Why is there a double standard when it comes to threesomes?

Why is there a double standard when it comes to threesomes?
It's pretty well known that the number one fantasy of men is two have two women at once.
Somehow this is accepted in society, and even the guy's parents would give him a high five for that.
Why is there a double standard when it comes to threesomes?
Studs VS sluts?
How did society ever get so fucked up?
If you don't like or want a threesome, then don't have one. If you do, then shouldn't you be fair about it?
Where did the logic jump the track? How did this not evolve to be an equal thing?

But if his girl asks him to return the favor, and he does... he will now be labeled a faggot, cuckold, sissy, beta boi.
Why is there a double standard when it comes to threesomes?
So what is it about a MFM threesome that is so threatening to society?
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  • There is a theory that because mounting behavior is a form of domination in many primates. That the aversion to homosexuality between men is the result of a deep seated primal psychological residue.

    I've done many three ways, both MFM (which are actually more fun) and FMF. The issue for me is that multiples destroy relationships. I have yet have one survive it. In a serious long term relationship I wouldn't even consider it at all.

  • I think both can have their place byt either case takes a fuckload of trust and communication. Many couples don't survive the emotional fallout of a threesome. But if a couple are strong enough for one kind of threesome, then they're probably strong enough to handle the other.

  • Nothing. We live in a world where people are nothing but hypocrites. You don't have to listen to them. If you're happy with your life then everyone else doesn't matter.

  • My number one fantasy is a woman who doesn't constantly seek for my attention when I'm busy and doesn't act distant when I have some free time. I know it's naughty but had to come out.

    • I like waffles.

  • All i can say is i agree with you. But it's also harder to find another female to do a threesome where the guy is only watching. I personally don't want two guys on me, but I'd love for my guy not to be able touch any of us and have a threesome with just us chicks. Not all guys are against mfm... I personally feel that they will get embarrassed bc they may get turned on by the other. That's y they get mad

  • Threesome... wow.. even a think of it get me excited.😍

  • It seems to me this is largely a female issue as it is mostly women I see shaming other women for it.

  • I don't know but im not interested in threesomes, its only going to be me and the girl, i find threesomes overrated

    • "I don't know" That is by far the most common answers among Gurus on here. LOL

    • its because i dont care lol

  • Only for porn addicts. It will never be what you thought or hoped it would be, and you're highly likely to implode your primary relationship in the process.
    There is no 'double standard'. Dear god.

  • The threat to society isn't the problem, it's that threesomes aren't many men's fantasy.

    • Are you living in another world? LOL

    • No, I'm just a man, and have been my whole life. My friends are men, and THEY have been men their whole lives

  • I think men tend to be more rigid in their desires which lead to assumptions and judgements when people see/hear things they would not consider

  • Guys are kind of gross so two of them makes it even worse.

  • Dunno.. I do know that I don't want another man in my bedroom.. It's just disgusting to me.. I also wouldn't want two women even though my wife is bi..

  • Since when did you come to the conclusion that life is fair or is supposed to be?

    If you'd like an answer, it's because a man has a lot more to lose via his woman committing adultery with a man, than his woman does if he did the same with another woman. It's supply and demand, and the evolutionary demand from men for their women to be faithful is far greater. If your man sleeps with another woman, you don't need to worry about being cuckolded.

  • Most guys are ok with spit roasting a chick but you dont really want your mate to be a spit roast. Like it's ok with someone you met at a bar but definitely not your steady piece.

  • Locks and keys.
    hear me out completely before jumping the gun.
    Women are like locks and men are like the keys. This is how getting sex works in our times.

    a lock that can be opened by only one key is the best lock.

    a key, that can open multiple locks is a master key (player)

    a lock, that can be opened by many different keys? Who wants that?

    I'm not the blaming type but for once you can thank some women for making sex such a product to work for. If you look at the demand and supply law of microeconomics there clearly is a higher demand for sex from men than what women are willing to supply. Therefore a man having multiple woman is considered successful (since it takes quite the effort to get just one) whereas a woman having multiple men is considered Childs play or using some sort of cheat codes.

  • The problem with your question is that it isn't a double standard.

    "he will now be labeled a faggot, cuckold, sissy, beta boi."
    Yes and?
    His situation is different from yours.

    Men and women are different, it would be weird to expect things to be mirrored for both.

  • "and even the guy's parents would give him a high five for that." ... uh... I doubt that

  • I don't know I'm down for either it doesn't matter to me

  • As a stud i find it really hot throat f**king 2 sl*ts testing and training their gag reflex. Its one of the many awesome things about being a dude

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