Why don't the guys ever want to do forplay for more than 2 minutes?

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  • When this happens you can tell exactly who the guy is how long do guys going to be in your life because the guy makes it all about him if a guy does not make it all about you then he's selfish he wants to get his nut and either sit back down and watch TV or he has something he has to go take care of he wants to leave when a guy really likes you there is no time living on foreplay foreplays every second of the day I don't care if you've been together for 5 minutes 5 days 5 months 5 years when a guy is into you he's always going to make it about you he's always going to take that time to make you feel something like you've never felt before and it will not be the same routine over and over everything will be different because he knows if he makes it all about you you're going to make it all about him you're going to get excited you're going to express it in many different ways and that's going to turn him on and the more he can get you turned on then that's the more he's going to get turned on himself the guys that don't want foreplay are basically the guys that want to put it in Take 2 minutes and they're done they're only thinking of themselves

Most Helpful Guy

  • My goal in foreplay, both by oral and by fingering, are to bring her fully into orgasm. She, and other women I have been with, are far more likely to get another "surge" than I ever can. So, if I am lucky and prompt, I can mount up and catch her orgasm before it fades and give her another surge. Even if I don't, she enjoys my fast and furious sprint to orgasm anyway. And once she is ready, two minutes is just right.

    https://www.youtube.com/embed/YIbYCOiETx0

    And foreplay takes as long as it takes for her to cum, whether 10 minutes or a half hour.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Because they never learned. We have to educate them. Take the initiative and learn him how to get an explosive foreplay.

    • Never been taught. Self educated.

  • are you speaking for all guys in general? because you’re wrong in that case…

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • A lot of guys just want to rush into it. Every guy is different though. Any guy that cares about the girl he's with should be considerate enough to get her off too.

    I usually eat a girl out before sex and try to make her cum at least once from that. Most girls I've done this with, once they're ready for sex, they will grab my head and pull me from between their legs and get ready for sex. Some girls will even grab my dick and insert it into them after that.

    The best thing to do if you want foreplay to last longer is to tell the guy you want to be eaten out or suck him off, or have him kiss your neck, or your fingers, or whatever else you're into.

    Any considerate guy will be OK with it. And it's OK to let him know what kinds of kinks and fetishes you're into. Those are what makes the sex even better.

  • If they're one night stands that may be a reason, if I'm only sleeping for a woman for the night, it isn't like I have to care if she gets hers.
    Otherwise you've got me, sex, and relationships tend to be a lot better if I take care of my partner better in bed, that attitude carries over to other aspects of the relationship.
    What's the nature of the relationship, monogamous, casual? It could be a hint there.

  • Because you choose the wrong guys to invite into your bed.

  • Every time I have sex I spend hours at it. I love touching her all over, and I love giving her oral, even better than I love receiving it. You must really have bad choice in men! There is another woman on here who asked why men love eating pussy so much. She apparently has chosen the men who enjoy giving her pleasure. I can't imagine spending just a short time doing that. Two minutes is just not worth the effort!

    I've always wondered, why do men love eating pussy so much?

  • If that's been your experience, you need to upgrade your guys.

    I love giving oral. After I've given her two or three orgasms, she wants me inside. It's a good program for both of us.

  • Your selection standards suck.

  • Because foreplay is mostly a woman thing, men don't need that, men go for the main event.

  • Depends on the guy. I love going down on my girlfriend. Just keep finding the wrong guys, sounds like.

  • Because the foreplay itself makes the guys become horny, and they want to do something about it by cumming inside you or on you quickly. But they need to learn to take it slow and just enjoy even the appetizer to the meal. The longer the foreplay, the better the whole experience.

  • You been with the wrong guys’ then , Cuz I love foreplay , Way more than 2 minutes , I prefer foreplay when it comes to sex , why Rush a great thing?

  • Could be your smell, indecision, the occasion or a myriad of other reasons.

    Often if sex is being "rushed" then you'll find the foreplay tends to be the first thing cut short.

  • You’ve been with the wrong guys.

  • You’re saying it like it’s a fact!

    when I like a girl, All I’m thinking about is kissing her and doing the other stuff.

    So, you’re completely wrong.

  • We do. You're simply seeing the wrong type of guy :)

  • I love lots of foreplsyvsnd always include giving oral pleasure in foreplay

  • Depends on the guy. My foreplay is about an hour. She has to cum at least 5 times from tongue and fingers and toys before I ever fuck her myself

  • You must have only had hookups then.

  • 10 to 15 should be minimum. girlfriend usually grabs my ears and tells me to get it in there.

  • I want it to last at least an hour

  • It depends on what forplay activity we would be doing cause is good but if we are going to be kissing it might as well be in but kissing is good tho and nice but it might as well be in... lol

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