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Why the big double standards when it comes to threesomes, guys?
KirstyW Guru
How come so many of you are down for you and two girls, but shut down at the thought of a girl with two guys?
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Is it the idea that you're not enough for us? Because that's not what it's about either?
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23 95Girls are more comfortable seeing each other naked and I suppose it's more normal. I guess I would be okay with it, in a way it's kind of hot thinking about how much she could handle. She's sucking my dick while another guy is fucking her. I'm just not going to have sex with the guy.
Exactly :)
The problem for the girl is a lot of guys are going to think it's because he doesn't do it for you anymore and may get mad, while a girl is just going to think well yeah, this is what every guy wants two girls and just him. haha.
but still pleasuring your woman and indulging in her fantasies is only fair in the right circumstances I'd go for it 😀
I'm guessing it's a hypocritical, ironic preference or they dislike another guy having sex with the same girl, especially right in front of them.
Am I allowed to feel hurt if she asked for an MMF? :D :D
I dont like any 3somes
Because straight men do not want to see other men's junk.
Women are built to be ok with male and female nudity, within context.
A study showed that some straight women are turned on by straight, gay and lesbian porn.
While most straight men are turned on by straight and lesbian porn, while gays are turned on by gay porn.
Why the double standard men have to deal with concerning homosexuality? GAAAAY. That's why. Women can be gay. It's accepted. Men are ostracized and socially ruined if they come out as gay or participate in gay activities or get mislabeled as gay forever scarring their reputation. A woman is gay? Nobody cares.
If you're having sex with both genders then your bisexual. Not gay
@Justacatlady I agree with you, but the bisexual community tends to take on more hate than the gay or lesbian community, even taking it from those two communities. That being said threesomes do not have to imply bisexual acts. If you've ever been in a locker room, more than likely you've been around and doing things with naked individuals of the same sex. It's not gay then, it doesn't have to be any part gay if you are spit-roasting a girl.
@Nice_Guy_Last @Justacatlady Of course but does that change social stigmas? No, it doesn't, bisexual men are still labeled as gay.
@Nice_Guy_Last Spit roasting isn't gay. When balls touch during DP, that's gay. He's having sex with another man = gay.
Fair enough on both points. It's hard for me, a bi man, to feel the same pressures as a straight man, but I get the whole social stigmas problem. I really do.
Actually MFM threesome is one of my biggest fantasies, but scared to tell my gf!
I don't know, but I've noticed it many times too.
well: me and two girls -- i can enjoy both since i am hetero. and watching them both making out is hot
me and girl + men : i need to share her and looking at them having sex is maybe also arousing but also disturbing
also i keep my distance from other naked men
such a "devils threesome" still might be better than no sex
also trying to pleasure two girls at a time could create big pressure and be depressing...
everything has its ups and downs
Id totally do either situation
Lol its not possible for me, I won't ever accept fucking a girl with another dude next to me. I'd get jelous, plus I'd feel myself as a slave but since I am the ''master'' its not possible ;D
I don't want to see a guy kissing and penetrating my girlfriend or penetrating my butt with a dildo, strap-on, or a real dick; nor kissing me anyway either. I'm selfish so I want my girlfriend to myself. I don't know if I'd be comfortable with her sharing me either cause I'm only attracted to the girl I love. But I'd see why other guys wouldn't want their girlfriend to have another guy fucking them.
Well girls experiment with girls a lot... they show each other their bodies etc... dudes don't do that. Having another guy with his dick out for most dudes is just weird... you can call it homophobia... but its just what we are accustomed to.
I'm not really interested in threesomes, but... FFM might be okay, MMF is just gay.
I'm totally open to another guy joining in. I'd prefer the first threesome I have with a girlfriend be with another guy, so she feels more comfortable with the idea of bringing in another girl. Have you ever had one?
I have never understood this.
Well the reason behind not wanting MFM is obvious, I mean would you rather eat a piece of cake all by yourself, or have some random dude eat half of your cake and take up space. Also there is no pleasure a guy can have from another guy. As for FMF, of course we want it, fucking two women is better than one (obviously), plus lesbian sex turns us on. If the girl is not into that she can say it. Its not a double standard, its common sense
What this guy says... not double standard we all have our tastes, and most guys would feel uncomfortable with the iodea of another guy there possibly pleasing the girl better tha he can
Dicks are kinda a turn off to me.
I'd be down for it I just wouldn't want to do anything with the guy as I have no interest in guys