Why have sex if there is no intention of love or even giving love a chance?

I fully agree with the take in the graphic below. How do others feel?

Why have sex if there is no intention of love or even giving love a chance?

The whole idea of imprinting onto each other is very real. Its the very definition of becoming one flesh between a man and woman. It’s sacred, beautiful, and I would argue a Godly act. It’s the completion of the human equation when male and female (each other’s counterpart and complementary opposite) come together in such a pure form of love.

It’s unfortunate that we live in such an evil world that such a beautiful act can be denigrated, mocked, and misused in such a casual, vein, and selfish manner. Even worse, that so many people can’t even get it anatomically correct even between a man and woman due to the ill-effects of porn, let alone within the LGBTQ community. Such a beautiful and scared act now has so many counterfeits.

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  • By your logic we should be having sex with family members because we love them.

    i agree that mindfulness in general is a good thing. But sex would get boring as fuck if the only kind of sex was love making. Sometimes you just want to get fucked and treated like a …..

  • Maybe they are just having sex for the pure pleasure of it? What's wrong with that?

    • Pleasure is great. However what of the responsibility and the risk of playing with fire by creating feelings when there is no intention?

    • Maybe there are minimal feelings. Anyway I'm kind of new to sex (only 2 girls briefly) so I still have a lot to learn.

  • Honestly? It feels good like what reason more are you looking for? People like sex

  • Because lust is a feeling you have regardless of weather or not you're romanticaly and practicaly compatible with someone else.

    Do you have to give love a chance of you and someone else feel mutual lust but you realize you live at different ends of the country but met on vacation?

    Do you have to give love a chance of you realize you want fundamentaly different lives?

    And what will you do in the meantime? Refrain from sex until you're desperate enough to try giving love a chance when you know deep down it won't work?

  • Sex is different

    love is different.

    sex is body need just as hunger.

    love is optional

  • Women only sleep with men they can see themselves being in relationship with and child bearing.

  • Because for many, sex is purely physical and has nothing to do with love or emotions.

  • love and lust shouldn't be mixed up

  • Sex and love are not the same thing. Just like love and volleyball are not the same thing.

  • I’ve been single for over ten years. I need that love to be there or there’s no sex happening. It’s that simple.

    • I very much understand and agree with you

  • What does love have to do with sex?

    • And look, some people think that and embrace that, anyways 💕😜

    • What does love have to do with it? Seriously? No wonder the world is so screwed up when it comes to relationships!

  • So, you actually believe sex can heal the universe through vibration?

    • Don't know if it can heal the universe, but loving sex with a longtime partner is nothing but good. What I disagree with is the LGBTQ issue. I know gay men who've been together for 20 and 30 years or more, as well as lesbians who are in love with and faithful to each other. There is nothing different about their sexual relations except the varied organs involved or not involved. BUT, some people are cut off from these positive feelings and do not know how to engage in sex in this manner, or are not interested in having sex at all for many emotionally disturbed reasons. So, the world healing might not come true, except with those in touch with themselves.

    • @Screenwriter I agree with everything you said here. And truth be told, I actually agree with some of what QA wrote. But if you have read more than a few of his posts on GAG related to all things sexual (which is all he ever posts about), you'll know he consistently comes off as a patronizing, pompous, disdainful, judgmental, prudish little dick, so it's hard to take anything he says seriously.

    • Not familiar with his regular posts. But he came off as serious. I will add grain of salt in future.

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