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Would having sex with your guy best friend destroy the realtionship?

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  • If he just wants to bone you (use you), he may not as good of a friend as you think.

    But if he wants to be meaningfully intimate with you, the sex may bring you even closer.

    How do you know that he's not secretly in love with you?

    If you eventually got into a romantic relationship with another guy, I wonder if you would be able to continue being "best friends" with the guy you mentioned. Would he be crushed? Would you have to distance yourself? Wouldn't that harm your friendship?

    From a different point of view. Is your "best friend" a virgin or does he have experience? If he is experienced and you really like and trust him, maybe he would be the ideal person to lose your virginity with and still remain best friends, even if either of you don't see a future together as a romantic couple.
    An experience person would know how make your first time pleasurable and not awkward. He would know how to take his time and be sensual so that your first time is enjoyable and special.

    • He claims he’s a virgin but I think he’s lying. I think he only wants sex.

    • See, that's the thing. If he lying to you just to get sex, he isn't a very good friend.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Not necessarily. I met a girl at work who was a bit chubby. She was 22' and not a virgin, owing to a drunken stick and go ONS she had as a teen. She had been abstinent since then. We had gotten to talking about sex on coffee breaks and she asked me if we could spend a night together. She told me she wanted to be shown around sexually and had a lot of questions.

    So, I agreed and asked only for her to tidy up her V if she wanted to try out oral sex. I did not discuss pubic hair as I assumed she had had no need to shave in the past and did not want to stir up insecurity.

    So we got together and it was almost like a classroom. I went through the entire menu of fingering, oral and PIV including cunnilingus and fellatio. One "class" ended with fellatio, where I came in her mouth at her request and the other was PIV with a condom. I was able to bring her off orally but not with PIV, where she had leftover misgivings from her first try in the past. It was fun coaching her like that.

    I think our experience gave her feelings because I did my best to give her fond memories. But the feelings settled back and she began dating someone and wanted advice about sexuality with him. Like I do here. It did not damage our friendship. Rather, it gave us something new and not theoretical to talk about.

Most Helpful Girl

  • NO! you're not going to stay in touch in 5 years anyway

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Potentially, yes.

  • It could so you have to talk about it first. Has this happened to you?

  • Is he invited?

    • Yeah

    • Details matter. I guess that would depend on him and how well he handles it.

  • It can

  • Depends on the situation l, if you both only want sex and nothing more then the relationship would be fine, if you only want him as a friend and he wants more having sex would probably cause problems because you took it to the next level but it was meaningless for you and very meaningful for him..

    Or it turns out you guys are perfect for each other and you create the perfect relationship and spend the rest of your lives together

  • Yes it will

  • Led Zeppelin put it best when they said "when I whispered in her ear, I lost another friend" It just changes things often for the worse. My take any way

  • no..

  • Eventually yeah

  • yeah

  • It might because sex changes relationships. It could also make you closer

    • How can it make us closer? He doesn’t like me like that

    • Again sex changes things

    • Oh I didn’t know because I’m a virgin

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  • It depend upon understanding they have.

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