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Why is my husband licking my private parts?

I got married last month I am 22 and my husband is 28 years. I moved to my husband's flat after last week. He works in an MNC and goes to the office at 9 and comes back at 4 pm. He was good when we live with his family, but now we both only live in the flat. Our sex life is good, but his behaviours make me worried. He tells me to be naked whenever he is at home and he is very mad to lick my private parts. He comes from the office at 4 pm and behaves like he did not eat for the last 10 days and spread my legs and starts to clean my private. This is happening daily. Please let me know how to stop him
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  • Do you want him to stop because you are not enjoying it? Oral sex is acceptable in many cultures (penis and vagina is more common than anal oral, aka rimming, but all are pleasurable to many.).

    You could try to talk to him about it, and perhaps explain your feelings, and also perhaps explore some different techniques to see if they are more pleasurable.

    I've talked to some ladies who would love a partner to give them oral sex everyday, and others who don't even like the idea of it.

    Most of the girls I have been with love having their clitoris teased prior to intercourse and I always try to help them orgasm that way - it gives me great pleasure to do so.

    I hope you manage to resolve your challenge! Good luck.

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  • oral is normal. wanting you is normal. however with all that you describe and how you lay it out is it possible he has someone at work etc that he sees but cannot have sex with. just looks at them and thinks about them. Just a thought as if he fantasizes and then has you get naked when he is home and licks at you maybe he is acting it out for himself. just tell him it is not what your enjoying and you dont want to continue this way. He may just want to lick you but he may be acting out something in his mind while doing so , which it what it sounds like. do you like oral, but this dont sound oral but more like he is the submissive one cleaning you. maybe wants to reclaim you after you get cream pie from another. not sure but id be leery and tell him soon

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  • Against the opinion of a few people that replied before me, oral sex is NOT a part of standard intercourse.

    It is something that extremely few mammals practice for a good reason. Evolution as taught them that there is a substantial risk of infection when practicing that unnatural sexual act.

    You should never allow your husband to perform oral sex if you do not agree with it or if it displeases you. If you don't say anything, he will presume that it is okay to misuse you.

    Best is to have a serious conversation with your husband and straighten things up before it becomes a nasty habit and before he expects, motivates and forces you to do the same with him.

    You have your dignity and he should respect it.

    • What is "standard intercourse" - the missionary position? I love when the sexual practices of other mammals, or even non-mammals, are referenced against human sexual behavior in an effort to describe what's "normal". Do you realize how ludicrous that is as some sort of justification for abnormality? I don't think you do. Let's stick to facts. Presuming your partner is free of STD's, has never exhibited any symptoms of herpes, and is clean as in sanitary, you risk little more than a sore throat. If you're in a committed, monogamous relationship and both are clean and disease free, the risk is not "substantial", whatever that meant anyway? Herpes is probably the one thing that "can be" asymptomatic and passed, but for herpes type 2 to never show symptoms is unheard of. It always manifests in some way. I do agree that she needs to talk to him if this is something she doesn't like, or want. But it's no different than having to talk about ANY sexual act. What if she didn't like "standard intercourse", again, whatever that means. She'd need to talk to him about that as well. That point I fully agree with.

    • @loveslongnails you lick parts from where you piss and take a shit? Yuck

  • I'm going to assume that you aren't into oral. In that case, you can try telling him you'd prefer more foreplay.

    Personally, this is a dream come true. And I'm a virgin. But it's something that you only real in josei smut that the guy is a huge tease that loves to eat pussy. The josei guy is also extremely handsome, so I wouldn't even care for foreplay.

    But honestly, fictional or not, sex is sex. If he wants to give it to you good, let him.
    Are you afraid of getting the preggers? That's my fear.

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  • The only thing wrong with it is that you don't like it.

    Ask him if he could do it less often then and see if that works

  • Boys do this.

    • Girls are supposed to Like it. I know this to be true if there’s little bit of foreplay prior…

  • This sounds like rape
    If you don't consent to any sexual act including oral it's rape

  • Because he wants to. If u don't like it tell him to stop

  • Have you never heard of oral sex?

  • Why would you want to? Doesn't it feel good? Maybe some night you can surprise him and warm up his dinner by sliding naked down a banister

  • You don't enjoy oral sex then? Do you not orgasm through it?

  • You could just ask him to stop?

  • Let him enjoy himself fuck I would let my husband do that to me

    • And I am sure he would love doing that to you!

  • why did you marry the guy if you're absolutely not ok with this thing that is happening every day. i don't get it.

  • Not seeing the problem! That’s a good thing! He wants you bad! If you don’t like it then you need to have a healthy conversation about it.

  • It is good news for you, mean that he love you so much and he believes your the sexy attractive gorgeous wife in the world.
    Whatever he did is normal in Morden society and culture.
    Go by flow, be happy and healthy.
    It's a time for enjoy before getting kids.
    My honest advice and opinion.

  • I take it you’re not a fan of oral sex don’t wash up then he’ll run away

  • 😂😂😂😂😂

  • Sounds like you have the perfect life.

  • Guys will do this. The naked all the times, unless you are constable with it, then don’t. I would talk to him about the oral. Not everyone likes it being done to them

  • Oh you don't like it, than tell him to stop

  • Don't you think you posted this for attention... Desi guys would hardly go down on...

  • Why not

  • why did you get married then. this is what your supposed to do if you want to have any purpose in life

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