Why would a guy not want to have sex with you because you are inexperienced?

He put his finger in me and pulled it out fast like he was shocked said I’m really tight but he said “but I like to go deep” and the whole night he was like “it’s not fair” “I wish you’d have sex with someone before me because it’s too much pressure” like he wanted me but made me feel bad that I haven’t been with many guys. I’m 28 and never had a boyfriend. He knows that and knows I only had sex with two guys in my life. The rest of the night was terrible, he kind of just rolled over to his side and went to sleep... while I cried. I really liked him.
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  • He probably doesn’t want to physically hurt you. Does he know u had sex with 2 people? I don’t get why he said he wishes u had sex before him.
    ...
    But also, tight vaginas make guys bust quickly. He probably would’ve been ashamed if y’all had sex and it was over quickly. so to avoid the shame, he opted out.
    But im just guessing based off of my previous experience: i haven’t had sex in 7 years until recently so I was really tight and the guy came so fast. But he didn’t believe me when I told him how long it had been, so when he put his finger in, he was excited that it was tight.

    guys are weird, the guy you’re talking about doesn’t sound good (neither was the one I mentioned). You should probably move on from him

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  • You are right, it is "not fair". Every person was sexually inexperienced at some point in their life. I'm sorry, but he is just rubbing it in. Every person has their reasons for sleeping or not sleeping around. I am proud of you for not falling into the whole "meaningless sex" or "sex for sex's sake" mindset.
    I can just imagine how much mental preparation you put in into this encounter. Now, your "partner" decided that you are not good enough. I had a similar personal experience. My problem was that I simply could not get hard enough for her due to performance anxiety. I never saw her in person after that day.
    I think it is time to go single for a while. Allow this 'wound' to heal a bit.

  • He is foolish guy, and you not really inexperienced, you had been with two other guys.

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  • Because he’s not looking for a longterm relationship. He wanted sex soon and isn’t willing to be with you and learn your body over time.

  • Looks like You found Yourself a real fuck boy. How bout You go look for a real man afterward.

  • He's a jerk

  • sounds like a jerk.

  • Plenty of guys jump at the chance to be first, and give you a fond memory.

  • I'm going to say this. He is just as inexperienced as you are. He probably shot his load in his pants and that why he started with the "I wish you had sex with someone before me bullshit" in all my 49 years I've never heard a guy say " you should have had sex because I like to go deep" yeah deep into
    His ass to pull out that shit he's talking. Go to another guy you know and say let's fuck and oh I'm tight. Let me know the results of that.



    I'll wait...⏳⌛⏳⌛

  • Get a new guy, he's a narcissist.

  • Because they dont know how to teach you.

  • That ssucks. Look for someone better.

  • He doesn't deserve you

  • Because he suck it's not your fault

  • He's an idiot. Doesn't deserve to be with you.

  • there is no way to get experience without practicing, what is his problem

  • Message me if you have time

  • That’s weird, I wouldn’t care, I would have tried as long as I didn’t hurt you

  • Wow, what an inconsiderate idiot