Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Why would a guy shame a woman for a normal thing she does like having casual sex?
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Some men on dating apps shame woman for having casual sex and multiple partners but in reality it is normal for woman to have a lot of sexual partners and to have sex so why would a guy shame a woman and block them for something normal like this? In my town, causal sex is the norm and I see it all the time. I see a lot woman get into random guys cars and they go somewhere. So why can’t guys understand that this is what woman do?
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17 60Excuse me where you live I'm moving to now, I'm also looking for casual relationships.
However, most men who judge are fools;
Because she is a slut? (Just guessing.)
Guys do understand. Also guys have no interest in a serious relationship with a slut. Why? Because the odds of the relationship ending are 70%+ before it even starts. No man is going to risk a future a 70%+ chance it fails. That would be like getting behind the wheel of car knowing that at all times their is a 70%+ chance you will get in a life altering accident. Women who sleep around have a purpose. That purpose is sex. They get used and tossed aside. The guys that want relationships want relationship women and women that sleep around are not relationship women and never will be. Women that sleep around exile themselves from healthy happy relationships and then try and blame men because they wanted to be sluts.
Maybe because he doesn’t get any pussy and is frustrated and resentful of women who don’t give it to him
Is not normal for a woman to have lots of sex partners and a high body count and that is not what a lot of women do. It may seem common nowadays but that's not normal at all and not lady like. That's why people especially men view it as something bad and not attractive at all. If you want to keep acting that way be ready for the judgement and consequences.
Because everyone is different, if you want to have a bunch of fun sex then go for it. If a guy only wants to date a girl that doesn't do that then he should also go for that kind of girl.
It is absolutely impossible to make everyone happy so just worry about yourself and the ones you love and who cares about people that don't like you
Well because casual sex is not a good thing it inhibits pair bonding, and it's just not a healthy way to go about sex for men or women.. Many men or women don't want a woman or men that has been around the block getting stuffed or stuffing multiple people..
people use shame to express disagreement. they guy is totally entiteled to disagree with casual sex. just as you are totally free to have it. nobody is forced to share someones opinion. shaming is an expression of opinion.
Yes, cause a lock that can be opened by any key is a bad lock
Casual sex is not a good thing. They should not shame you though, that's not there position to judge you.
Casual sex is a degenerate behavior with real long term consequences. It's not "free" as the sexual revolution and feminism tell you. It's a hollow pleasure
When I was a OKC Mod we could reverse image search and see Questions an I did a small blog about Internet Dating. The Idea of “Men” sleeping around is myth. 90% of men don’t sleep around. It’s not that it’s shamed it’s that it’s not the norm. This is just a myth pushes by Hollywood.
Women also use Sex as a weapons. reject, sad, happy want to have fun? She can easily find sex where men have to work for it. As it’s only that 10% who 80% sleep with.
Women Averaged 5-14 Partners by 26
Men Averaged 1-5 Partners by 26.
Women who were 5+ were more likely to be single longer and struggle with relationships than someone who only been with 1-4
Women were more likely to checked off having had threesomes. Yeah nothing more Awkward on a date then went your date starts talking about having two dudes going at it her. Really liked her till that happen and she wonders why I Ghosted her.
because they are jealous of us because we can fuck as much and whenever we want
It's not about jealousy. There's nothing to be jealous of, it's not that the girls are very special. It's a very natural thing for women to find sex partners easily because men are naturally easy on giving sex because of their higher sex drives and they have nothing to lose in sex, on the other hand, when it comes to approaching women for sex, men will really have to struggle for it. So when you're in a relationship with someone, the most important thing a man will want from her girl is loyalty, being available only to him. That's where sex count matters the most. A girl who has a past as such will hardly be trusted to stay loyal. And same goes for men too!
@austcolombiangirl no it’s called having self respect which you seem to lack
@jhayes317 it’s called I don’t care what you think
@austcolombiangirl I think you do otherwise you wouldn’t have replied
@jhayes317 I don’t live in this site like some
That is so wrong and they are hypocrites. A guy does not get shamed for casual sex ( I like it actually (
It's a double standard. They do it, it's cool. We do it, it's bad. I'm not ashamed of it.
@libarena nah it’s bad either way.
I am constantly amazed at how many questions about mens' and womens' behavior can be easily answered in the same way.
It's nature and evolution. Men are designed by nature to plant their seeds and go on to the next women, impregnating as many women as possible. Women are designed to get pregnant, bear, nurture and raise the children. Their ability to become pregnant is limited because once they are pregnant they are out of service for at least 9 months, and once they pass the age of 30 their ability to become pregnant rapidly declines. So it's up to men to make it happen.
The most important feature of any species is reproduction or else the species cannot survive. These are the natural roles that ensure survival of the human race.
It's in a man's DNA that he wants HIS sperm to be the ones to impregnate women, not some other guys. It's a competition. He wants HIS DNA to be transmitted to future generations. This is a natural instinct. That's why men seem to want to take ownership of a woman and control her exposure to other men.
That explains why men want virgins. So they can be sure that any children his partner has is HIS. And it's also why they shun women who are promiscuous.
You can try to normalize all you want, it still makes you slut who has lost her ability to pair-bond or truly love someone and as a result will die alone. There is a reason every successful society in history had a taboo against female promiscuity.
They're probably jealous.
Sexism.
It is the modern world, so men should not expect women to have remained celibate until marriage, expect perhaps in cases in which he remained celibate (voluntarily not incel celibacy).
Because women who have multiple sex partners do not make good spouses. You can be a hoe, but don't expect to land a quality husband.