Why would a guy want to masturbate instead of having sex?

[Anonymous]

[Lliam]

He's fucked up in the head. There's no other explanation unless he doesn't know how to have sex with an actual woman. After all, ravishing a woman is 1000x better than choking your own chicken. Good grief!
If you're describing the guy you're with, get rid of him. He's half a man.

[Asker]

he's a real asshole

[hari12]

Uh. Who is that guy

[Asker]

My boyfriend, we even live together so it's not like it's a issue to get sex from me

[hari12]

That's very strange. Does he everytime choose masturbation instead of sex? If yes, talk to him seriously about that and your needs

[Asker]

Yes I've caught him masturbating many times after he has denied me sex

[hari12]

Talk to him. Good sex life is essential

[Wonderer89]

Why do we sometimes want take away instead of going home for a home cooked meal?
The same reason

[Breanna_nonbinary]

Because sometimes we just need a quick release. Sometimes sex can be very involved and masturbating serves a basic human function of discharging old sperm cells so new ones can be made. So don’t take it personal.

[ecfresh]

He doesn’t want to impregnate you

[justsimpleguy]

Performance anxiety

[oldguystillhasit]

I don't know why. I masturbate for relief. I only masturbate when sex is not in the near future. I need to touch and be touched. Yet I know some guys who masturbate when they have an able and willing woman in the same house.

[Boredguy400]

Men who have been in long relationships can experience this if the woman is too demanding or she just lays there and expects him to do everything.
In those moments some guys will actually choose to just go get off to porn quickly and then go to sleep.
Sex can become a chore if both partners aren't working well together.

[Asker]

That's the thing I'm super available to him and not demanding at all

[Boredguy400]

He might be addicted to porn then. It's unfortunate that he's not valuing you. He won't know what he's got till it's gone.

[Nik1hil]

Because condom isn't available

[funride74]

Instead? Maybe he's using fantasies he can't have in reality?

[Asker]

Could be. I think he's lazy and doesn't want to fuck me

[winterfox10]

Less effort, maybe he finds masturbation more satisfying?

[worldscolide]

it depends. Take a situation i use to be in. My ex was someone who at the end anyway the idea of having sex with her made me physically sick. she was abusive, and during sex she made me do all of the work.. it made it a chore..

[CrazyRay43]

-Afraid of sex
-Not interested in sex
-Porn addiction
-Masturbated so many times/for so long that it’s the preferred method of getting off

[COMMODOREII]

Because he has no feelings for the person.

[Twalli]

It takes less energy.

[nawtee_me]

I actually masturbate when I can not have sex. I am not in a relationship so sex is not something that happen automatically. I also like being watched while masturbating so sometimes I am doing it with or for a girl (s).

[hwvzhssb]

emotion can't understand needs and gals are emotional

[Cryptic-Game]

Sometimes he doesn't care about the woman.

[Hardpunk69]

come on i prefer pussy i dont masturbate and need

[Anonymous]

I am more focused on my pleasure during masturbation, while I tend to focus on the other person during sex.

[Asker]

Most guys are selfish during sex so that's hard to believe if you really are that way

[Opinion Owner]

Even if what you say is true which is hard to believe because I'm pretty sure you haven't slept with most guys, that doesn't make something hard to believe because most people aren't that way.

[Asker]

I have not slept with most guys but I have had conversations with tons of girls about how guys are in bed. Overall y'all are extremely selfish. That's why most girls dont orgasm and or ask for sex

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah well most girls just lay there during sex so the same could be said for girls.

[Asker]

Well yeah why would we participate in something that we aren't getting anything out of

[Opinion Owner]

It takes two to tango. Most people are selfish that has nothing to do with the person's gender. You should ask yourself why you have a negative opinion about men.

[Asker]

I don't have any bad feelings towards men. I love them❤❤. I just think they're selfish

[Opinion Owner]

Only women are allowed to be selfish? I disagree

[Asker]

No women are the farthest thing from being selfish during sex. You said it yourself most women are litterally just laying there as a hole for y'all guys to get off on

[Opinion Owner]

Since guys are doing all the work of course they will care more about their own orgasm. The girl can ride the guy if she's so worried about it

[Asker]

Riding doesn't get me off. The person in control needs to focus on the other person and not themselves

[Opinion Owner]

Lol so you expect the other person to get you off and do all the work and you think it's the guys that are selfish?

[Asker]

No I don't want to get off at all during sex. I'm happier sharing a connection with someone over getting off

[Opinion Owner]

Same here. I get off better through masturbation. Not sure why you're complaining then

[Asker]

Cause i want to feel the love. Not just be used as a hole

[Anonymous]

If it's been a long day, he has a partner that just lays there, and he doesn't want to put in another hour of work to do what he can take care of in a few minutes with minimal effort.

[Anonymous]

He could be addicted, or not turned on by you. You can try an experiment, do you own something really sexy, like leather leggings? Try wearing those when you're next into it and see what happens