Why would someone be a virgin at 40?

[theFantasticJayy]

[mckatowitz]

People who are asexual, nuns, priests and other people with religious reasons. People who have conditions such as autism that makes touching extremely difficult. There are tons and tons. The better question would be why does society feel the need to judge someone simply because they haven't had sex. It's completely possible to have a fullfilling, content, happy life with out it.

[beebella]

Maybe they choose to be, Jayy.

[theFantasticJayy]

Like you, beebella

[UglyestGuyEver]

here's a few reasons il be a virgin when i die...

*im ugly
*girls dont like me/ im boring/shit personality
*extremely socially awkward, to the point that my social anxiety makes me seem even less attractive than i already am
*have no friends or connections
*low self steem
*dont really try to get laid... easier to watch porn

[UglyestGuyEver]

plus im not really bothered about getting laid, it would be nice, but unless a girl comes a long n offers me sex.. then im not going to try, no motivation

[UglyestGuyEver]

fuck rejection, not worth the risk, i already feel negatively about myself as it is, im not gonna give some stuck up evil bitch the opportunity to make my self esteem even worse

[CT_CD]

To get magical powers

[theFantasticJayy]

Yes 😂

[btbc92]

Hard to find a good partner to marry for the most part. Dating but not married yet. Or they have no interest. At the end of the day it's no one's business.

[NearlyNapping]

Because they haven't had sex. Some people are better at getting sex than others. It's no different than some people being better at football than others. Not everyone is the same, and some are not able to get sex.

[jennifer_bloom]

Religion or Asexuality or a fear of Commitment and Vulnerability are probably top reasons

[Vesuvius87]

- You chose to be one for whatever reasons
- You're very religious
- You're asexual
- You have crippling deformities or a terrible disability
- You have poor or no social skills at all, etc.

There are tons of reasons.

[1Anon]

Maybe they’re a nun or they choose to be? There are people who are just not interested in sex at all.

[Animesh911]

Maybe they are not the type who get into relationships or this thing doesn't matter to them

[Sonorous]

Here's a good recent video diving into why:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iHzDIKtA9HE&t=1021s

[mistixs]

I might be a virgin at 40 due to anxiety

[Dog20]

Oh my god... I knew it. Do you think about sex like every single day? Your questions are insanely sexual

[Dchrls78104]

I already am.

[aaronbw]

Nah, you'll find the right guy soon enough. Just take your time

[Apple1996]

Cuz they are asexual, too scared or waiting for the right person/right time. Also could not be able to find someone to fuck them even tho obviously they could pay for it

[markscott]

The could be a virgin at 40 because they don't believe in sex outside of marriage, and have not been married. That's very reasonable.

[honorboundHeart884]

I once thought was just religion, holding back from sex.

But I come to realize, love is lost art form.

People pass around l. o. v. e, like it was Platinum panty dropper Visa gift card.

The fact is , I won't accept being soiled by someone, to stupid to realize, sex alone can't keep a relationship solvent alone.

Game players, silver tongue devil's could preach the knickers off a 18 year old not yet Poppin fresh lol jk

I am an older virgin, due to many factors, judgmental people, STDs are more prevelant than ever, I don't quiet want to accidentally create life and put some through hardship.

I'm not a manwhore, even though both my grand father's held the title.

Some Women are so angry
, Demanding, expectations, their bias, I don't need to be accused of something I be never even come close to experiencing.

Conseñt and mutual respect and comfort are core pillars of me.

It's also easy for some to blindly cast themselves, to hump away.

I refuse to be used like disposable, razor, carton of juice all squeezed out on the wrong person.

Sex from some is machanical, like automatic transmission, some of us are more standard shift types, see all directions make the best move, decisions, safely.

While the world laughts at us virgins, a day will come for each of us destiny to find a worthy counterpart, who will except us in everyway, it's what truly feel, believe.

[Dchrls78104]

Same here and my sentiments exactly.

[normalice]

Social ineptitude, massive insecurities, or low sex drive?

[BlacklightShade]

Forgot to hit “submit” on their Tinder profile.

[Stingray444]

Because he must not have the 'balls' to change. Or at least not wanna use em hehe...

[Just_a_human]

They may not have the best luck at convincing someone to sleep with them, or maybe they just don't want to.

[ManOnFire]

I don't know but I've heard about them. It's very curious. Although I oddly do find women who are still virgins in their 30s and 40s to be kinda sexy and I don't know why.

[ImagineSketchy]

No interest. Asexual. Aren't sexually driven but like the idea. They don't appeal to the opposite sex. Religious reasons (saving for marriage but never married). They never found anyone that they wanted to have sex with. They are too picky. It brings back bad memories of the sex they are interested in (they could have been sexually assaulted, etc). Other possible reasons I'm too lazy to type beyond this statement.

[Drumlin2001]

Could be various reasons. Through choice, or fear. Everyone has their own personal journey

[anon1903]

matter of choice, asexuality or something's off about them

[Doodabeat]

He's probably had satisfying hobbies and outlets his entire life.