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He rarely will give quick suck on my nipple (like 30 seconds)
He has maybe only 3 times ( in a year) rubbed me down there. And it lasts like a minute at most
He wants to dive into sex the minute he gets hard and while its OK for quickies it happens every single time.
After having sex yesterday he rubbed me so nicely it felt amazing. How do i get him to do it more often and BEFORE sex?
After reading tons of articles it seems most guys avoid foreplay.
Why do most guys not understand the importance of foreplay to a woman?
And how can i bring it up without making it seem like I'm insulting him or making it seem like he's bad at sex ( the actual sex is great but could be better with foreplay.)?
What Girls & Guys Said
2 29Honestly, it might be best to just ask him.
Just talk to him tell him what you want and like tell him it turns you on and I promise he'll do it
I can't even believe that. I'd definitely do a lot of foreplay. Especially if that is what she needs. I just really want to bring as much pleasure as I can for her. And I hope I'd receive it back too.
With me it would be the opposite, you'd rather beg for sex.
I'd rather not have to beg for either.
Fair enough
They just like getting down to sexual business.
I personally love foreplay.
I fell nothing when I do it, yes it is nice activity, but sex where is all the excitement, when for women it is different story...
Well women need to be wet and aroused to continue with sex.
I'm not asking or denying need of it, just explained why I'm not in to it... I realize, that without proper time spent on that, I will be replaced or not get anywhere...
Do you ever talk to him about it and tell him what you want and need? If so and he's not doing it, then he cares very little for you!
I disagree with the statement "most men AVOID foreplay". While some may, I think it's only a case of we don't need nearly as much as you do (so we forget you need more), and women tend to NOT say anything either a lot of the time. But, there are also some guys that simply don't care (selfish).
HEY don't blame all of us just because YOU chose poorly!!!
Guys who don't like foreplay with women might prefer it with men... Dump that moron and find a real man.
I'm not blaming anyone nor is it my fault. I figured he just happened to be one jerk in the bunch. But as I said after looking online i saw many woman had similar experiences.