers, my tongue and my cock.

  • It’s basically biology, male orgasm releases sleep hormones, so it’s why I make sure she comes first before I do, else I pleasure her while I recover and go again.

  • That’s when it starts for me!

  • I don't don't stop until her eyes roll into the back of her head.

  • People can be very selfish lovers.

  • Well if the guy always gets off and the girl never does, there is something wrong that's happening. You're right in that case. That is selfish

  • Well it isn't his fault you didn't cum. If he could cum in that time, than so could you.

    • It’s very clear that you are still 20. Brain not developed yet, still thinking like a boy, thinking like you know anything about sex or even have the experience to give input.

    • Brilliant response @Gisellerichestwoman !

    • @Gisellerichestwoman 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻

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  • it's a bit hard to continue after a man cum , i would suggest to try to "restart him" try to turn him on again maybe do some cuddle or maybe tell him to use toys or just his hands on you , then after a bit he will be ready again probably

    it's not that we are selfish is just biology

  • I am not done until she is. If I, cum first (which barely happens). I go down on her until I am hard again. And then I, am back at it. Lol

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