I am also circumcised, and I have never had to go fast and hard to feel what is going on. To me, this sounds like your guy is just a selfish ass that does not care if YOU are enjoying what is going on. It also strikes me as a abusive, especially hitting you. I know some girls like having their hair pulled - in certain ways - but that is something that is discussed between partners, not just done.
I would have to say, based on what little you have written here, that your boyfriend is either trying to simulate rape, or he has watched WAY too many porn movies and thinks that that is what women actually like.
Guys that are that aggressive in bed, in my opinion, are basing what sex is supposed to be like off of what they have seen in porn, instead of actually TALKING to their partner to find out what their partner ACTUALLY ENJOYS. Mind you, porn is set up to cater to the desires of the person watching them. So, if his actions are based on the type of porn he watches, this should tell you something about what drives him to begin with. If you have not done so already, I would suggest talking to your boyfriend about how you feel regarding the way he treats you. If things don't change, get the hell away from him.
In ALL things, TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF FIRST!
That doesn't sound good, I would confront him about it and tell him to be softer / less rough. Being circumcised shouldn't affect him hitting/pulling your hair that's an individual characteristic. Hope you're alright and it all works out :) just make a smart decision but he should never hit you
Many guys are more dominant in bed and into BDSM. Although, sex is supposed to be in enjoyable so you really need to have a conversation with him ASAP. But have it outside of the bedroom. He may be more aggressive while in the mood/moment so not the best time to bring it up. It's possible he isn't even aware he's hurting you. Communication is really really important especially when sexnis involved
This is a trainwreck. Hun, tell him to take his hands off you if you are hurt or don't like it.
If he doesn't, dump his ass.
His being circumcised has nothing to do with it, nothing.
You would think someone who is supposed to care about you, your boyfriend, would be able to see that he was hurting you.
You need to tell him when he hurts you and that you don't like it. Maybe take an entire session to just experiment. Tell him to go slow, fast, gentle , rough, try different possitions with different speeds.
Does he have a dominating personality as well? Does he do things to show he cares about you?
I like aggressive guys in bed... A huge turn on for me. And I like the pain too. 😳 I think its all about preference. Some people like the rough play and he's probably just one of them.
Just tell him to be more gentle, or tell him it hurts, then he'll most likely slow down a bit.
Him being circumcised is absolutely not a reason for him to do it fast and hard. If he's hurting you, I think you should tell him and ask him to be more gentle.
Forget ask. Tell.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I'm not sure, i don't think the fact he's circumsized has anything to do with his roughness, it could just because he gets of more from this, but if it doesn't feel good for you, let him know PLEASE. he won't know the limits.
Um. No. He probably gets off on the power trip or gets off on causing pain. Google "BDSM". Then google "BDSM and consent". Then have a talk with him (or leave him)
Why don't you ask your boyfriend? It might just be him.
This really isn't at all normal but maybe he's young and inexperienced so he's trying to act extra manly to impress you. If you don't like it, you have to speak up.
Circumcision has nothing to do with that. If you don't want to do those things, tell him to stop that shit right now or he won't get any for a while. Then give him a smile like you really don't mean that, but. . . he will know that you want him to stop.
It has nothing to do with circumcision, he just likes rough sex. If it's hurting you tell him... or else he'll never learn to adjust.
No, actually going fast desensitizes us. It feels better if we go slow. Most guys go fast because they assume it'll feel better for women (which it usually does), and also since it desensitizes us, it makes us last a little longer.
But if lasting long enough wasn't a concern, and i knew my girlfriend was satisfied with my speed, then I'd go slow everytime because it feels better. And i am circumsized too--so it has nothing to do with that.
I think he thinks you enjoy it and that what he does is good for you and him and both
No, he does that because he's an abusive jerk. You should not accept this if you don't like it. Have you told him that you don't like it? If you have but he continues, then you need to lose this guy immediately.
if he's actually hurting you need to tell him.
the fact that he is hitting you is very worrying. you need to leave him asap. its only going to get worse.
I liked before (rough sex) but now I feel like is too much even if we need to stop because I say to him that it hurts me. He always stop but then again is aggressive.
he gets off on it and will never change. if you stay with him, he carry on hurting you
I can almost guarantee that you don't thrust your hips when you're fucking, TJ. Just a series of ass cheek clenches and premature ejaculation.
Seems like he just likes it that way but being cut would defiantly reduce some sensation on his penis. But nothing he would actually notice since he's always been this way.
He's dominant; It's his personality.
If you don't like it, then ask him to slow up a bit. I like to fuck rough, too, but you gotta ease into that shit first. If I'm trying to drill my way to her skull from the back end and a chick is on the brink of tapping out then I ease up.
Because that's just his thing yanno, LOL I don't think it has anything to do with whether he's circumcised.
Circumcision has nothing to do with it *shakes head* some guys are just more aggressive and or dominant in bed others are more submissive some are both if he's hurting you then you need to let him know, as he may not realize that he is.
You do NOT have to accept anything you do not like!
He's abusive? Then dump him if he doesn't change after a warning.
Ummmm... You should tell him you're not that into that.
That's jacked up.. You gotta tell him that he's hurting you. He shouldn't be doing anything you're not comfortable with.
that sounds bad. maybe he doesn't know how much it hurts you.
Hitting, pulling hair, holding your arms. that has nothing to do with penis sensation. He just likes inflicting pain. It is a fetish. have you ever told him to lighten up? Maybe he thinks you enjoy it? Just mention it to him. There is nothing wrong with talking.
That sounds fucked. Tell him to calm down or he won't be fucking you for starters and if that doesn't work you might need to get rid of him.
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