Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
Hello. I would like to ask you guys, if you're all watching females online - are you comparing them to your woman? Are you watching on something you don't get at home (perfect body etc.)? I am asking, because lately i've been struggling with jealous and I'm working on it, but why am I telling this - I've broke the boundaries of my hubby, I've looked into his phone, because as it felt at that time, every peep felt suspicious. So I discovered that he is looking on naked girls in Telegram channels. I have told him, that this bothers me, but not telling where I do know this, so he keep telling me, that he is NOT watching anything like it. Why does it bothering me? Because he is opening these channels before sex (I know, because I can see he was online and there are only these channels there). And I think that I am not good enough and also that I am just a sex figure to him, because he is fantasazing about other. Is it really like this? I am ok that everyone is watching porn, I don't care, but here I do care, even tho I would like to not. And this makes me really angry and sad, I am young and beautiful and sexy, I'm 23, my hubby is 43 and because of all this I am turned off at the evening, because I feel that he is using me, because those girls aren't around.
Also we have a great sex life when everything is okay, but this bothers me, so it is not as often as before...
Please let me know, I know this question triggers a lot of guys like it is your insecurity talking blah blah, well maybe, but this is what makes me feel insecure and I don't like it.
What Guys Said
(18)Have you asked him? And does he know it bothers you?
I have, but maybe not really understandable (?). I have told him that I do mind that he is watching other girls (but this was in context by instagram and girls in bikinis), but haven’t told where I know he is watching it, because I did break his boundaries by watching into his phone. I am afraid to tell him that, because he will lose his trust in me and just change the password. I guess.
If he's not chatting or sexting with these girls, then why let it bother you?
I’m not sure actually. Maybe because it makes me feel insecure about myself, that something is wrong with me or something isn’t good enough. And also when I see after intimacy that he has been online right before it, feels to me like I am his sex toy which is just around, because he’s turned on, but not because of me, but those girls on pictures.
I understand, you need to let him know how you feel.
For the same reason you think of other guys when you mastrubate.
Sorry to hear that.
He is not getting enough or not enough novelty.
He might be afraid of being vulnerable. Not opening up. The tone of your sex life has set.
I don't know why he does. i know i do in the moments i feel alone.
He can do it even when I am in the same room as he is. He opens it even for few seconds, but still...
I think you should try newer ways to attract him. Try that he starts to avoid watch them over the internet.
He is normal. Would you like it better if he watched naked men online?
Hahaha no of course 😆 but my question lays that are you men comparing your woman to those online? Aren’t you attracted to her anymore?