Guys, why would a guy not want to go all the way?

So on our third date date we finally had our first kiss & that night we fooled around a bit but we didn't go all the way even though I really wanted to. He kept teasing me and said that night was about me when I tried to go down on him.

I haven't met a guy who didn't want anything in return before so I'm confused and now I can't stop thinking about having sex with him. But is he not interested?
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  • shouldn't be dating DURING A FUCKING VIRUS

  • Is it possible that maybe you had a strong smell down there, and he didn't want to say anything?

  • It could have a lot of reasons

  • Maybe you have find that out ok
    If he not interested means what you do

  • my guess is he couldn't get hard

  • I am waiting until marriage, so that is a possibility. Though not a very likely one in today's society.

  • Same was with me... When my partner and me first met, she was very hot that night (probably at the right time of the month) and was sending out all the signals that she just wanted me to f*ck her. I didn't. Because:
    1. I had told myself that I would wait till marriage.
    2. I wasn't ready for sex or a serious relationship yet.
    3. If we had to do it that night, then I would have felt trapped into commitment/marriage
    Looking back, I'm glad I didn't.

  • like these guys are saying, either somethings wrong with his penis or i dont know what.

  • He is either one smooth player and knows this is making you ultra horny this way, OR he has a little dick and is self conscious about it and isn’t going to expose it to you until he feels absolutely comfortable around you... Ummm, I’m just guessing of course... Not that I would know... haha!

  • It's exactly what I would do if a girl tries to go down on me at the beggining of a relationship.
    I feel blowjobs aren't very intimate and I'd like to instead focus on her pleasure and maybe normal sex.
    Blowjobs are more like quickies and something meant for something more casual.
    If I'm actually considering a serious long term relationship with a girl, I wouldn't take a blowjob. But something more than that.
    Else, I would.

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