Would it be wrong to ask a woman out because she has big breasts?

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  • No. That's what's attracting you to her in the first place. Shallow as that maybsound to some, attraction is important. Of course, if said woman says yes, make sure you make her feel she's more than just a pair of big tits. I've been on plenty of dates where it was perfectly clear that the girls are what they wanted

Most Helpful Guys

  • If you want to date her only for her big boobs then it's wrong. On the other hand, if her boobs are something you notice about her first, I think it is ok. There will always be some superficial things that strike you first about a woman and make you want to get to know her. Once you do get to know her you should find a lot more to her than just this one attribute.

    For one of my girlfriends it was actually her ample boobs I noticed first about her, also due to her figure-hugging clothes at the time. By contrast, my current girlfriend was wearing clothes that served to hide her figure a lot more. It was more of a pleasant surprise to see her naked later.

  • Haha
    I mean..
    How is it different from you finding her generally visually attractive and asking her out? It's still superficial, does it matter what brought you in?
    If you don't know her.. it's the same outcome. You get to know her, it's make or break.. or you guys just hook up.. or not.

    How about this fishing metaphor..
    If the fish bites regardless of what's on the hook.. did it matter when he was caught?

Most Helpful Girl

  • It is not wrong meaning it is not immoral or anything like that, you should ask her out bc you want to go out with her for whatever reason, she can say yes or no.

    I can give my opinion that there is more of a chance for a relationship if there is also something about her personality that you like not just her boobs. But that isn't about right and wrong just about what you want to get out of this and how to make it more likely to happen.

    JMO good luck!

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  • Have you ever noticed how men are always preoccupied with size. If it's not their dick it's is boobs. I once read and article that stated that a study was done that indicated that wealthy men pine for women with petit breasts while poorer men pine after big breasts. Perhaps there is some truth to that.

    • Boobs are my favorite body part on a woman, I can't really explain why but I just love big boobs. A lot of women prefer tall men sooooo, I feel we all have our favorite attributes.

  • No, people ask others out for different reasons, though, I couldn't imagine you'd have much in common with her if it's only for that reason, unless you luck out and hit it off.

    I had a friend once that had guys ask her out all the time because hers were huge, but she went through 2 divorces and countless numbers of boyfriends because her looks were all these guys cared about. But hey, you learn, lol

  • It's not wrong. But I hope there's more to her than her boobs. But if you're only asking her out as a sexual partner, I guess it's OK.

  • Not at all, men and women judge each other based on looks for approaching/who is encouraged to approach. Everyone has their own preferences for what turns them on the most. I mean, you won't know regardless of tig ol bitties, itty bitties, or whatever if you don't ask women out regardless, so just go for it.

  • It’s not wrong to be attracted to some certain parts of a person. If the person appreciates your appreciation then it’s fine

  • It can be a starter, but you should find more things on top
    I mean if all you got is that, then you dont like her, you like only her brests, and you can get that else where so its not her you want

  • As a lady with small breast I would say, no its not wrong. Everyone has different taste and things they think are attractive.

  • Yes. I prefer smaller features on a woman.

  • Whatever motivates you to talk to a woman is valid, whatever it is.
    What your intentions are with her is what makes it right from wrong.

  • If the only thing you like about her is her tits.. then yes its wrong. If you like her personality and other shit go for it.

  • I mean I don’t think it’s the best reason but I think it’s fine as long as you get to know her on the date and see whether or not y’all are comparable not trying to feel her up.

  • I wouldn't bring it up as the reason, other than that it's your preferences.

  • If that’s the only reason yeah. You should look for more then just sex. If all you wanna do is have sex. The only type of women you’ll get is women who are the same way.

  • In the long run yeah it will be problematic because once you have had sex and used her body you will get bored of her if there is nothing else you like about her.

    • Facstsssss

    • Those breasts aren't going away. So if he loves her for her boobs, it will last.

    • @Luopio27 it’s like getting you dream car. You use it for a few months and it becomes old and ordinary. You get bored of it even though it was what you once wanted.

  • Not at all why? I love big boobs I would only want a girl with boobs

  • Yes, it would, if that's the only thing that interests you.

  • No. As long as it's something she would be happy to know.

  • Yeah, it would be a problem. However, if you care about the actual woman, not just her breasts, than it's ok.

  • Isn't that usually how it goes? If you are only interested in her breasts and don't care at all for her as a person, just enjoy from afar and don't waste her time.

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