It depends. There are more men than one might want to admit who will enjoy such a talk during sex. I have heard all three (in different words, but in the same essence) from a number of men who fucked me. Especially, the second is a favorite of many men, and I found in time that if sex progressed down to that point, the man on the top never cared about my comfort and kept his pace until he came. That kind of treatment often turns me on despite the pain, but there have been times I just lied there and took it without much pleasure until my man satisfied himself and got from on top of me.
Sounds pretty horrible to me. A little bit terrifying, like this popular song from the 90's ("and if you cry out, I'm gonna push it, push it some more"):
https://www.youtube.com/embed/Fwgus_c1zGwRe: Update - doesn't pushing away represent a withdrawal of consent, and loss of consciousness represent the inability to provide consent?
I love hearing this during sex, but I also have a fetish for feeling like I'm being raped. I really think it is impossible to rape me because I enjoy the feeling of being powerless and being used so much. I dream of being fucked until I pass out and then waking up to still being fucked.
Unless you are like this, and this topic has been fully discussed between you and your partner, I don't think it's okay.
If it came out of nowhere, and they haven't... Shown any such sides or likes in bed... It wouldn't be a turn off, it would be a 'stop this right now, get away from me' concerned and scared. They'd literally shatter my trust this way. Not okay. And I'd not see them again, and get the fuck away
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!That’s scary af... 😱😅😂 like the fact he is saying it’s gonna hurt you, I don't know how that’s even okay... the last one might be exceptional
Are you fucking kidding me? That as an immediate reason to kick that fucker out and block all forms of communication with them.
Fuck yeah it is, so creepy
@EmbraceThePain I have kicked a guy out of my life for trying to hold my wrists during sex. If one straight up threatens to rape me? Yeah, I’m going to fucking raise hell.
@Ducksback Well, holding your wrists? If you told him you’re not comfortable and he still did it, I could get that. I also understand if he did it out of the blue and you got uncomfortable, because that can seem to suffocating or domineering for women, especially if nothing of such was talked about beforehand. Just tell him what you don’t and do like and he won’t do it again. As for the rape thing, that’s insanely creepy even coming from me, a guy. For a woman, it must be creepy and frightening several fold.
Enjoy the fun!
Honestly that would turn me on
Lol it did
@_uck_uckGoose Apple is unique lol
@EmbraceThePain no one said she wasn’t
Wtf would someone say that during sex? That isn't sexy
The second on I would be into if it was worded differently. Cause I've been told something like that before and sexy as fuck
It is
Yeah, it was something like "keep running is just gonna cause me to fuck you harder or something like that.
Passing out yet they keep going? Gotta be a turn off
He sounds like a date rapist
That’s fucking creepy as fuck.
I thought it was hot honestly
You’re a weirdo lmao jk. Honestly, if it’s creepy to ME, a man, I’m sure it would be for most women. I’m into a lot of kinks and dirty talking, but what you wrote gives off rapey vibes. If I was you and I knew the guy really well and have been with him for awhile, that’s context, so it won’t make what he said as creepy as it is.
It was our first time together
The hell?
That's actally very sexy and fun. I don't think it would work towards a girl but a girl saying it to a guy. That sounds playful and fun
I had someone tell me that first time hooking up
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That's sick. I'd knee him in the junk and gtfo.
I get how it can sound creepy, but honestly it's hot as fuck and I'd love to say that to someone in bed
SAYING it as in dirty sex talk might be allowable... but doing it is disturbingly sado masochistic. I realize people are into that... Pain is a turnoff for me...
Get the fuck away from me!!!
That's what I'm saying, he sounds like a date rapist.
@BonnieM exactly
Turn off, unless this kind of talk/action was explicitly discussed and agreed to beforehand.
I would call the police. This is assault.
A definite turn off.
Turn offs
Sirens and a knock at the door.
Cell phone ringing.
Smoke detector going off.
Water running
--more personal...
"Is that all you have?"
Turn off
Yeah that is not a turn on but its is rather concerning
That would not only be a turn off, it would make me want to get out fast with my clothes off or barely on.
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