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Will Allah forgive me for commiting this sin? Its long to read but please help?

Hello my brothers and sisters, I like to share my bad decisions that I Islamicly commmited as a sin. sometime ago when I was sort of young I sent nudes to a guy I had a relationship online, I know it was a bad thing but I did anyways. At that time I was so infactuated with this person and couldn't control control my sexuality, because in reality I never even been with a man or had a man ever call me beautiful, and my parents couldn't even get me married due to my sisters divorce buy the time my sister had her divorce it was suppose to be my time to be with a man but sadly till today my sister got married and I'm still single and urge for a man so badly that at some nights I cry alone in my bed. now as for sending my nudes I fear that Allah will never forgive me, I'm so scared of burning in hell, but not iv only realised the consequences but the fact I'm a woman and Allah has given my body parts to keep them covered. And I once read a rape story victim of a girl and I regretted sending my pics cause I should have respected my body and I intentionally Never did it again and I say to Allah everyday is to please forgive me and that I respect my own body...
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And I appreciate is a true muslim would answer this... thank you.
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  • Alsalamu Alaikum :))

    ۞ قُلْ يَا عِبَادِيَ الَّذِينَ أَسْرَفُوا عَلَىٰ أَنفُسِهِمْ لَا تَقْنَطُوا مِن رَّحْمَةِ اللَّهِ ۚ إِنَّ اللَّهَ يَغْفِرُ الذُّنُوبَ جَمِيعًا ۚ إِنَّهُ هُوَ الْغَفُورُ الرَّحِيمُ

    Allah says: "Say, "O My servants who have transgressed against themselves [by sinning], do not despair of the mercy of Allah. Indeed, Allah forgives all sins. Indeed, it is He who is the Forgiving, the Merciful." [Qur'an 39:53]

    My dear sister, Allah almighty forgives all sins and inshallah he will forgive you. As you can see in the verse I quoted, Allah is telling us to never give up on his mercy. Everyone makes sins regardless of who big or small they are, but as long as we admit our sins and make Tawba (repentance), Allah will always forgive the believers.

    Don't you ever give up on Allah's mercy. He is indeed the most merciful.

    Do you know what is the biggest sin one can do? Bigger than sending nudes? Bigger than anything you can think of? It's shirk ( polytheism) And do you know who used to be a Mushrik (polytheistic)? Umar ibn Al-khattab RA. And we all know that he is one of the ten who are promised the paradise.

    I'm just giving you this example of this great Sahabi RA to let you see how merciful Allah is and how one can reach al-Janna by doing Tawba inshallah.

    So don't you worry. Just pray for Allah and always say Astghfirullah. You know that you made a mistake and you regret it and that's good. The problem is with those who made mistakes without realizing that and/or without regretting them.

    May Allah forgive you and forgive us all. xD

    • Such helpful opinion. Let me translate to everyone. He says "dont worry sister there is no Allah and mohammed was a lier. You won't go to hell because there is no hell. All stupid lies made up by smart minds to control people" I agree.

  • Even if u have sins staked up till the sky, Allah's mercy will make them disappear
    U just need to ask for forgiveness sincerely and try not to do it again
    hazrat umar before he converted was one of the bitterest enemies of Islam, he was the one who volunteered to kill the prophet (pbuh) and then once he repented he was given the guarantee of jannah in his life

    • Thank you for your share, it was helpful and glad.

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  • Sweetie. Sister, of course Allah will forgive you. I think God has. Already forgiven you. it just sounds like you didn't forgive yourself. Please, please forgive yourself. You are being so harsh on your soul.

    No you will not go to hell for this. you didn't hurt anyone. Did you forget the story of the prostitute who will go to heaven because she was kind to a thirsty dog (she used her shoe to fill it with water for him to drink). This is an example of God's mercy. And yes, a prostitute means she did more than just show up nude with a guy. You know in your heart that being good is more than just covering your body.

    You sound like a good person, that's the most important thing. You made a mistake... there's no shame in your body, just try to protect it now and you are doing your best with that. It's in the past, you can't keep punishing yourself over this. Have compassion for yourself and embrace your experience with wisdom and gratitude.

    I really hope this helps you and relieves your heart. you sound like a good person, and God forgives all sin except for disbelieving. just remember to have more faith in God's mercy. Dwell in those thoughts and be happy again. Your mistake is so miniscule for God's mercy. What's left is that you forgive yourself and move on from there :)

    Feel free to contact me if you want more support. In fact, I encourage you to. any discussion will be kept between us in confidence if you decide to contact me.

    Please know that you have my loving wishes and support <3

  • Ok, so I am not Muslim, however I respect other beliefs
    No matter the religion, we all do sins, whether it's lying, being lazy, cursing and so on
    Just because you sent those pics doesn't mean you don't have respect for your body. It's your body, if you want to expose it and if you're proud of it, it's your decision
    If you feel guilty and feel the need to pray and ask for forgiveness, do it. I'm sure it will be forgiven
    There are far worse things happening in the world than you sending some nudes

  • I am not religious in any way, but I think if a God does exist he would know that breaking a few of the guidelines here and there do not make you a awful person. I'm sure Allah will forgive you, you are not a bad person. We all have desires and there's no point in regretting it and dwelling on it only moving on and learning from things. You will find a man someday!

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  • Im not Islamic but if your god forgives then I wouldn't worry. That's not fair that your sister divorced and that weight lands on you. You do not deserve to feel lonely. If divorce is considered a sin it wasn't you that made the sin. I hope you find someone soon.

  • I am not Muslim but it does not offend you I will give my answer and hope it will ease your mind and allow you to have peace in your heart
    God whether it be Allah in this case or Budah for other faiths , love his children and do not want to punish them if they are truly repentant of their sins or transgressions. You have asked for his forgiveness. through your faith it has been made so

    • Thanks you for your kindness and option yes this has put me at ease. Have a good day, thank you.

    • You have a good day as well young Lady. You are most welcome

  • Firstly, we are born naked. It's only of our own chosing, and the cold weather, that we wear clothing. If god had designed us to be covered, we would be born with either ready made clothing or enough hair to cover us completely.

    Secondly, you will not burn in hell. We, as human beings, have invented the concept of hell to stop us straying from our chosen path. It is nothing more than an unfounded threat. It's an "I will punish you if you don't do as I say" threat.

    I agree that ANYONE sending nude, or any other pics, is not a good idea, not from a religious point of view, but from the fact that once you send them, you have no control where they go and who sees them.

    As for meeting a guy? The right guy will come along. He will not be put off by the knowledge of what you've done. He will love you for the person you are.

    I am not Muslim, but your religion has a good God. A good God will always practice forgiveness, so in your case, there is nothing to worry about. You have said sorry, not let it remain where it belongs, and that's in the past.

  • This is why i can't do religion. You don't have to be covered if you don't want to. And if that causes problems with your leader or ruler then you'll just face your consequences if you're even "alive" after you die

  • We all have sexual urges. If Allah cared that much, he would have made us all uninterested in sex. I don't know about Allah, but I would never give a matchbook to a kid and tell him not to play with it...

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