Why should I respect women when they won't have sex with a depressed incel, but will if he suddenly wins the lotto?

[Anonymous]

[TruthBringer]

Instead of feeling sorry for yourself because you're depressed and identify as an incel, how about you get your shit together and actually go out there and work on yourself. Go hit the gym and actually do so consistency with all seriousness for months and years. Just by seeing your body transform, that will do wonders for you mentally. And working out actually helps combat depression. I've seen the ugliest dudes become better looking by just hitting the gym (and also manage to get into relationships).

Complaining about women being attracted to a man as soon as he gets money is like complaining about an alligator becoming a hunter as soon as he realizes there is a prey. So in other words, it's within their nature. Women go for the winners, not for the losers who indulge in self-pity.

Go prioritize and work on yourself ACTIVELY. And that doesn't include bitching on the internet and being on incel forums.

[CasaNorba]

first off, if you "respect" people because you think that doing so means you're gonna get rewarded with something then you are obviously not moral person. you are behaving just like those women you're complaining about at the moment. except you're using respect in substitute of sex.

and obviously that's female nature. no woman wants a penis inside her unless that penis is gonna give her some sort of long or even short term luxury in returned. but once again is up to you if you want to share that luxury with her or not

[Anonymous]

Why did you generalize us? I swear you would be the guy to say not all men. Anyway you should respect women just like you respect men. The way I was taught is respect everyone, of course there are exceptions. What I'm trying to say is that you should respect women.

[clampfan101]

I absolutely hate people getting generalized. Everyone is unique.

[Bee-Hatch]

Because women believe it or not are people too. Do you offer your mother no respect because she won't have sex with you either?

[kylee2437]

Uhhhh what a generalization of what you think of women because I wouldn’t change my mind on sleeping with a man just because he won the lotto.

[Asker]

You're aliar though

[kylee2437]

@asker why would I lie on an app to “impress” an anon lol you are just upset your opinion is wrong

[Asker]

Cause you want to be right, thats why

[kylee2437]

Or I’m explaining my truth that just so happens to go against what you claimed to be true lmao

[Asker]

Oh please, you women always act like you're the exception, but you can never walk the walk. "I don't mind dating short guys, it just so happens all my bfs were over 6 feet tall"

[kylee2437]

I actually 1 out of 4 boyfriends of mine was over 6 ft 😂 oof all these assumptions you can’t get right about me

[Asker]

More lies

[kylee2437]

It’s a lie to you because you aren’t correct lmao

[Asker]

No, because irl y'all are nowhere to be found

[kylee2437]

Actually we are in hiding because trash men take advantage of us. We don’t want to be involved with y’all

[Asker]

No, just if we have money

[kylee2437]

I have had more money than all of my ex’s except for one lol

[Asker]

Here we go again, you checked off about 5 anomalies now cause you want to win the argument

[kylee2437]

No you can’t come to terms that your opinion of women isn’t correct with every woman lol

[Asker]

It is, actually walk the walk and prove me wrong, go have sex with a depressed incel

[kylee2437]

No thank you lol I would rather sit in a dumpster for a month. After this conversation you should ponder if you are actually a good guy because you seem like the kind of guy that calls themselves nice but is actually far from it. Next

[kylee2437]

Last thing: being ugly and getting no women doesn’t automatically make you a nice guy.

[Asker]

Good job genius, you proved my point. At least some women will fuck a rich incel cause they're greedy and want money. No woman will fuck a depressed incel, even though he'll feel better. Women are more greedy and evil thn virtous and good

[kylee2437]

Who said I would fuck a guy just because he’s rich? Lol I didn’t prove your point at all. You proved my point actually. You aren’t as nice as what you think you are, which is why women avoid you.

[Asker]

No genius, it doesn't have to be you. At least some women will fuck a rich incel, none will fuck a depressed one. Women are shit human bings and that proves it

[kylee2437]

Should I say all men are shit because there’s abusive ones out there?

[Asker]

No, cause most are nice. There's no women nice enough to fuck a depressed incel. But plenty will take advantage of him if he's rich.

[kylee2437]

Why do you think we should settle for a weird, unattractive man that lacks passion for women?

[Asker]

Some of you will if he has money though. What does that say about y'all? No women will fuck an incel and make him feel better unless he's rich and they can use them, not 1

[kylee2437]

Some men will fuck a girl just because she has big assets, what does that say about you?

[Asker]

Nothing at all, but what my question proves is women are more shitty than good

[kylee2437]

Women don’t need to live up to your expectations.

[Asker]

What expectations are those? To not be shitty human beings that only value money?

[kylee2437]

What even is a shitty human being to you? You think people that care about money is the only shitty human being in the world lol you won’t even look at the fact that your point of views make you a shitty human being lol speak for yourself. Go seek therapy

[Asker]

We have shitty women but no nice women, that's my point. It's why I can never respect you people

[kylee2437]

You haven’t given a reason to be nice to you. Once again, speak for yourself

[Asker]

But money is a reason to use people, right? You women would rather use a guy for his money than make him feel better

[kylee2437]

Who said I use men for money? Lol men have actually used me for money

[Asker]

Some women use men for money, but none will actually help a man

[kylee2437]

I’ve helped plenty of men lol I helped my ex get his business to where it’s at today, I’ve helped both of my exes out of debt, etc.

[love_conquers_lust]

Etc? Are you giving out interest free loans?

[kylee2437]

Uhhhh no there’s just way more that I have done to help out my exes but don’t really need to go into detail because there’s no point.

[love_conquers_lust]

That’s too bad. Overarching theme from everything I read and experience in day to day living is finance related. Everything, it’s money. Costs. We’re less tolerant of what were once innocuous things, ironic given how much tolerance is being pushed. Even this question, money related, money money money. So, that’s why I asked. Venture a guess and say there was infidelity involved with your history.<-You don’t have to confirm this, I’d have my biases slaked if you confirmed that in one way or another it was about money/envy/value/one party or another desiring more and not being happy with what they had.

[kylee2437]

Well my last ex was abusive , and my other ex and me were just basically sneaking behind each other’s backs , my sneakiness came from his lack of success and expecting a lot from me at a young age I was only 21, not trying to justify my side but yes. Both of my exes knew I am a successful woman and tried to take advantage

[love_conquers_lust]

Yeah, I heard a similar story from a girl I dated cross state a few months ago, via dating app. Getting soooo sick of that shit. Not her, she wasn’t the issue, it’s the app itself. Seems like we derive too much pleasure from phones, and are presented with too many options, its got too much content that’s addictive both in it’s nature and how it’s presented to users. Lack of money only makes it worse. We should be using our phones as tools for useful information, but the source matters. The information that gives us true joy has to come from a valid source. And it takes money, or time, cost cutting, to get access to those sources, ie people. In trying to be inclusive, we’re more exclusive than ever.

[love_conquers_lust]

It might sound like philosophical rambling but it’s something that keeps bugging me and bothering me. It’s more than just local variances in my opinion.

[kylee2437]

You know correct though! The most genuine guy I’ve met this year was via in person. He actually saved me from a guy that was not so genuine. I feel like ungenuine people use social media for dating because it’s easier to hide bad intentions when people think effort equals texting each other all day

[kylee2437]

You are correct though **

[laurieluvsit]

You shouldn't

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Don't respect the women that would do that, but don't imply all women are like that... I mean you can, you're not really making women look bad, just making yourself look bitter or biased..

[Guy13]

You mean you got laid and it was like hitting the lotto

[Lliam]

Why should a woman have sex with someone who had absolutely nothing to offer. It's not all about money. What about looks and personality? I mean guys have standards, too.

Some guys think all women care about is money. But a lot of those same guys think women are only good for sex.

[Sour-rose]

Because it's called being a human. A trusting one.

[LazerBean]

Nobody cares because nobody respects you either.

[RolandCuthbert]

I am not sure how what you state even approaches logic.

If a depressed incel stopped being a depressed incel, he would get women.

It doesn't matter if he won the lotto or changed his behavior. Either path leads to women.

[Asker]

No, he's depressed cause he can't get women, it's not that he can't get women cause he's depressed

[RolandCuthbert]

Nah that is backwards. If you fix your attitude, you would have success at dating. Period. Your claim is women should just be attracted to you, even as you are miserable.

[Asker]

No, plenty of men have proven thats not the case. Kill yourself you asshole

[RolandCuthbert]

Why would I kill myself? I am happy. I get plenty of puddingtang. My girlfriend is stunning. But you. . . you are a pitiful pathetic incel. And you refuse to be anything else.

[Asker]

You're fucking delusional

[RolandCuthbert]

I am not the pitiful pathetic incel. I have a life. Me and my lady will be in Munich next week. Eat your heart out. Haha!!!

[Asker]

You keep proving me right

[RolandCuthbert]

I am proving you right by having a life? And by dating a beautiful woman? You are a loser. And you want pity. You will get none from me.

[slatyb]

Because they are people too. "Won't have sex with a depressed incel" No woman owes you their time. Why should a women who has a life want to spend time with someone with an untreated mental illness? If you are depressed, seek treatment.

[Fireguy17]

Because you will be the better person then.
Otherwise you are at either their level or below it.

[BarryLiverstone]

Because incels have failed at life; actively chosen to fail

[Sparkie460]

You shouldn't. Who respects gold diggers

[clampfan101]

Because not all women are like that.
Plus some men are like that.
Everyone’s different.

[18Uma21]

Why should I respect men who wants to be in a relationship but cannot live with the same woman rest of their lives?

[Asker]

You women make it difficult to even get a fucking date. Even if you agree you still flake 90% of the time

[kylee2437]

@asker we don’t need to be interested in every guy that asks us out on a date

[Asker]

No, but you want to act all principled and like you hate being objectified, and you want a guy that loves you for you. But then if he's tall and hot enough you'll thirst over him and beg for sex

[kylee2437]

@asker I’ve never begged a man for sex in my life can’t relate

[Asker]

Bullshit

[kylee2437]

I know you wanted to be right about another opinion and assumption of yours 😕 life’s rough

[Asker]

I am right

[kylee2437]

You actually aren’t right about any assumption you made about me so far 😭 keep going

[18Uma21]

Asker, your complaint is not answering my question and is irrelevant. But ok

[Cal4576]

If I wouldn't sleep with a guy before he won then I certainly wouldn't afterwards.

[Asker]

Many would though, that's the point

[Twalli]

It's pretty simple. What do you bring to the relationship? No money, and treating girls like shit while not being extremely attractive brings nothing to the relationship

[KrakenAttackin]

A woman's core nature is hypergamy and opportunistic. You can say this is to ensure the best genetics and chances of her offspring, but modern women have consciously weaponised these traits.

[driven159]

If that is the kind of women, you want then you are looking in the wrong place and why would you tell anyone that you have won the lottery that would be the dumbest thing to do then you would have every money grubber after you

[Anonymous]

You'll get laid more often if you drive a Ferrari, yes :P

[Anonymous]

Maybe you should have more respect for yourself?