Sexual Relationships 
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If a girl says she hurt upset heartbroken
She doesn't want to hear something like "Let's have sex!" If the girls says we need a break lets just stop for now... The next time the man calls her She doesn't want to hear hey babe lets get naked, or do you want to watch me get off or do you want to shower with me or anything sexual! If she tells a man she's angry at him or feels hurt by him She doesn't want to hear something like "I masturbated to you. Gosh you're so f'king hot I came real hard!" When she asks the man why he's saying things like that she doesn't want to hear something like "You're angry cuz I'm turned on by you?" No we are asking because we are legitimately trying not to get angrier at the guy and trying our hardest to understand him... When girls are angry at a man for the most part we don't want anything sexual from them not because its a power play as some men may think but because we are hurting emotionally! Making sexual comments when we are hurt or mad just gets us more mad! It makes us feel like we are not being listen to and not taken seriously. It feels like our needs and our emotions are being dismissed. It makes us feel like the man is only with us for the sex and not because he cares. We don't want to hear sexual references or be asked or offered sexual favors! What we want is the man to fix what is hurting us. We want the man to speak to us and listen. We want an apology promises and actions to repair the relationship and that does not evolve sex! APOLOGIZE FLOWERS SONNETS ROMANTIC SONGS anything but sex or sexual references! This is a girls point of view... From a girls mind and aching heart...
Now MEN please help me understand! What is a mans reasoning! Clearly there is a disconnect. what are we women missing here? And why do SOME men not understand even when we are saying thats not what we want or need right now?
What Guys Said
(29)This is a really great question. And the answer is one of two things.
Either he legitimately doesn't care about you personally or emotionally, and all he wants is sex. So when you bring up something else he just wants to get back to the sex stuff and ignore all the emotional stuff.
The other option is that he does care about you emotionally, and then he is doing his best to help in a situation where he is clueless. And he's operating as a man, without realizing that you need something different. Because for men when we are in a genuine relationship sex is an emotional balm for us. It makes us happier, it makes us feel more at peace. It makes us feel more connected. It makes us feel closer. So by offering some kind of sexual connection, he is unconsciously trying to offer an answer to your emotional struggles. It's bumbling and it's unhelpful, but it's well intentioned.
I hope that helps
Yes it does make me feel much better 😌
Good, I'm glad to hear it
Women only have one use
I think it's an avoidance tactic. They probably think they can divert your attention away from the issue so they don't have to talk about it. I think this is common for people who don't have good communication skills.
Though maybe he just thinks that making you feel good physically will make you feel better emotionally. Though I think that's a cheap shortcut and it's kind of an immature way of doing things.
I must say I do agree
Thanks
This is very likely either a diversionary tactic or else the manifestation of a decidedly imperfect understanding of the mind (and body!) of their partner.
Some men thinks sex fixes everything or blame it on the womans period.
Thats the man being lazy and not listening to his woman carefully.
I can't answer that. I don't understand it myself.
Sex makes us feel better unless we are physically ill.
Sometimes a fiery woman can be very, very, sexy. (depending on the woman).
Because he’s a Fuck’n Asshole!
Leave him. He doesn’t care about you !
Lolo very interested question. All I can say and this is a typical example of such. Males do think with their penises.
The psychologists treats if as a Right/left brain logic
But we males can be very insensitive to the feelings of our opposite sex