Nope. I am against violence and domination of all kinds.
Spanking is totally fine to me (it's not a particular or major turn on, but it also doesn't bother me at all if it happens spontaneously, and the guy is just living in the moment), as it seems to have no particular one root cause or association, and I have known perfectly nice, egalitarian, intelligent, reasonable men to be turned on by it. It appears universally unoffensive, and often appreciated, by both genders.
Anything else - lay your damn hands off. I don't eat spicey peppers, I don't base jump, and I don't want pain mixed in with my pleasure.
At the root of asphyxiation one cannot ignore the biological advantage of decreased blood flow and therefore greater brain stimulation/potential euphoria, however I do not support it because of the violent nature of it.
If subs and doms routinely switched roles, and alternated, well maybe... but people more often fall into one preference, and women being submissive, and that I have a problem with. If, on the other hand, men who have very high stress, high responsibility positions in their careerrs want/need a major role reversal in the bedroom, so that the decisions and responsibility of another's satisfaction can be put to the wayside, well I support this. But consistently dominating another in a supposedly equal respect relationship... I don't buy it. Is it purely animalistic? Ah, the great debate. And there is no one de facto answer, and there never can be, because humans conceal, humans are not always honest, humans do not understand their own minds much of the time. Some people have anger issues, some people have contempt, do not respect another, some have hierarchial issues they contend with in their life in general. Some have abuse in their history and undervalue themselves, or don't know how to value themselves. The myriad of possibilities are endless. Is it harmless? Sometimes. Is it always harmless, not indicative of other factors at play? No, absolutely not. So everyone has to figure this out for themselves. But if I was a man who was continually asked by a woman (women) to be brutalized, I would be very disturbed, and I would refuse, for their sake, and for mine. If a man wanted me to do this to him (it's never happened), well I would have a serious talk and get to the root of why he desires/needs this. And if a man ever wanted to do this to me, I would tell him where to go. And I'll just say, it's a place where the sun don't shine.
(And p. s. my fav position is on top. It feels good, they always like it, I can spoil the guy, and please myself. It works on so many levels. But I don't have any desire to control another, but I am also not passive, sexually, emotionally, or mentally. And honestly, as much as I have read about this topic, I still cannot put myself in the shoes of someone who wants to be.)
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Lol cool.
My ex liked me to bite her ass often.
At first I didn't feel into it, then I started to love doing it.
I miss biting her ass now.
She liked her hair pulled too.
Other than that we were into loving sex.
I've never had a girl into that but sure would love it.
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Light to moderate rough handling is fine with me. Love bites (where they're appropriately hidden when dressed), hair pulling and spanking are all hot. Really not into slapping, choking, spitting however. I'm more into sensual play however - bring out the cuffs, blindfolds, satin/Egyptian cotton sheets, ice, sex candles and hotwax, massage oils. 👌
Done correctly yes to all. There are wrong ways to do these things. Also, there needs to be a balance between these things and making love. A Girl totally needs both. Timing is everything
None of that. I like to be handled but not roughly. I like to do the handling as well. But not as often. Maybe 70/30
What do you mean “I like to do the handling”? Please explain
He lays there passively beneath me and I hold him down or other things... it’s a matter of who is being active in the moment. Is how I see it.
Physical domination, choking is fine so long as I can mostly breath, hair pulling. .. well I don’t keep my hair long because it feels nice in the heat of the summer, no biting mostly, nothing that leaves bruises in visible areas or causes welts or draws blood.
My goodness...
@Physics-Man Yeah, wasn’t expecting this from @Izumiblu. @Izumiblu To be honest, I was expecting you to be more against or uninterested in this because of your past experiences.
@EmbraceThePain I think it's because she's reserved when it comes to this topic, and she decided to express herself. It's not a big deal. Humans are sexual beings, and there are studies, and studies of studies that support that the vast majority of women enjoy being dominated. So this isn't surprising. Maybe she enjoyed being dominated prior to her experiences. It's just what she likes. Making a deal out of it might discourage her from expressing herself in the future. And that's not fair. @Izumiblu Keep expressing yourself Rei; don't be discouraged! There's nothing wrong with it. Nobody really cares when guys do it right? My reaction was one of "damn, that's freakin' hot!", and not one of disbelief or shock.
All that stuff is good. I prefer no bruises though so not like ridiculously rough.
Uhm no... I don't like any of those.
I am more on the sensual and gentle side, which that doesn't mean that I don't enjoy it when things get rough sometimes, but not to this degree.
I do, just not all the time. I switch between wanting it completely rough to wanting to go soft and lovingly
Those are all fun to do occasionally as long none of us get too rough to the point of physically hurting each other.
All those are fine besides biting. I love being choked and hair pulling is good too
I like being gently dominated. So no, nothing too rough unless I’m in a really hardcore mood.
Same
Seems like you're not always a sweet girl then...
@Physics-Man most of the time I am 🥰
I love it, I just don’t want any blood or bruises
choking and only a little hair pulling
Whenever you single Zaharaa you hit me up alright girl?
lmfao
No...
Ummm yes on all
I like a good hard fucking and some slaps on the butt, but no biting, hair pulling, chocking, name calling or so. Just fuck me good.
I can't wait to read the answers! I'd be down to do things like this to a girl if she liked it.
I do like all of the above except the name calling. However I do have my limits. About a week ago I was having sex and the guy choked me so hard that I couldn’t breathe at all, I definitely didn’t like that and made me feel uncomfortable
I don't enjoy consensual assault
Is that truly what you think this is?
Yeah
Perhaps it’s your age, lack of experience, or some other factor (s) that contribute to your current opinion. I suggest that you expand your mind or thinking on this issue more, so you can get a fuller understanding of this topic.
I would love all of that even more
Sometimes I like it really rough. Sometimes I don't.
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