Why is there such a double standard when it comes to virginity?

Why is there such a double standard when it comes to virginity?
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  • Never heard this one before

  • Men get praised for having sex more than women do because men are the ones that have to pursue it and the ones that have to put in the effort in order for sex to happen

    • More than women? When was the last time you heard a woman praised for getting laid?

    • Don't remember or don't recall

  • Guys don't shame each other for having sex like women do. No dudes are sitting around the cooler saying how Tommy is such a whore. Chicks will bash each other for sleeping around.

    • I've never been shamed for having sex by a woman other than religious nuts...

    • As for men... I've lost count

  • There seem to be just as many women that only go for guys who are virgins or have a body count below a certain threshold as those that look down on the guy for the same thing. Can’t win with everyone all the time.

  • Because the ugliest girl just can drop her panties and some nasty man will have sex with her.

    A handsome man has to put a little bit of effort to have sex even with a ugly chick.

    • I mean the same goes for men too, the lower your standards the deeper your pool for sexual partners are.

  • Cuz of guys trying to set the norm which I don't expect a girl to be a virgin when I settle down although I couldn't see my self setling down with a former porn star but even females have their list of what they want in a Male

  • its because its hard for men to get sex, it takes work, we build our whole personalities and lives around reaching that achievement of getting ass, at an early age we start to learn new skills, go through the trial and era of rejection, we compete with each other, on who will lose their virginity first, we do all this shit just for some ass, for females its not difficult to get some dick, its no achievement, its like the roles of predator and prey, you go fishing and the person who catches the fish gets cheered, nobody is gonna congratulate the fish for getting caught on the damn hook, that makes no sense

    i mean if you wanna change the roles we'd be down for that, us men will sit on our ass while 100 women try to fuck us everyday and the women can compete to get some dick and then the roles will be reversed men will be shamed for being hoes and women can be celebrated for getting dicked down, but y'all dont want that? women want to have their cake and eat it too, you want to be a whore and be respected for it at the same time. thats not life. grow up

    • And you don’t see anything wrong with that?

    • i do see something wrong in the sense that i dont believe in sex before marriage in general, so personally i think there's too much sexual immorality in society and that causes a lot of problems across the board, but thats besides the point, my problem is that it seems like your problem with it is that you want women to be able to be whores and not be treated as such which i dont agree with, there's no double standard im just telling you how it is, its just naturally how things are, but if you really hate the way things are you can offset the balance like i said before, if women start giving out more ass it will no longer be valuable, and it won't be an achievement anymore, so just go out and flood the market with ass, and things will change, just get some sleazy chicks and go hoe around until you completely devalued ass in society. and then men will care less about it because its so easily obtained, as a result men will chase it less and the value of dick will rise, it will even out, women will desire sex just as much as men and people will be fucking 24/7 then everyone will be just as much as a slut and no one will shame each other because they'll be too busy being ashamed of themselves, sex will just become the same as a handshake, sex will become bland and boring to people so they'll try to get the thrill back by adding danger to it, like sex while skydiving, sex while driving cars, sex with animals, thousands will die trying to retain the thrill of sex doing crazy shit, everyone's gonna have stds, a new super std will probably be formed, and kill millions of adults the world will become overpopulated with kids, there will be a food crisis, its probably gonna be the apocalypses

    • and the world will end. all because one woman was jealous of some teenage guys high fiving each other for losing their virginity and decided to crash the ass market by starting a clan of super whores, instead of accepting that women and men are different and have different desires and roles in life and society, and that differences are not the same as a double standards when the worlds on fire and were all burning to crisp by the flames of super std's and everyone is starving and killing each other over who gets to eat the last ass before the earth explodes, ill promise you one thing... you won't give a damn who's a virgin or who's not then

  • There isn't any

    • so then why is a woman who has had multiple sexual partners shamed, while men who have had multiple sexual praters are praised? You have never heard the phrase " a key who can unlock many locks is a master key, but a lock that can be opened by many keys is a shitty lock."

    • This has nothing to do with virginity

    • it kind of does. Male virgins are shamed but female praised... how is that not a double standard

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  • In my circles both the man and the woman are expected to wait until marriage to lose their virginity. Neither would fault the other if something did happen sexually and one or the other had already lost it.

  • Is there?

  • Blame it on the catholic church.
    No really all this purity and virginity thing for women was started by them. A religion that tool over the mist developed nations in the past and that hold great power and influence. They were the ones who made this thing up and today, BECAUSE IT SUITS THEM, many men still try to uphold those views and impose them on society. Mental gymnastics is all they have now to tell you why women totally should stay virgin but men shouldn't because it's different. I just sex. It's literally the most natural thing in the world. Our body is made to do it. No reason to made it out to be a bigger deal than it is.

  • probably. I think that it is made a bigger deal for women

  • I would prefer a virgin girl but not sure how likely that is LOL

  • Bc girls sleep with the entire football team lol

    • What about the guy who sleeps with the entire cheer team?

    • Congrats they cancel out Now where’s the double standard? They cancel out

    • Probably because the guy would be praised for it and the girl would be shamed for it. The boy would get called a stud or a ladies man but the girl would be called a slit or whore.

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  • Girls EXPECT men to be good in bed. Women are expected to be innocent.

    • Innocence and ignorance are childlike traits though

    • Never said ignorance. Innocent, to be fair, untouched

    • the two are closely related, regardless innocence is still deemed a child like trait.. you don't find that creepy?

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  • I mean tbh I hear there’s a lot of double standards but idrc if my girl is a virgin or not as long as she’ll have sex with me.

  • I think generally it's easier for girls to have sex than it is for guys. Or that's the perception at least.

    So for guys it's an achievement

  • I'm not sure there is.

  • This should never be the case but sadly it is. If you want a virgin bride why don't you be one as well.

  • I think because men can't be virgins or non virgins they have that advantage by nature.

    Also i belive it has to do with bearing children.

    A womens life is basically defined in three stages a child , youngster and then a woman who becomes mother now here the life changing journey happens and most women would by themselves want to be virgins once because they wanted to dedicate there life to one guy. and now that isn't the case double standards or not
    It is the past there aren't much of virgin girls , those that are sell there virginity even that is also commercialised

    Most women now by young age being a teenager or even younger would have given blowjobs and also would have lost virginity before turning 17 so it's just your own choice rest all is just useless talks because the once who want to do it are doing it anyways

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