Promiscuous girls literally have it all. They can get all the sex they want, find a guy who loves them to death and will take care of them. Then there are girls like me.. who try to do the right thing and all I ever get is bullshit. I'm not promiscuous and I'm a working person who doesn't spread my legs to get all the holy grails in life. Sometimes I wish I had the mindset to be a whore so that my life could be so much easier...
It's only easy for them in their 20s, and maybe early 30s for some. But, even if they are very beautiful for their age, they are still no longer YOUNG, and so they only get a small fraction of the attention they used to get, and there are FAR fewer men stepping up to pay their bills. Now imagine how it is for them when they are used to having the best of everything for simply sleeping with men, and now, even if some men will still sleep with them, they aren't giving those women much of anything. Most of those women have NO OTHER SKILLS or experience, and without their ho income, what have they got?
And if you think any of those men who gave them money actually CARED about them, you'd be very mistaken. As well, if you think men - even an average man - will want a woman with a promiscuous past as a relationship partner when she's in her 30s, after been ran through by dozens or even hundreds of men - you're crazy. Sure, they may still bang her, but such women are considered "recreational use only."
Do NOT make the mistake of confusing SEXUAL attention as being RELATIONSHIP attention, because those are two very, very different things. Most women make that mistake, and assume that because a man is giving her attention (even though it's clearly ONLY sexual attention), that he would give her a relationship commitment. That just makes most men laugh, because it's absurd. The whole reason he's spending money on her like that is so he doesn't have to feel guilty at all about the fact that he's just using her for sex, just as she's just using him for money. It's TRANSACTIONAL - it's not a relationship.
Look at all the women in their 30s and 40s who are making videos on TikTok and YouTube about "where did all the men go?" and "why aren't men stepping up to date me?" They can't accept that their only value (by their own choice!) was their youth and their pussy, and while they still have pussy, they no longer have youth, and the men they want can get YOUNG pussy - so those women no longer have ANY value to the high-value men, and even to average men, their only value is their pussy - for recreational use only.
It's the women with traditional values - the ones who haven't been ran through - that get relationships. Of course, even they aren't going to get relationships from the top 10% of men, because those men largely don't have relationships with anyone that isn't a supermodel or leading actress, etc., and even then, they usually aren't faithful. But traditional women can get guys who are 6, 7, and even 8s and get a real relationship from them - she just has to choose the man based on his morals, values, and life-goals, and not on his looks or how "exciting" he is. That "excitement" is most commonly a result of the man's chaos or danger or unpredictability - and, yeah, that can be fun and exciting at first, but it's TERRIBLE long-term. But most women pick men who are "exciting" and then wonder why the relationship never works out. "Relationship men" are often "boring" by comparison, because they are dependable, reliable, and faithful - which may not seem exciting at first, but become super-important long-term.
Picking an exciting guy is a lot like deciding to only eat ice cream for the rest of your life because it's so tasty. Yes, it might taste good, but you literally won't live very long if all you eat is ice cream - it's a horrible long-term strategy.
I don't think its wise to view cheating celebrities or casual sex transactional people as "high value" or "the top 10%". Those are bottom of the barrel types, just as bad as the sluts. So sluts can't even get a relationship with the worst men 😂
@TheSpaceGnome The problem is that value is determined by the "buyer" - and a lot of women, despite what they say, consider really good-looking guys, successful guys, wealthy guys, popular guys to be the top guys, EVEN if they know he's a cheater or even if the relationship is obviously transactional. They say they don't want such men, but that's who they pick, over and over again. And even many of the girls who don't pick these men WANT to pick them, and many would pick them if they thought they could get those guys, even for casual sex. Obviously someone who picked their partner based on morals, values, and life-goals wouldn't consider such men to be "top men", but women like that are the exception, rather than the rule, today.
I get what you are saying, but if you buy a video game because the trailer was nice, and bring it home to find out it's actually boring trash that ripped you off, you can't use the trailer to claim it's a high value game. All you can say is you didn't think the purchase through before bringing it home. These women have no clue that what they "want" isn't actually what they want. You said it yourself when mentioning sexual vs relationship attention, and the differences between partner choices.
Not true , stay like you are , A girl that can run around spreading her legs is a fucking whore , , she will never experience true love , she will be used until no one will want her anymore , Desperate guys will fuck her but they will not stay committed to her , They will just use her to get off on but they will not give their heart to her , No guy is going to stay committed to a whore , if he does then he is a Whore as well. People that do not know how to remove their inner selfishness in a committed relationship will never experience true love , Until they learn to remove that selfishness that’s where love grows , You can’t expect someone to do for you, if you can’t do for them , we can only give what we want to receive , We can’t force someone to love us , but we can treat them the same way we want to be loved in return , when you make your partner your number 1 priority over everyone else , they will more than likely do the same for you , when you wear your partners shoes before wearing your own that shows your partner you respect and appreciate them , it won’t always be perfect but when you put your selfish wants aside that’s where love grows. All men want to be respected by their girl , he isn’t going to commit to a girl that doesn’t respect him and doesn’t look up to him , When a man feels unloved and unwanted by his girl he will more than likely cheat on her with a girl that wants to respect him , Why it’s important to prioritize your partner and he will do the same in return , Do not withhold sex from him , Girls that withhold sex from their man is digging her own grave , remove your inner selfishness and you will see Love grow
Blaming other girls for having more sex than you and having a perceived easier life doesn't necessarily make that the truth. Being upset that they have more sex than you isn't going to help you change things either. I imagine life isn't "easy" for them because I'm sure it's just as difficult for them to find a real connection for them despite constantly having sex. What you see as a "guy who loves them to death" is more likely a man that's putting on a facade to stay in her good graces to have sex with her again, either that or you don't know how he's stalking her, or causing some kind of issues in her life and her complaining about him giving his attention to her is a real concern because she doesn't want him in her life for whatever reason. Sex is not the answer to everything, neither is shaming the people who have it. Don't be an incel.
Shamings sluts is a good thing. Also thats not what incel means.
I'm not upset about girls having more sex than me because I could care less What I was saying here is that I wish I had the dignity to spread my legs open a luck out on a guy, get married, have kids, etc like they do with minimum to no effort. That's all.
But it’s not minimum effort, that also takes work and you’re acting like meaningless sex is the cure-all for your singlehood and loneliness. Relationships take time, and work, sex is part of those relationships yes, but it’s not a magic button that makes the relationship worthy of marriage or god forbid pregnancy. And why tear down women who do things differently than you? Talking about how they “spread their legs” is incredibly derogatory and shameful, you know you’re better than that.
Men will tell you how they like good girls…
Don’t believe them, I was an angel for my ex fiance. I was a real angel for him, in the end he went for a much worse girl than I am.
So just be you, don’t expect a world to be fair.
“Everyone’s different,” even guys. But I love your very wise last statement.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!You seem to call people names a lot and tend to judge other too readily. Just because a woman embraces her sexuality doesn’t make her a whore or promiscuous. It’s something that you can do and not be a whore. Who and how many people you have sex with is no one’s business but your own. So don’t judge yourself and enjoy this one life you have.
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Those women whom you described seem like individuals whom you are jealous of. Either because they are pretty, have better background or more successful. I suggest you focus on improving your life rather than whining about unfair life.
Yeah, I'm jealous of how easy their life is because all they have to do is spread their legs, fuck a dude, and she's living with him, getting married and popping out kids with barely any effort given while women who don't do that almost always get the shit end of the stick. I don't see how anything I just said indicates that I'm jealous of sitting around sleeping with a million men. It's more how they get things in life for basically nothing.
When you are a few years older and find a guy who values you for who you are, you will be glad you didn't spread your legs indiscriminately!
The grass often seems greener on the other side. But then you cross over and realize the grass is fake. I may not agree with your views, but I'd still advise you to stick to your guns and stay true to yourself
Life ain't easy for anyone. I'm sure those type of girls don't like being that way
This reminds me of a really great question that was asked on here.
@thomasjjeffy No, not that one.
Ah yes. I'm not like other girls. I wonder if there is a word for women who act like you? Hmm I swear there is one was it something like a select me girl? Nah that wasn't it hmm what was it.
How am I a "pick me girl"? 😒
Read your own words it explains how one can come to such conclusion if you can't see how still get some therapy.
I think you are wrong. Men appreciate promiscuous girls for easy sex and might buy them presents to keep the sex flowing just as they pay a prostitute. If a guy is wealthy he might provide a fair bit if she provides good sex.
At the end of the day, men want to be confident that their children are their children. It is a girl like you that gives that. Not a promiscuous girl. Men know that a promiscuous girl is very temporary. It is a girl like you that they will see a long term loving commitment. A promiscuous girl gets lust.
I dont think so...
They don't have it all. They have shitty lives that tend to crumble as the consequences of being a slut set in.
Sluts have zero dating value, they usually end up alone as single moms, or infected with stds.
If you want someone who loves you, save yourself for him.
Ignore the sluts calling you judgmental, as if being slutty isn't worth judging (it is, and unless we figure out a way to cure all infectous diseases, and control when pregnancies happen 100% of the time, it always will be judged harshly).
Ignore the sluts in the comments.
I would never want to be promiscuous i feel like in the end they just feel empty
A high body count affects a women value. You just keep being you.
Nah don't change to be someone that you're not. Be patient the right guy will come around and you'll be glad you remained the same good person you are. Keep your head up! DM always open
U only get what u give
they are smart once.
It very to hard to find sincere, loyal and promiscuous girls nowadays, most girls are sluts and cheaters
Life is easy for girls, period.
But slutty girls have what looks like an easier time because they are getting attention for the time while they can but they will never be loved and will end up desperate, pathetic, and alone when they expire at 30z
Your time will come but will take longer
Your premise is incorrect. Sluts don't have an "easy life", nor do they end up with quality men. Keep your wits about you and your standards where they should be, and you'll find what you need and want.
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