Why don’t men wait for sex anymore? why is sex such a high priority for men?

Or wait for marriage…?

I feel like men lack self control and they don’t actually value the woman…

A man is only nice to you if he knows sex will eventually happen… it’s sickening that sex is only important and more than a connection…

I feel like men are overly obsessed with sex..
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  • Easy one because God has been thrown to the curb and it’s a free world of do what ever you want and whatever makes you feel good a relationship world based on emotions, today I feel like this tomorrow I feel like that. Me me me me I’m going to be in this relationship to see what you can do for me or how you can help complete me VS I am complete I’m going to this relationship to see what I can give. It’s very sad actually.

  • It's true I do obsess over sex but I feel that's only because I'm 21 and haven't had sex yet. I just want to know what it's like. All the other guys and girls are having sex. Why can't I?

  • I haven’t had sex this year. It’s a discipline thing and you don’t need to have it

  • Because girls get ready to do it. And I have been approached by many girls to do it so... 🤷🏻‍♂️

  • Men have always had a high sex drive compared to women. In the past this was handled by socially enforced monogamy where both men and women were married young. Now we have a deregulated sexual marketplace where women are encouraged to be single and promiscuous. Because of this, men assume that most unmarried women are whores who are riding the cock carousel or at least gave it up to some other guy on the first night. Men don't want to wait for what Chad and Tyrone didn't have to wait for.

  • Those who are unwilling to wait do not wait because they know there are lots of women out there who are willing.

  • Why would they and evolution

  • I don't think women respect men now if they don't just grab them and show them their dominant side.

  • I don't wait for marriage. I won't even propose before having sex, and by that I mean I won't even be considering a ring. As for waiting, you can hold out for 2 years, if you don't want sex by then, I figure you aren't ever going to be comfortable enough for it. I also won't have sex before 3 months (6 if you're a virgin). So I wait and force girls to wait.

  • Define "nice"!

    Because what I've found to hold true is that a woman would call a man nice who takes his time, makes the effort and don't mind treating a woman the way she wants to be treated.

    Like there's a lot of expectations women put on men and nor just demand out of us but take for granted. Now, many men are willing to meet you on these demands on the ONE condition that sex is at least on the table should you come to like eachother. It's the ONE condition because it's all women have to offer most men who have it together and let's be honest, you wouldn't go for any other man anyways.

  • Last I heard, women were the ones doing friends with benefits, and one night stands

  • For the same reason women don't

  • Both parties not just men

  • Not just for men women too. We live in a hookup culture people don't even look for a relationship anymore

  • probably because we are held to ransom with it more so it makes us want it more

  • alway was

  • now its no more linked with marriage tag, thankfully.

  • Because women are getting run through by so many men, we just want to get in line and bust a nut. Why you ask? Because modern women are of such low quality there is no other reason to interact with them.

  • Oh no, that man who spoke with you wants to have sex eventually. Shocker! 🙄

  • Wonen think It isn't too early for the man to provide, protect, and bend over backwards for the woman, but it's too early to have sex? Two months is the longest I'm waiting.

    • by the way. Waiting for marriage is for idiots. Have fun because miserable because you married someone you aren't sexually compatible with. Sex isn't the only important thing, but It IS important- especially in a marriage.

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