Why would guys want to be monogamous?

I watched porn with my boyfriend the other day and we saw all these videos of gorgeous women with amazing bodies. He also showed me his favourite porn star. I don't mind that he watches porn of watching it with him, it just makes me wonder why he would want to be exclusive with me. There are so many beautiful women out there willing to have sex and he could be everywhere if he wanted to in stead of being loyal.

Don't get me wrong, though. My boyfriend is sooo appreciative of me and loves my body. He says I have the same body as his favourite porn star etc.

My boyfriend also has a busy past. He is 24 and told me (when I asked him) that he has been with 12 people. Again, it doesn't matter.

Still I wonder why men would want to be in a relationship when they can mess around all they want. What do you guys think?
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  • i didn't know they did

  • I would be loyal to the one I love too... it's just so much better than meaningless sex

  • Never understood it for one, I would want to be the one pleasuring my girl instead of soe other guy on tv

  • He (many men) doesn't have other options. Use the rule of 3's on his "12" he likely only has been with 3 or 4 women not 12.

    If men could pick and choose sex partners like women can, we would not be with one female.

  • If we are in love (or close to it) that overrules our desire for sexual "diversity".
    Also, noteworthy skill can do it. I have posted here that the most magnificent orgasm I ever had was receiving an ordinary (but skilled) hand job with equally skilled anal/prostate fingering. It would make a guy know that he gets his best sex at home and he wouldn't want to mess that up. I have also said that a man getting well taken care of sexually combined with a cheerful, mild nature at home can massively reduce cheating, divorce and marital violence. This is part of the secret attachment men have to East Asian girls and the stereotype often proves true.
    I feel like I'm cheating fate every day.