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But the Alpha? He is the smooth talking hottie that she doesn't want any long term commitment with. But he is so hot and sexy they have sex on date 1. Oh yes.. she has standards.. but what her girlfriends dont know is that she had a few one night stands with some alphas.
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34 75I don’t like the terms alpha and beta but I think the concept here is right.
In fact don’t both sexes tend to lower barriers or break their own rules with the perception of a potential high value catch? Don’t both sexes also cooperate less with someone they could just take or leave?
I feel it's no different when a man goes for beauty and not beauty and brains. Since they say men don't care about your career or education. And, that's not true for all men.
Both sex do it. We see before we can truly put value to a person. Just because you look nerdy or well put together or whatever one's standard may be, doesn't mean you are. And, visa versa. Just because you have body and can turn me on that your clueless and dumb. You can meet a "Beta" guy that will have you climbing the walls. And, you can meet a "Alpha" that's "Whomp, Whomp " He looks like dude in the pic above but can't stroke.
The so call high value man has all the credentials "body, sex, career, etc." So, is he a Beta or Alpha? Or, Megatron? LOL!
Name something guys commonly say is a "rule" that they commonly break for hot girls
You tell me.. Inquiring minds want to know?
No, both sexes don't do it, because both sexes aren't the same. Women control access to sex. Men control relationships. That's why you see a lot of especially young women, who think the sun rises and sets on their vagina who *think* they can have anyone they want. And sexually, they are mostly right. What they cannot do is get a man to stay. Men will have sex with many women, but will commit to very, very few. And the rest of us in the middle cannot seem to find each other.
You made a claim that guys do it too. I'm asking for one example that guys make a "rule" then break it for hot girls. Because that's what you said. You're saying it's the same how men go for beauty instead of brains, but guys don't present that as a rule then switch it up. So name one. Literally one example lol
Hey I'll be honest. If I am not physically attracted, I won't even bother with the 'Hello'. And it's not that the woman has to be a bonafide 9 or 10. But she has to be cute, have a nice shape and be attractive to me. If she's not at least a 5, she can go pound sand. I don't care if she's a billionaire with 2 Phd's and cures cancer as a hobby and has an IQ of 192. Cute is my minimum.
👆 @Floppy2112 That's pretty much most guys and most guys say that outright. Some dance around it by saying the same thing in the negative. Like "looks aren't everything. If she has a shit personality then...". Aka she needs to be cute, but if she's a bitch the looks won't keep him around. That's not saying, "I only care about personality" then dates a boring girl with tits
to call 'credentials'. So so you're quite no aware of values. In your description, the Beta is the Alpha and the Alpha is beta, but you putted like reversed. And sincerely I don't know if I'm the only one reading man narssicicstics comments here 🤦🏻♂️
Beaches do that, good women don't.
I find that those videos usually come from omega males. Males that most women don't want to be around, so it is a big deal when they get rejected.
Then they blame women nature for that. Look, if a woman is a beach I just dump her ass and problem solved. No big deal.
Now this is the truth.
@ThisIsMyOpinion ;) ;) ;)
Please stop calling male whores Alphas. I am done with male cunts approaching me and getting mad when i dont want to date/marry an used up second hand dildo. For me an alpha male is a virgin, who has a self control snd so dont fuck every hole he see. Stop romantisizing male sluts.
he must be a stupid American i have seen a lot of stupid americans
Girl you nailed it. I've been stereotyped as a beta male for remaining a virgin and never using a girl for sex. It didn't make me feel inferior because I know that women with dignity would push them away
🙌 Yes
Trying to turn the word back around on it's originators isn't likely to change anything nor the crux of why you feel like it should be. Or we can just stop judging people who have more sex than the average person because of pseudo-puritanical values. I'm not going to tell you to not have resentments about social relations which subjugate you like living in a patriarchal existence, I would hate being a woman in this world myself, but you sound like you have a thing against men in general. I'm black living in the Western World, most people here are racist, bigoted or stereotypical towards us. Do I hate all white people or Asians, Hispanics? No. Because I realize there are social phenomena bigger than what their minds can conceptualize which are acting on them.
No, there is a different between a promiscuos man/woman and a slut. For me sluts cheats on, play with people's feelings to get sex etc . So i only judge a person who hurt other people. But thank you for your critique. So i am sorry for expressing me like this. I did not mean to slut-shame men. It is just that i made such posts with slurs/offensive expressions when i see such questions. I will try to be more objectice. Yeah i know these insults are very unnecassary but i hope you get my point.
@TerminallyChill by the way i like the way you think
I usually use this expression "used up second up dildo" for some hypocritical people comparing women with used up cars. Lol. Ignore this. So i only judge/slutshame hypocritical people, who sleep around but want innocent virgin girls, cheaters, and players
Yeah it’s the hypocrisy that is so unacceptable. “I can fuck anyone willing because I’m an alpha stud but when I’m ready, I want a virgin wife who’ll also be my maid and chef.” There exists way too many of these people. I highly encourage women to reject men (or women) who think this way.
@TechGirl26 I lived in Italy for a while. y'all ain't exactly cornering the market on intelligence.
Wow thank you for the likes
Amen... If y'all quit jumping in to bed with these 'alphas' then they will stop. I don't pretend to understand why women just want to jump on all these dicks that belong to bad people, then complain there are no good men. There are plenty, your just sleeping with the 'bad boys'. The strangest stat I have ever encountered was that women are more sexually active than ever, but men are less sexually active than ever. I didn't understand why until the next paragraph explained that 80% of the women are sleeping with 20% of men. So all those women are all swapping fluids with the same people, over and over again.
Ok wtf lol i prefere virgins, i am not into badboys. I think the badboy fetish is there due to media. Since i was 12 i was confronted with many teenage movies/series or stories/books that often has a badboy as a main character. You can look up whattpad or any teenage movies/series. Have you ever seen a teenage movie/series with nice guy? Probably not or only as side characters. So i really can understand when girls influenced by media to the point they also want a badboy. I am lucky that my parents did not allow me to watch/consume such movies/series/movies where a badboy treat a girl like shit but i have seen how my friend when we were teenies get influenced by it
It is kinda sad. Young Girls get a toxic idea of relationships due to media and if their parents dont talk about it since it maybe a taboo topic in their region/country, girls will be influenced in a negative way by it
@Floppy2112 by the way you sound a little stupid due to the generalization.. I dont think all women go for so called badboys. There are enough good women at least where i am you are just going for immature young naive girls or you are surrounded by immature girl. I have never seen a grown ass woman in her 20s+ who has his shit together wanting a badboy. It is not uncommon that teenies are a little naive and stupid. I know some of my girl friends who wanted a badboy when she was like 15-18 and now she has healthy dating preferences. Lol teenagers tend to be naive and immature. For me the badboy thing is extrem cringe. I can't imagine a grown woman wanting badboy. So it sounds very surreal to me. I dont know.
You are possibly an exception. I was framing in general terms. But I agree with much of what you said. I do believe there are a lot of great women who would be great to be with. The big problem is where we all find each other. The typical markets seem to exemplify the stereo types. The market place is what sucks not all the people in it, but the ones who affect it the most.
@TechGirl26 Coming from a country that has lost their power and has miss treated the elderly during the pandemic.
Girls liked knights and cowboys before media. Danger is sexy to most women.
definitely not true.
We're pack animals, but we aren't wolves.
How about hyenas?
@Floppy2112 they're related to cats
You reckon you’re a lioness?
@Floppy2112 in what context?
Oh hell I don't know... Let's forget it.
@Floppy2112 lol I'm a lioness when it comes to my kids and maybe a cougar depending on the situation
Okay let's stop the alpha beta thing it's getting old. Everyone knows beautiful and powerful people can get away with things others can't. If women do that, men do that too.
I'm not sure if I would call them rules but they would classify the same behavior differently depending on the type of guy.
So if an average looking guy approaches a girl it's creepy. But when a good looking guy does it he's being confident/romantic.
An average looking guy that's quiet is anti social. But a good looking guy is being shy and cute.
Basically if you're good looking you can't do anything wrong. But if you're ugly or an average Joe everything you do is wrong.
I have had a one night stand with a guy because I thought he was hot and knew we were incompatible romantically and because yolo I guess. Not proud but I would never do that with someone I actually wanted a relationship with.
Some guys just want to believe what they want to believe. Listen to what the girls are saying.
We are not wolves😑
It's not true in wolves, either.
Exactly
wolves where? 😭😭😭😭😭😭
run 😂👌
What is the difference? What makes an alpha male or beta?
Penis size
Desirability vs undesirability Alphas attract betas repel
I say penis size which is tied to persons confidence, same with asses. They were unattractive 50 years ago, and those where ashamed of them. Not it’s attractive and those girls are now confident
Women are kinda random you cannot just guess what would work with them they can go complete opposite of what they even wanted in first place
I dont know about all women but i do think the guy in the pic kinda hot !!
😂 I wish I looked like him
I used to look like him, and girls still never approach me
Dang i thought the grass would be greener
Seriously, lick my balls with your Alpha talk. First who cares. Getting pussy is great and I have had it all my life but life is so much more... I like to say pussy is pussy, they are all the same. I support my wife and family. Am I beta? Fuck you, I’m happy. Could I get random pussy, you bet I could... l but I am not a smooth talker... I’m blunt and arrogant, the latter a despised trait by women.
There is no such thing as beta male, and alpha male, only guys who are really good at knowing women's and mating, and guys with poor social skills.
Yes and no.
First of all, the majority of people make exceptions for attractive individuals. Second of all, most of us aren't even 100 % sure of what we want and what we find appealing, so we might think that we desire one thing and set general rules based on that but when we're faced with someone who doesn't fulfill those criteria but we still find attractive, we tend to break them.
I don’t follow any of that. If I like you, then I like you. If I don’t, I don’t. I behave accordingly.
What the hell is up with the gay picture?
No such thing as "alpha" and "beta" males in humans. We really need to stop peddling this pseudoscientific bullshit.