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Why the big double standards when it comes to threesomes, guys?
KirstyW Guru
How come so many of you are down for you and two girls, but shut down at the thought of a girl with two guys?
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Is it the idea that you're not enough for us? Because that's not what it's about either?
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I have had many threesomes. Only once was it with two girls. So I am curious too why the difference. Probably because most guys think they gonna go gay afterwards.
I belive some men don't like the "competition" of another man, low self confidence, "does she like him more?"
And perhaps a homophobic stance, "I can't see a naked man, that makes me gay" and other bullshit.
A man confident in his own body and sexuality wouldn't have this problem.
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I think it's called hypocrisy!
How about just not worry about threesomes?
This question is ridiculous. Straight men aren't attracted to other guys so why would they want another naked guy in the room with them?
Yeah yeah, downvote me for stating facts. Lmfao you people are nuts if you don't think this is true.
Cuz a normal hetero guy isn't wanting to 'do' another guy.
And these never turn out like you had hoped they would. Someone always gets their feelings hurt. It's also highly likely you'll blow out your original relationship in the process.
On update... What exactly is 'not enough for us' mean to you? What does that have to do with a three-some? It's not about what? In your picture - look at the facial expression of the three. The girl is smiling happily and the guys are not. Guys will tend think more openly about WMW with the idea that he would be doing them both at the same time. A strong guy can outlast one woman, certainly do two. At least that's the idea. Anyway, my original answer stands - these things never turn out like you hope they will.
Most guys don't like sharing. I'd never have a mmf threesome so I wouldn't ask to have a ffm threesome
Which is perfectly fine. You don't have the double standard thing going on.
Yeah I try to be consistent but I think guys usually are hypocritical about that because 2 girls is a huge turn on and they don't like sharing
true that😂😂😂
I wouldn't be involved in a threesome with another dude because it would make it hard for me to get "hard".
cause obviously most guys like pussy and not dick :P lots of girls have the opposite "double standard".
I do not have to concern myself with this because I know sex is only to be between to people. One male and one female. It only the husband and wife. I do not support threesome.
Because I legimately wouldn't enjoy contact of that sort with another guy.
I've never had a threesome.
We like the thought of two women in our bed and not of another man getting lucky with my girlfriend...
That's why the double standard and it's not ever gonna change... so DEAL WITH IT
I'm bi, but I guess I would say I am monoamorous, so I'd never personally want a threesome, mmf or mff. That being said, I have no qualms about them happening, and I have been known to enjoy watching both variations online.
Because we dont want a 3some with a guy. It's not a double standard and no one should be pressured or coerced into any sexual activity as that's a form sexual and domestic abuse.
No it's because another man's dick is not a turn on, it's gross to cross swords for most guys.
There's a reason men were given one cock and women one pussy. 2 become 1 not 3 or 4
the one time i almost had a threesome was with 2 guys at a love hotel in ikebukuro
one was really hot the other was not not so he just watched and cheered on his sempai
Because most guys aren't gay
If you have to ask, there's no point explaining to you.