I have a male, anti-feminist MRA friend (see, men? I obviously don't hate men if I'm willing to be friends with Men's Rights Activists, and they're willing to be friends with me) who said the following:
https://iamretrograde.tumblr.com/post/150305025219/so-you-are-seriously-implying-that-i-am-at-fault
"[Most m]en don’t dehumanize [or] objectify women. “Objectification” is a feminist myth created for sole purpose to turn the fact that women are more loved, more popular and more desired than men into victim points."
It brings to mind how some men are bitter that women are able to utilize sexual power to a greater extent than men.
It also reminds me of an Onision video in which he basically said that women's sexual desirability compared to men, is a good thing for women, enabling women to make money & gain self-esteem boosts by sharing photos of themselves.
However, there are negative sides to this that these men don't realize. Yes, being paid for nudes may provide a self-esteem boost, but the emphasis on beauty makes women feel bad if they don't meet the standard set by society as a general whole.
Also, women being sexually desired more than men - most of us can easily find a guy to fuck within an hour on Tinder, something men spend FOREVER looking for - doesn't necessarily mean we're more "loved." Men can easily fuck, use us a cum dumpster, then dump us.
So...
Women: Do you enjoy being so sexually desired?
Men: Do you wish you were as sexually desired as women are?
Women: Do you enjoy being so sexually desired? Men: Do you wish you were as sexually desired as women are?
Select gender and age to cast your vote:
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All women are desired whether they know it or not. Even grandmas are desired lol. Check out the documentary 50 Shades of Granny.
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16 33"most of us can easily find a guy to fuck within an hour on Tinder, something men spend FOREVER looking for - doesn't necessarily mean we're more "loved.""
I don't really see the down side. It's either neutral or positive.
And yes, it kinda does, being sexually appealing very much facilitates love.
"Men can easily fuck, use us a cum dumpster, then dump us."
No they can't, you literally just said so yourself.
"the emphasis on beauty makes women feel bad if they don't meet the standard set by society as a general whole."
Are you saying men don't feel bad? (=_= )
I read that post, sounds legit other than the objectification part. Objectification is a real state of mind that exists, but the feminists myth is that women are constantly subject to it.
Women definitely have an advantage when it comes to casual sex. No one is looking to be loved through casual sex
sounds like a relationship based on a lie. you are a feminist, he is a mens rights activist. how can they co exist together?
He actually understands my arguments & realizes that I don't hate men & have no ill-will towards them. Anyway, we're friends because we enjoy debating with one another and sharing viewpoints.
im just saying, it's a friendship based on a lie
What lies?
you know you're a feminist, he knows he's a mens rights activist, you both know each other are, yet you continue being "friends". it's friendship, based on a lie
There's no lies involved. Because like you said, we're both aware of one another's political views.
but do you understand where im coming from
its a friendship based on a lie
if all women are desired, then why are some still single same with men
Because being desired doesn't necessarily mean you desire the other person back
of course it does
So if a fat chick with acne liked you then yous automatically like her back and date her?
sex is sex
Not necessarily a relationship tho right?
i certainly could. im not shallow
update what?