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Sexual Health Why don't guys want to make me cum and what can I do about it?
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this is a problem fo rme.. im a pretty girl, beautiful hot sexy gorgeous.. the guys I end up getting with are yes from the internet.. but they're guys.. everytime a guy goes down on me.. he does NOT want to make me cum.. EVER. usually its our first time doing anything... and they go down on me.. im very horny and multiorgasmic.. its crazy how they will not make me cum. They want to prolong this CUM.. for even an hour, worse they will beat up my pussy.. its very sadistic. I would say 99% of males do this to me. I can't predict who's going to do it... I have to go through it before I kick the guy out. its not right or fair... one guy did it on purpose saying to me "well there are women who can't orgasm at all" as if I should be lucky I can even orgasm. he'd purposely not let me orgasm. for me this is suffering badly.. they are using my body just to satisfy their desires.. and purposely not making me cum.. im also repressed sexually b/c of this.. worse, these weirdos who won't make me cum, once they hit my sweet spot, they'll start beating up my pussy messing up the cum... then they'll ask ME to go down on them before they even made me cum at all.. its sickening its like theyre saying.. i won't make u cum u mak eme cum first.. or tit for tat... are they just selfish? I've realized I can't expect them to make me cum.. theyre just using me cruelly.. and badly.. this last guy.. raved on how gorgeous I am.. beautiful.. he said he watned to please me then began this bullsh*t charade.. after 30 mins of beating my pussy up and suppressing my cums I got mad and got up.. why are they doing this to me? I can't let a guy give me oral anymore b/c this is what he does.. worse if they do make me cum its just ONCE that's it.. never again. its really evil what they're doing... its not right.. do I need to go for a 5 minute rule here.. i can cum VERY EASILY... its better they just never touch my pussy if their goal is to NOT let me cum at all..
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the weird thing is.. they'll say they want to please me but they don't.. im already terrified of men b/c of this and of sex.. and it happens every single time. to know that males just don't want me to cum is hard to deal with. im nice and pretty and hot body.. im letting them do things with me and they abuse it.. this last guy beat up my pussy.. he rubbed his whiskers all over it.. it HURT.. i kept asying.. stop doing that it hurts.. he just wanted to injure my pussy!! that's all they want to do
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they want to injure my pussy... they want to suppress my cum injure my pussy and make me suffer.. im trying to get the psychology behind this.. im hot beautiful sexy.. any reason for this.. underlying psychological reason. for this reason I can't let men do anything to me anymore.. it all turns down to--them NOT letting me cum suppressing me and hurting my vagina. im a horny girl in my prime who can cum 20 times.. it is the worst thing.. in the end they want to cause PAIN to me not pleasure
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What Girls & Guys Said
5 71This is hot
I am sorry for your exoeriences. I take great pleasure in making sure my partner cums multiple times. In fact, I like to see how many times I can make a girl cum/orgasm before we're done. I will only cum after she said she has had enough and came many, many times. I love to please a woman, love how her body reacts to my touch, love making her feel good.
I don't know where your finding these guys at but get off that site maybe... Or maybe your just getting guys that don't like like eating pussy
i love it when a girl cums from my efforts - especially while i'm going down on them and they spurt in my mouth
ok i am confused. you are dating and you have guys give you oral and they like edge you? they stop when you are ready to finish?
i find it indeed very very torturous.
i think some edging is good but the final result should always be an orgasm.
Personally i consider it a two way street. if i get to finish i want my partner to finish as well
it is very very satisfactory, hot, sexy for her to have an orgasm.. plus makes the whole thing much more intense and intimate.
WTF? I always want and try to make girls orgasm at least 3 or 4 times! Once during foreplay. 2 or more times during oral pleasure and at least once during intercourse. I love the exchange of energy and emotion when a woman orgasms. Any male that doesn't want his lady to reach climax is a control freak and only cares about himself.
thats very strange l love to cum
I like to cum together with girl in same time thats hot.
That's a lot of pain there... I wish I would have met you
I would have made you sit on my fave untill you'd have drowned me in your cum
What do you mean they beat your pussy up? Like spanking? I heard that could be arousing haha does it hurt when they “beat it”? Is it hard for you to come?
They dont? Thats just wrong. I won't let myself finish before her.
that is a shame, I love to make girls cum
Sorry to hear that. Generally if a guy doesn’t help you cum , they’re selfish.
I wouldn't stop
For me, best part, the best thing is when girl has a strong good hard orgasm. When she can't move from it, the smile on her face makes me double horny.
Thats the idea of sex, smile happiness and you say multiorgasmic? you're a dream come true :)
But basicly say it, i want to cum like never before, just relax ;) if he dont want, well payback, dont make him cum ;) you'll kill his ego trust me :)
Im saying this as a guy who wants to please a girl, so just say it, communication is very important :) plus if you are hot its easily done :)
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I want ro feel how u cum. I dont like when i make sex to get the female like that.. I make that girl to cum whith me inside his pussy
I love being covered with girls cum.. the taste is amazing
Those guys are selfish.
They don't no how get a man