Why is hard to forget the sexual bond with someone you did not even had a relationship with?

[Anonymous]

I mean, Does the sexual part shadows the emotional part? I mean the emotional, mental, spiritual bond is supposed to be the part that a person gets more attached to when dating someone if that person wants to be with the person for some time (not a one night stand or booty call either) but not the sexual intimacy part as the sexual part is just the physical stuff or the sexual part is much a stronger bond than the emotional, sentimental side.

One example. A friend of mine who is 48 was attracted to a guy for 5 years. The guy was into her as well but not like a girlfriend or being in a more stable relationship with her. They treated each other more as friends. So beause of that status, they never really dated like a couple, in fact they hardly hang out together but they knew for 5 years. They did see each other and ran into each other sparingly at social or family events like the guys best friend birthdays, because the guys best friend was my friend first male cousin, so it was natural if they see each other at this kind of events, especially when my friend close first cousin was this guy BFF for many years and they were like brothers. Since the guy and my friend were neer really like a couple or in a real relationship, still they had attraction to each other and the guy liked my friend physically, he had the hots for her sicne they met 5 years back. They did text each other from tiem to time and texted funny things and normal dialogue, she told me and the guy always wanted to see her but only for you know what. My friend was very like naive in these topics and was very reserved so she was not like easy to be convinced, even if she was super attracted and like the guy very much.

My friend fianlly yield to the guy 3 years ago when they saw each other on a date. That was the time my friend went intimate with this guy for the first time 5 years after they met each othernad it was my friend first time.

[ohshee]

What you know who you are exactly you understand your body chemistry we are made of water and atoms. Atoms broke down equals energy our energy is a guide it's our teacher it warns us it tells us things. Before we even see somebody we feel them most people don't understand when you first meet somebody they look at them the outside of their body and they could be love at first sight it's not that at all it's our Energies our energy just touch their energy at least two Energies become one together they communicate my energy will come back to me your energy back to you it will tell me everything about you whether I listen or not when two energies become one like that isn't sensual seduction sensation in the world it's just like we making love next time you make love check it out from the beginning to the end do become a moment in time where everything kind of stops you look into each other's eyes and you can read each other's minds that is when your energies just touched it sucks that you can't start from the beginning until the end that's what's supposed to be happening the people don't understand that anyway that's what makes a relationship special is when you can touch your energy with theirs and understand what's really happening

[Asker]

I think there were some sexual energy that it got stuck in my friends case

[ohshee]

Did you have to call the fire department how come you put it in his case

[Asker]

what?

[clampfan101]

Sex is meant for those who are already married, or at the very least a relationship strong enough where marriage is extremely possible.
It’s strange when you have it with someone you have little to no relationship with because you’re not ready for it.

[Asker]

Sex is only meant for married people? who told u that boyfriend/girlfriend also have sex and tey are not married

[Asker]

So for u it is bad to have sex only with pleausre and only if it means if uare in a relationship?

[clampfan101]

Yes.

[Asker]

Ohh boy i understand you are conservative person then.

[clampfan101]

And proud of it, yes.

[poneglyphs]

Uhh, I don't know, never had sex but if I had a girlfriend or a hookup I wouldn't remember it too much.

[Asker]

Read the whole thing

[abhi75757]

It l about pleasure

[Asker]

But in my friends case if u read the whole thing and her situation

[abhi75757]

Ok i ll read it again