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Sexual Health Guys, Why is sex such a big deal with guys on average?
StormMistress Xper 7
Hi guys I'm curious about what goes on in the male mind and why is sex for the average guy such a big deal in comparison to girls. Obviously sex for girls is still a big deal but on average it is a huge motivator for guys which I just never can wrap my head around. Why is sex so important to you? Is it just simply the pleasure is beyond words or is it something more complicated.
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What Guys Said
(21)it's pleasurable
it's like entering a new state of mind. Condoms completely ruin the feeling.
Condoms can't be that bad, aren't there varients that help with the feeling? Granted I used to have a fetish for guys orgasming inside so I can't talk lol. At least it prevents sti's and pregnancy.
There's a huge difference All i feel is the condom wrapped around my dick Without it, i feel like im in a new dimension.
Depends largely on the brand. Here's why condoms are bad. The natural lubrication of the vagina is used on the condom, not the penis. The lubrication of the condom is used on the penis instead. The friction of the condom is similar to just fucking rubber, depending on the condom make. Even for the women, it's basically like being fucked by rubber. You're relying on the chaffing friction of the condom to get you off, not the silky glide of the vaginal walls. Condoms have to be very snug to be effective, which can reduce sensitivity and blood flow, and be slightly uncomfortable. Though, I would take a condom over cumming too early, pregnancy or an STI. All of which can be helped with a condom.
sex isn't that important for me honestly. it's much easier to masturbate than maneuver women's hoops and hurdles that they place around sex. many guys were raised to equate sex with success and feel better about themselves after humping a girl. sex isn't a big deal for women because they don't have dicks. it takes more for a woman to get turned on and they are more selective about their partners. women evolved to use sex strategically to get what they want from men. part of the way they do that is by denying sex to increase the value and slut shaming women that give sex away easily. add to that a sex negative culture and you have your poison recipe.
Because we can’t have sex as easy as women. If you go to somewhere crowded and spread open your legs i guarantee you some guy would come here and fck you. But if a guy does that he might get shot. That’s the difference. If guys have sex that often they wouldn’t want sex like they normally do.
It is in our DNA to spread our seed, so we need to have as much sex as possible
I guess biological reasons are a good driver. But I would think since the need to procreate everywhere in the modern age isn't nearly as important as it used to be in ancient times it wouldn't be such a big deal.
i just love it
it feels good, i am always in doubt, is it better to give orgasms or to get one? my current opinion about this is that it all depends on the girl i am with.
watching a pretty girl naked having fun, it is really great
Because we have to work hard to get it
Sex is Life
Literally haha!
Biological
I think it's the conquest. Naturally we want to conquer... Getting a woman in bed gives us that feeling.
Because we're visual (not just like to look, but it can and does arouse us and get us horny and in the mood for sex) and look at our society. EVERYTHING is serialized. Advertising, media, internet, to just everyday women on the street dressing sexy. Think about that for a minute, and really look around and take notice. We guys are literally "bombarded" 24/7 by it. And you ask this?
Should say sexualized, not serialized lol