Would it seem suspicious if your partner randomly improved on their sex skills?

Question

Apparently I gained some skills that I didn't have before and my husband is thinking I'm cheating and or doing things for money.

Is it normal to think this if your partner of a long time randomly gained new skills?

cookiecrusher · Answer

Yeah a bit sus.

But not always, bought my wife an oral sex book, for anniversary, years back. She got pretty good at it. Fast forward a few years, she wanted to learn some new tricks on her own, because she is more open to learning now and knows i would like that.

I too have learned how to make her cuddle cardio sessions more fun. Randomly, without her knowing

I think it's normal. Some signs/flags should be checked just incase. Maybe they saw something in porn they wanted to try etc.

Kevin Harts comedy bit about porn and spitting comes to mind, search it on youtube😅

Twalli · Answer

My girlfriend improved her blowjob skills relatively rapidly after the first few times. This is because she started watching blowjob porn to learn. There are videos that teach you how to maximize your partner's pleasure from oral.

TallAnon · Answer

Not really, people can improve tremendously with self reflection and thinking of a subject.

Surely · Answer

Did you just all of a sudden become less inhibited with your body?  Or, where did you learn the new moved?

Steve1071 · Answer

Wtf! You couldn’t do that before! Who is he? I’ll remove his testicles with ball peen hammer And will see how much you love your new big daddy then. Does that sound like an appropriate reaction or just a bit over reacting?

Kelly6 · Answer

Yes it’s suspicious

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

I think that's common because anyone can learn something new from porn so that doesn't mean it's cheating

nawtee_me · Answer

Which skill did you gain? Is he happy with the new skill?

JessieBellll · Answer

Yes, could be cheating

Rupani · Answer

I would be happy instead

Guardian45 · Answer

Depends on context. I could go either way.

emperor90 · Answer

A bit because i dont know how they learnt this

prosmind · Answer

Some people are innovative and think of many ways, or read how to have excellent sex. If their partners suspect, it means they themselves are not clear minded and less mentally productive.

Bdsmaster · Answer

I don't it has to be suspicious luv, it's like riding a bike the more you do the better you get so if you have got some skills that's because you have had practice with your husband before.