Why it's virginity till marriage? It should be virginity till death? Marriage without sex is best? Sex less marriage give u many things than sex?

[Anonymous]

Isn't it best? If u truly love someone, why will u do sex? Maybe its all lust from the starting. Term "love making"is so stupid , coz it's a normal sex lmaoo. It's same like -when we say there are many genders, but we all know there are only two genders. Similarly we say "love making" but it's a normal sex lmao

[wiltingrosepetal]

Sex isn't just sex when it's with the right person. It's an emotional, sensual bonding experience. The intimacy, pleasure and eye contact while exploring new parts of your partner, all create a scene that's far more than just 'lust'.

Virginity is meant to be temporary. As the traditional belief goes, it is a gift rewarded onto a person special enough - that's why it is 'virginity until marriage'. There is no greater gift than allowing another person to see a side of you no one ever has before. What is the point of virginity until death? Who are you selflessly saving yourself for? ... The grim reaper?

[Koneko911]

Yeah no. If you love someone you would wanna sleep with them and wanna express that not only emotionally, psychologically, but also physically. Sex is about expressing your love to your partner

[Asker]

Sex is sex , nothing else lmao. Be sensible, logical and rational not emotional fool lmao. Sex is a sex for a reason , emotions can be there and cannot be there

[Koneko911]

Course they can. But for some people sex is about intimacy and showing physically and sexually their partner how they feel about them.

[Koneko911]

Well the asker just lost any bit of credibility on not just trying to be a troll

[Asker]

@koneko911 well he use that word "slut" when he don't know nothing about me? is it right? Lol

[Koneko911]

@jahaims well my bad. Though still sorta stands you're being an asshole even to the asker. While her idea of stupid calling her a broken slut was uncalled for and an asshole thing so. While you aren't a dumbass you are a dick for the insult towards the asker. Who's clearly a troll. Or better yet an annoying incel

[Koneko911]

You can fuck 100 dudes and still not be a slut. It's a stupid word meant to shame people so

[Koneko911]

@jahaims and by the way I do not have a horse face sweetie. So try again with a different insult that would actually apply to me

[Asker]

@Koneko911 thanks for supporting sweetie :)

[Koneko911]

Cause while I think you're annoying you don't call someone for a stupid opinion a broken slut. That's uncalled for and just being a dick. I think your opinion is insanely stupid but I'm still not gonna insult you over it or call you stupid

[Asker]

@Koneko911 well that's why it's a question? Lol not a opinion first of all. Tag me if u want to reply , otherwise I will be confuse

[Koneko911]

Well clearly you think said way as you tried very hard to argue your opinion so yes its an opinion if you truly believe the question you asked

[Asker]

@Koneko911 nope I agree with some points here. If u want to give an opinion, then say the reason behind it too.

[Drew-1990]

You know I actually get your point you are making if you got married and never had sex that would probably be a very amazing marriage because you would work on pleasing the other in so many other ways to make them happy. Personally I know I could never do that. I do believe in waiting till marriage and am currently still a virgin but I can't imagine being married and never having sex with her. The lust is already strong I imagine it will be worse when I'm with someone I care about.

[Asker]

at least u are honest. Tbh most of the people agree with u. In everyone's life sex is important. Otherwise most of the people will divorce each other , if sex not happen once.

[Drew-1990]

I do think people have sex way too easily because sex is not just sex. Despite what people think sex is both physically and emotionally you create a connection with whoever you sleep with no matter what people believe.

[Asker]

Then why are u waiting till marriage? Go sleep with someone lol. why to make soo much plan , that first u get married and then have sex. Marriage don't change anything. Just an event. It gives u loyalty but nowadays divorcing and cheating rate is high.

[Drew-1990]

It is high you are right but sleeping with more people actually heightens your chance for divorce. It's actually been found that the people who have the highest success rate has only slept with their spouse.

[Asker]

Cool I got my ans. Sex that's what people want. Otherwise there is no love. Good agree with u

[ChicoFromThe305]

Well you do know sex makes the bond stronger right? A chemical is released during intercourse that makes it easier to get attached to someone, if there's sex when they are both in love, it only makes it stronger, if there's only sex for lust it will be destructive, there's def a difference

[Asker]

Bond can be stronger without sex too tbh. There are many factors to make it strong. U have friends, family and great people who have strong bond with u but u didn't had sex with them lol. What will u say about them. Sex complete someone's satisfaction temporarily, not a permanent solution , that's why people most of the time. But tbh it don't give any advantage in your life or don't add value in life except kids or temporary satisfaction or satisfaction in lust.

[Asker]

*that's why people do most of the time.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Yea but different bonds have different requirements and a romantic connection isn't the same as a connection with your friends and family, in a romantic connection it requires romance and sexual intercourse is a strong form of a romantic connection, there is a reason why sexual intercourse was designed to be pleasurable and that would be to grow a bond with your husband or wife, if both of y'all agree to have a sexless relationship then that's alright but that will be extremely hard to find

[ChicoFromThe305]

Don't forget most people that hold onto their virginity for marriage is so they can share that intimacy with their soulmate and the person they plan to spend their life with, not to remain that way, that seems hard to come across tbh

[Asker]

It's not hard to find virgins maybe in your country but still there are countries who still have a lot of virgin woman's but it's difficult to find a virgin man. Lmao Now after reading your whole para - u just mean ,"romance=sex". Then there is no point to say u love your other half. U mean u want sex , u want to sleep with that person nothing else. It's okkie most of the people will agree with u. Sexless relationship is extremely hard to find but it's worth it in the end coz u both can give pleasure to each other in many ways except getting physical.

[Asker]

*women

[ChicoFromThe305]

I can understand that and yes it is hard to find here but I'm trying to say that finding a virgin man like you said is already harder from what you've mentioned so what do you think the odds of finding a virgin man that never wants to get sexual with his lover is going to be cause I feel like the reason men that hold for marriage plan on having intercourse with their wife, I'm not saying sex is the only way to bond with your lover, I'm saying it's a very effective way to do so, it builds a bond that makes the two even closer than what they already are and that's simply cause there's intimacy between the two people that already love each other and it only builds to it, I'm not saying it's not possible to love each other without intercourse but I can assure you that you'll notice the stronger bond after having intercourse with your lover, it's a chemical release in the brain that makes helps now imagine that at the same time as the pleasure you get from it and on top of that seeing your lover infront of you, I'm sure it builds a stronger connection.

[Asker]

Cool

[NamerOfStars]

Go back to Tarsus, Saul.

[Berethor]

If you plan to stay virgin until death then why marry? yea the love making term was made to make women to feel better about sex, as women tend to be more emotional.

[Billlewis]

For most men, yes, for virtually all women, I would say no.

[Asker]

So u agree with virginity till death? Cool

[Billlewis]

Yes, ma'am, but in the context of a relationship, only for myself. She can date other guys whenever she wants.

[Asker]

Why to date other guys, when u are serious 😭 lmao

[Billlewis]

Yes, ma'am, I'm quite serious. I haven't gotten any pussy for more than twenty years, and I've honestly never been happier --
Guys And Ladies, Is Not Getting Any Pussy Sometimes Even Better Than Getting It? ↗

[Asker]

Cool

[EmmaMary]

Yet another load of complete and utter Bollox.

[BCRanger10]

No, it should NOT be virginity until death if the couple is married.

[SweetDripp]

You do realize sex is required to have children, right?

[BarryLiverstone]

The asker is a troll. She wants attention so if you argue with her (or him) you will do what they want

[SweetDripp]

@BarryLiverstone Ik…I just needed to point out the absurdity.

[BarryLiverstone]

Thanks. As you can see I had the same answer

[Asker]

Not for attention tbh, I was curious haha , I don't know why are u still here. If u have so much problem then go , why are u commenting under my post @BarryLiverstone

[David94358]

So no sex until death means no more human race.. I don't think your plan is a very good one

[Asker]

8 billion people are already here. No species can extinct us but humans surely can.

[David94358]

If nobody has sex.. no new humans.. do you not understand how things work?

[Asker]

Why to have 1 kid then go give birth to 40+ kids lmao It's overpopulation now. Anyways if u mean sex is only for reproduction not for satisfaction and pleasure then yeah in that case I agree with u. Then in that case, it shouldn't be a priority in a marriage

[David94358]

I'm saying your idea is stupid.. no sex = no new humans. How can you not grasp this simple concept? I'm suspecting troll..

[Asker]

U can't call anyone idea stupid. It's okkie if u think like that. Everyone's opinion is different. Cool

[David94358]

Yeah any idea that causes the extinction of our species is stupid sorry you can't understand that

[Asker]

Our species isn't getting extinct lol but other species will. Go read some news

[David94358]

Of course our species won't go extinct, 99.9999% of the people is not going to follow your dumb idea of no sex up until you die.. but that doesn't change the fact your idea is dumb and just for trolling

[Asker]

Lol do u think I'm trolling, I was curious coz I researched about your so called loving relationship. And ik 99% will not agree and 99% don't love they just have a relationship of benefits nothing else.

[David94358]

Then share your research, what papers, articles etc did you read to come to the conclusion you did? A troll won't be able to link to any research he just claimed he had.. so I would be happy to reconsider you being a troll, all you got to do is post a link backing up your claim

[BarryLiverstone]

He can’t link actual facts or studies. The asker is just trolling as you concluded.

[FunkyMonkee]

It doesn't give you kids, does it?
A relationship like that is nothing more than just being very close friends. Why bother with marriage at all?

[Asker]

Ofc no lmao. Well your ans sounds like marriage means a permanent sex package for u. Isn't?

[FunkyMonkee]

Yeah? And? What's the point of marriage if you're not gonna fuck each other? Just stay good friends and live together!

[Asker]

Cool it gives me a great idea. Thanks

[FunkyMonkee]

No problem! (That'll be $10.00).

[Asker]

0 for real

[Asker]

Lolll

[JosyJosy]

With sex is better. I love the intimacy.

[Asker]

Cool

[JosyJosy]

Very

[BarryLiverstone]

If humans were virgins until death, then where will babies come from?

[Asker]

No babies

[BarryLiverstone]

I’d say most people want babies for the future of humanity

[Asker]

No one will gonna extinct dw. It's 2024 , and it's 8 billion pop. Already.

[BarryLiverstone]

The world is underpopulated. Based on science birth rates are trending down

[Asker]

Lol live in your delulu and go find a planet just like Elon musk. After destroying earth with overpopulation. Do u even know how earth is getting destroyed day be day. Coz of this, flora and fauna are gonna extinct soon.

[BarryLiverstone]

Just the fact that you are laughing tells me your character. I better understand why you are so desperate

[Asker]

Yeah please define what's my character stupid? And give ans in detail about myself, when u know show much about me. Second, I'm not desperate, I didn't even dated anyone , never been in a relationship that's why body count is zero too coz u called me desperate without knowing me. Tbh I said the truth overpopulation in that para, go read some news about climate change and flora and fauna extinction, idiot

[Asker]

*I said the truth about overpopulation

[BarryLiverstone]

My observation about you feeling desperate had nothing to do with sex or body count so I am confused why you mention that. Your character is shown when you choose to insult me multiple times and that’s uncalled for.

[Asker]

I never insulted u tbh 🤷 😭 where and when? Lol I just said the truth. Maybe in your point of view , that simple word is insult for u

[BarryLiverstone]

The words “stupid” and “idiot” are clear insults.

[Asker]

Umm then in that case I said the truth, and I can say moreee. Go cry somewhere else coz that statement is stupid , when we are already dealing with overpopulation.

[BarryLiverstone]

Reported

[Asker]

If it's been reported, I still don't care coz here I asked about opinion. I only found 2-3 smart people here. Nothing much.

[BarryLiverstone]

The question wasn’t reported. When you broke gag rules, that was reported

[Asker]

Shoo away kido haha

[Alex-Snow]

Wow you got me confused but I certainly have not waited for marriage. What about masturbation?

[jahaims]

Had a stoke trying to read this

[Twalli]

You'll never get married if you plan on never having sex. Sex increases the bond you have with someone.

[Asker]

Cool

[Twalli]

What you, and everyone should, want is a relationship that isn't based on sex. Sex isn't necessary for you to have a good relationship. If you were suddenly unable to have sex it wouldn't destroy your relationship. That's what we all need.

[Asker]

I rather be single fr. If not having sex is destroying relationship then it's better to be single.

[Twalli]

You're young. Wait until you find a guy you legitimately want.

[Luckycharms12]

Best of luck with that

[Asker]

Cool

[Anonymous]

I feel so sorry for you.

[Anonymous]

It's not your job to impose your views on us without our consent.