Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health I have a male, anti-feminist MRA friend (see, men? I obviously don't hate men if I'm willing to be friends with Men's Rights Activists, and they're willing to be friends with me) who said the following:
https://iamretrograde.tumblr.com/post/150305025219/so-you-are-seriously-implying-that-i-am-at-fault
"[Most m]en don’t dehumanize [or] objectify women. “Objectification” is a feminist myth created for sole purpose to turn the fact that women are more loved, more popular and more desired than men into victim points."
It brings to mind how some men are bitter that women are able to utilize sexual power to a greater extent than men.
It also reminds me of an Onision video in which he basically said that women's sexual desirability compared to men, is a good thing for women, enabling women to make money & gain self-esteem boosts by sharing photos of themselves.
However, there are negative sides to this that these men don't realize. Yes, being paid for nudes may provide a self-esteem boost, but the emphasis on beauty makes women feel bad if they don't meet the standard set by society as a general whole.
Also, women being sexually desired more than men - most of us can easily find a guy to fuck within an hour on Tinder, something men spend FOREVER looking for - doesn't necessarily mean we're more "loved." Men can easily fuck, use us a cum dumpster, then dump us.
So...
Women: Do you enjoy being so sexually desired?
Men: Do you wish you were as sexually desired as women are?
Women: Do you enjoy being so sexually desired? Men: Do you wish you were as sexually desired as women are?
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All women are desired whether they know it or not. Even grandmas are desired lol. Check out the documentary 50 Shades of Granny.
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16 33Honestly, I like it.
Especially when I'm alone with my boyfriend and he can barely keep his hands off me.
I know for a fact that (in my younger years anyway) that there are several countries in the world where I am at least as sexually desired as women.
Just not the one I've chosen to live in. :D
As someone who has experienced both, being desired feels better than being not desired.
All women are desired whether they know it or not. Men just tend not to tell you about it. Even grandma's are desired lol. Check out the documentary 50 Shades of Granny
A balance is good, I think...
50 Shades of Granny? Even if they kept the title, 50 Shades of Grey, that would still be apt... eeewwwww!
We simply get used to being the undesired gender !! " most of us can easily find a guy to fuck within an hour on Tinder " An hour !! More like a nanosecond !! This is why " dry spells " of years , even decades , even permanent virginity are quite common in men , Bateman's Principle at work , the female , having the far greater reproductive role , is universally the chooser in most species , women are much less attracted to men , than men are to women. Toxic " user " women take full advantage of this one sidedness.
I am sexually desired, but I dont necessarily enjoy it. It is what it is.
And to address your reasons for asking this, I think what you are getting at is that its a double standard. Women use their sexuality as a tool for getting things, while men can't do the same.(Or rather to a lesser degree)
Yes I was wondering if men envied this
envy is a bit too much It sucks but most guys acknowledge that this is how the world works It won't ever change and I don't want or expect it too tbh.
I think I would enjoy it only for some limited time. At some point I would hate it. Men have one advantage. If we don't want partner, nobody disturbs us. Sweet peace... If we want partner, even not so handsome men can find a girl if they are confident enough. Nice girls are disturbed several times a day and it isn't always pleasane, you definitely know what I am talking about.
Everyone is desired whether or not you know it or not , and I really don't like how this comes off like a sexists statement ; So defend yourself with this uttered statement of sexism...
I have always been sexually desired
Both by myself and others :)
It is fun
i mean i dont want that, but i dont mind that either
sometimes... yeah, sure. but not all the time
men are brought up to believe they need to be slaves to their sex drive otherwise guys ask if you are gay. women can have their sexual desirability, it seems more like a curse than a blessing to me.
Why?
Not all women are desired equally. You know personally i dont desire the majority of women. A woman loves to be desired, she craves it. She may even become dependent on it. Why would i give any woman what she wants for free? She needs to work for my desire. She needs to adore me before i will desire her. How far will she go? How far is she willing to go for me? I will only desire her if she goes all the way.
What's so bad about getting easy sex?
E. I hardly have any sexual desire, so why would I want to be sexually desired? It's fine just the way it is.
Actually the annoying part is that being physically attractive as a woman ups your desirability by orders of magnitude, while being physically attractive as a man ups it somewhat.
Guys will probably agree if they're at all honest - In the sexual arena, all the girl really has to do is be hot and wait for the suitors. This might be an unpopular opinion here, but it's truthful.
Could not give a rats ass
I don't think I have what it takes to be sexually desired (sad face) but I still wouldn't mind if girls desired or fantasized about me. haha
well since i'm no longer into women, i just don't care about women. Just let women do their shit.
I honestly don't.
I don't think I'm desired. I've had bad experiences with men too. People say I'm gorgeous, and or pretty. However, I don't know about that. Plus, I just big chopped. So I don't think anyone would desire me. People seem to go for, and like long hair 🙄. Right now I'm growing it out, but it's still short. I'm rocking a coily Afro. Oh well, I will desire myself... Ig...
Almost every woman is desired.