Why is every freaking guy into anal?

[Anonymous]

Like I hate it. When they tell me that they're into anal it immediately turns me off them. It seems like every single STUPID guy out there is more interested in ass hole when I have a VAGINA that's made for sex.
I've heard plenty of guys tell me they prefer anal which me and my vagina are very offended by like what... you prefer the poop chute? I think there is something wrong with these people.

[Browneye57]

It's about half of them, the other half thinks it's gross.
Most of them spend WAY too much time jerking off to porn, which is all fake anyway. You watch enough of that depravity you start to believe it. Then we get all the stupid questions on here, like...
are all women bi
do all women like anal
where should a guy cum on a girl
is it rude if I don't swallow
do guys like girls to gag on their dick
why is my dick so small
why is my vagina so ugly
what do I do with small tits, do guys like them?

And it goes on and on and on. Consider asking them if they're a porn addict - that will tell you right there whether they're already fucked up or not. You cannot compete with porn with a porn addict.

That said, about 75-80% of LDR's try anal sex at some point.
About 30-35% of women will tolerate it occasionally.
About 10-15% like it a lot and do it all the time.
It can be messy, it's not for casual encounters. There are health risks.

But there are a bazillion nerve endings there, and once associated with pleasure can produce giant orgasms, especially in conjunction with direct clitoral stimulation.

If you don't want to do it, just say no. And stick to it.
And there you have it, the whole low-down on butt-sex. :)

[Browneye57]

*... LTR's - long term relationships... not LDR's. LOL Too many L's. LOL

[johnsmall23]

I agree. I hate anal. The asshole just isn't made for that. It's not as soft as the vagina, not as elastic as the vagina, not as lubricating as the vagina and it could lead to some damage like hemorroids or wounds. I can't even believe that so many men would like this. I don't want to see shit on my dick right in the middle of sex.

[OldSchool_Metalhead]

"I have a VAGINA thats made for sex"

Lemme ask you a weird question. Do you get creeped out at the thought of sucking a guy off? I ask because technically our mouths aren't made for sex either (the same as how our asses are for, ya know, and not for sex) yet its something thats heard about and seen a lot in porn. Some guys are open to doing the dirty in more than one place than just pussy because it could feel good and/or because they dont want the sex to get boring. But everybody has their own likes and dislikes

[Asker]

I dont like sucking dick either cause they try and jizz on my face

[Jamie05rhs]

So tell them not to.

[JonJames]

When you have your first anal orgasm, you will get it.

[AllieOops]

Good question. Why the old poop chute is more desired than the vagina, which was designed for sex, ix beyond me. If you find out let me know because I am clueless.

[JonJames]

Yes. But do you allow penis entry into said poop shoot?

[MORPHEUS_12]

I agree with you a million percent. All you need to see it a porn star with a gapping hole in her ass, much larger than what she was born it. These are the people who eventually will not be able to hold it if they had diarrhea. I think men like it because there is no chances of pregnancy. Also it makes me think they have twisted delusional fantasies from watching porn.

[domasphuck]

Guys always want the things they can't have or where other guys haven't been so anal fits both those descriptions. And its a different sensation spice things up.

[djmzes]

Simple

[AustinMan]

Why My Partners and I Love Anal Sex ↗

[AustinMan]

What do you find so offensive about it? Would you be willing to open your mind about it with a trusted partner?

[Daniela1982]

How would you like a big 10 inch strap on up your ass? Would you take one for the team or wuss out?

[AustinMan]

I love a good prostate massage.

Maybe this will help allay your fears:
Comfortable Anal Sex for Beginners: A Guide to the First Time ↗

[JonJames]

@Daniela1982 Girls put out. Guys put in. It is the nature of sex.

[Elliot0_07]

@Daniela1982 I mean, girls were made to receive dick not men... So it's your problem to take their dick inside you.

[chrissykerdock]

younger guys definitely want anal more and older guys definitely like blowjobs more so which do you choose? i'd rather give a blowjob anyday than anal that fucking hurts.

[JonJames]

Only if you don't do it right. How about giving a BJ with a comfortable butt plug in? Lotta girls say it works wonders. Changes the HOLE situation -- for the better.

[chrissykerdock]

@JonJames you mean give a blowjob then have anal later?

[JonJames]

Sorta kinda. You learn to give a BJ with a butt plug in your bum hole. Helps you get ready for anal. BUTT -- you don't have to do it the same day. You can give a whole bunch of BJs when the butt plug is in there. Then, if you decide to try anal, your ass will be ready.

[chrissykerdock]

@JonJames oh i see... do you like it that way?

[JonJames]

No. I love it that way! It is not necessary for every girl -- the butt plug training. But many find it helpful. Even a finger gently rubbing your rosebud during a BJ can take things to a new level. He can sort of conduct the speed of your BJ with his finger -- the faster her rubs the faster you suck. Spit or swallow?

[chrissykerdock]

@JonJames swallow of course... i was meaning do you like several blowjobs in a day and i guess you like anal... i've had anal

[JonJames]

O OK. Well I love a cocoon session. You know, everything is taking care of for awhile, The bar and fridge are stocked. No pressing social activities. You can just enjoy each other over a long session. There should be multiple -- everything. One time I fucked a girl in the ass 7 times in one day. It was not all my idea. Or maybe it was. Who knows? But we would do it, and rest for a bit. I'd look over and he would be face down with both hands spreading her ass. No words needed. Around the sixth time I said "This is like the anal Olympics." She said "Are you going to go for the Gold" -- and spread even wider. The cool thing is, each load made her hole easier to fuck. By the third time or so, no real prep needed. We wanted anal, and it went right in. Have you had anal just once? Many a time? Ever enjoyed it to a great extent? Or never really got it good?

[chrissykerdock]

@JonJames i got it good... the most only twice in a day but i was sore as hell... a good sore but sore... blowjobs i give usaully when my boyfriend or date wants one... it's not too difficult to get on your knees to give one or two... when i get sore from anal i do a lot of bath time... anal can make your butt wiggle and you feel it all oh so well.

[JonJames]

The better you get at it -- the less sore it will be. Even still, they make a little cocoa butter cream capsule that melts with body heat. I'd put them in her ass to help soothe the hole. The cool thing was, it also was great lube. What happened to the cum? Did he shoot so deep, it never came out? Spurted out right after? Or you were so dazed, you really don't know what happened to it?

[chrissykerdock]

@JonJames funny when a man cums in you from anal it always drips out and runs down your leg... well not always but often enough... i was referencing when i was younger i got sore from it... maybe didn't build up... then i had a boyfriend for 10 years who didn't like anal... and i've had it lately with a new boyfriend but he's mostly into blowjobs.

[JonJames]

Well there is a way to do it so that not one drip drops out. You have a second sphincter up inside butt hole. THIS is where you want the head of his dick. If he cums in here, the ring can often close, and nothing comes out. It goes... anus... rectum... colon mouth. The rectum is 4-6 inches long, so it without a special technique, it can be hard to get the head in there. Luckily, you have had the answer with you all your life. You need to push out with your strong muscles -- yes like trying to push his dick out -- while he cums. He should not go in and out, but rather grind on the ass. You flat on tummy works well. As soon as you take the first few shot -- THEN -- you clench off. It is actually very fast and easy once you learn to control your muscles with anal kegels. Anyway, you clench hard until you milk him dry. Then when he pulls out, he helps you out by holding your cheeks shut -- even for a few minutes after he pulls out. When he spreads cheeks, there should not be a drop of cum. The advantage? You can take your post-sex nap and not worry about the bathroom. Later, it will come out at once -- so no sitting and dripping. Sometimes, it does not really come out at all. Your colon as the ability to absorb water, so it can pull all the water out of the semen. Not much left after that. You ass literally eats cum. Added bonus? Studies show when a woman absorbs cum -- orally, vaginally or especially through the colon -- she is happier. Happier wife, happier life!

[chrissykerdock]

@JonJames wow that's a really detailed explanation... thanks!

[JonJames]

You are very welcome. Just like the Wizard of Oz -- you have what you've been looking for all along!

[JonJames]

One of the best things you can do? Practice anal kegels on your own. It is easy, and once you learn? You can do them anywhere. A long drive. Watching a movie, etc. Take a mirror and place it on your chair. Make sure you are warmed up a bit first and "in the mood." Reach back and spread your cheeks over the mirror. Try to to spread VAG -- or high crack. Spread the ass HOLE -- and just look for a second. It's good for you to see it anyway. Now push out easy -- just like trying to push his dick out. Relax. Don't hold your breath. Breathe out -- and PUSH OUT. There. Do you see it open a bit (o)? Good, now push out -- the HOLD IT. That means clamp down and clench off. You should see the star *. Then push out... hold it. Push out... hold it. You should see (o) * (o) * (o) *. Unfortunately most women underuse these powerful ass muscles -- which already move when you orgasm. You are just adding to it -- like lifting weights for better sports performance. You can get REALLY good at it. One girl could grab and suck the head of my dick this way until I shot in her ass. (To be fair, I was kinda close anyway). She said it also worked her stomach muscles. She gets a tighter tummy, and WAY better anal orgasms and orgasms in general. I get to enjoy the grip of her asshole over and over. Talk about a win/win!

[chrissykerdock]

@JonJames what do you like about anal as opposed to getting a blowjob

[JonJames]

Holy Gosh. What a question. So many levels. First off -- I do love a good BJ. I even love a good HJ -- or at least add some of that. Very underrated when you add in nasty talk. So it is not all about one or the other. It's jus that when I get it right, the girl is left a quivering mess on the bed with anal. I really got one girl into the PUSH OUT and HOLD IT techniques. She really started to love it, and was impressed with the strength of muscles she never knew she had. I mean at this point, we had done a lot of nasty nasty. In fact, she was very encouraging about the exploration of her back passage. Everything else was good too -- and she swallowed. But I don't know. Her asshole was just compelling. Plus early on in the relationship, she got her asshole waxed for me. Presented as a surprise. So great. Looked very pretty. Now even ATM was part of the sessions. Blow jobs before, during and after anal. Anyway, somehow I had her flat on her belly on the bed. I was really giving it to her, and for some reason, she was having a bit of a struggle taking it. I told her "Just relax, and accept that you are taking it up the ass." Well, she gave a BIG breath and stopped clenching. She sunk into the bed. I wiggled my hips, and got the last few inches up her asshole. Ahhhhhhhhhhh... from both. Now it was on. Noises, grunts, sweat -- from both. We could both feel my dick swelling up in her rectum and I said -- "Where do you want my cum -- in mouth -- or up your ass?"

[JonJames]

NO hesitation: "I want it up may ass." Slower and longer strokes now. More deliberate. Building speed. Her mouth is already open. I say "PUSH OUT." She says "I can't." Me "Yes you can... breathe... now FUCKING PUSH!" She "Uggghhhhh" I actually felt the mouth of her colon descend and take my head in. Felt EXACTLY like a mouth going over the head. SO HOT -- physically and mentally. I start to grind up there... she is moving but not in one direction. ALL over the place. I pin her down and grind BAM -- FIRST JET OF CUM SO FAR UP HER ASSHOLE WE BOTH THOUGHT IT WOULD COME OUT OF HER FUCKING MOUTH. Her head JERKS back. If she hit me with the reverse head butt, I would have been KO'd. The look on her face, head ALL the way back, mouth open with a GHHHHHHHHH coming out. WOW. Next shot. I FLEX my dick with the jet of cum. Guys have muscles too that can make dick move. Head back AGAIN. Third shot. Fourth shot. We must have sounded like animals. Then I told her "HOLD IT... CLENCH YOUR CHEEKS SHUT!" She did it with such a look of determination on her face. It was as if she had one goal, and this was it. And wow did she clench. I stayed plugged in for as long as I could. I withdrew slow with lots of dirty talk. I held her ass cheeks pushed tight shut for a few minutes and spread. Not one drop of cum dribbling out of her pink anus. I layed back and she curled up in ball, licking and kissing my dick like it was the love of her life. She would moan and groan and flex her body a bit -- she said her insides were still moving and she could feel the cum entering new spots in her. We fell asleep -- ass dick in her mouth -- the biggest load of cum I have ever shot moving and shaking in her depths. I just don't think all that is possible with oral or vag -- although they can be great. You can play lots of similar games. But when she INSTANTLY reacted to my mighty PUMP of cum deep into her colon -- mouth open? You just don't forget that.

[DizzyDesii]

I actually get happy when i find the rare jewels of men who are grossed out buy it. WE NEED MORE OF YOU IN THIS WORLD 🙏 cause anal is shitty

[Dchrls78104]

Wholeheartedly agree!

[Daniela1982]

Oh just be quiet and just bend over. It's not for your enjoyment it is just for some dick's enjoyment. They don't give a shit about your comfort or what you like.

[Asker]

Gross

[JonJames]

Sounds like you are speaking -- from experience?

[Daniela1982]

@JonJames No, just am used to this anal question being asked 7 days a week. But I do intend to agree with the OP.

[JonJames]

I guess I can see how that can be annoying -- if you are sure you would never, ever try. But even with the right guy -- and he promised to be gentle and never broke a promise before -- you would never try anal? You look like you have a great ass. Maybe that is it?

[wingattebaby16]

i hate anal.. and it hurts every time and I usually bleed too.

These guys should just go find another guy and use their butthole...

[JackSmy]

@wingattebaby16 Most HATE it, because they are with guys that think what they saw in porn is NORMAL!! If it hurts, and OMG, BLEEDING, then he is doing it wrong, like almost all guys!!! For any woman that says some guy wants to do anal, with her, I tell her to tell him, that she will, after she does him, with her strap-on toy, in HIS butt, first!!! Make sure it is a large, intimidating toy, too!! LOL!! Sometimes, though, it can be really sensual, really enjoyable, for both genders, if the partner knows what they are doing! I had a lovely lady introduce me to pegging play, and it can be just AMAZING, but it's about taking the time, caring, and feeling what your partner is, and relaxing into it. It is never a forced thing! I'm sorry you had bad experiences with that, with ignorant fools, that didn't bother to care about how you felt!

[Jamie05rhs]

@wingattebaby16 Don't let them put it in your butt if you don't want them to.

[centerline]

not all guys are... some of us with bigger dicks have learned long ago that it just isn't an option...

but porn depicts the ass as a more pleasurable hole to stick our dicks into, which i dont agree with, but some guys like options as to what hole they plug into.

[MCheetah]

I'M NOT. You couldn't pay me enough to do it from behind, let alone Tossed Salad.

[Warmapplecrumble]

My husband doesn't like anal sex , he's a man. So I guess not all guys like it.

[Lov2PlezUgurl]

thanks for updating your question because I've never done annal i have had sex with girls that preferred annal but failed to tell me so that was the first and last time I had sex with them I love to please women so all they have to do is tell me what they want and I will do everything in my power to give it to them so you should always tell the person that your going to have sex with what you want and don't want it's much better to communicate with each other than to leave everything up to guess work

[JackSmy]

Then WOMAN UP, and tell HIM he can't put his in you, until you put your strap-on toy in him, and get him off!!
EQUALITY, RIGHT? If you want to be an EQUAL, STAND UP AND SAY NO, and DEFINE YOUR BOUNDARIES!!

[Marcuslrh]

Yeah definitely not every guy ano I dont do anal why would I want an asshole? when I have a perfectly working vagina to pleasure right in front of me makes zero sense I dont no why they would be in to that sorry

[Berethor]

I have more respect for girls that refuse anal, and even some porn actresses don't do anal.

[Truthatanycost]

I bet the desire has been heavily influenced by pr0n.

[normalice]

Butts are sexy. We know girls can get off from anal if they want to. The butthole is easier to understand in terms of shape and sensation. Girls aren't gay for wanting dick so we don't get why they wouldn't want it in the ass. Getting a girl off from anal sex makes us feel like we have incredible sexual skill. Girls tend to think taking it is the ass is degrading and we want to challenge that, knowing that it can still get her off and orgasms tend to be strong evidence that "we were right."

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

Not every guy is into it, for example I find it gross.
Then again, I also find vaginal sex to be a little yuck.

[LiamSawyer]

There is something wrong and it's called porn addiction. They probably won't to choke you by shoving their dicks down your throat and assume you like having your face covered in cum. These are all signs of porn addiction and no longer living in reality.

[Bhavin2184]

Blame the porn..