Would this make a bad blow job?

I don't like having to sit in my knees in front of them and it makes me uncomfortable when they like... f****k my mouth. I feel like all the guys i've been with (I'll admit it's not many) want this kind of blow job and then to cum in your mouth which isn't my favorite either... I wish I could enjoy it more but I guess its not supposed to be about me anyway... I think id like just going slooower (if they don't take control as much and just let me explore and... I don't know do stuff!) and not having to choke and gag on one but that seems to be what they want...

All the other sex feels way more looooving and enjoyable but blow jobs have become something I dread. I know a lot of guys are into the gagging sound which I dont get... choking doesn't feel good and makes me cry when it happens cause wtf I'm being choked. It's hard to say no while its happening cause they're kinda in the zone.. but if you were to say before hand that you dont want any of these things is there even any point in a blow job? Would that just be a terrible blow job?
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  • How does it work for you if you are on top for 69?

  • Well a bj can be fun. Yes you'll have those guys that want to fuck your mouth but dont let them. You are providing this experience to them. You take control. I would also give the advice to never met a guy cum from a blowjob. Majority of the time once they cum they're done. A bj should be foreplay only. With a little bit of teasing. So a slow build is best. Going slow and taking time to see what makes them tick and not letting them cum will leave them wanting more. If you dont want a guy to fuck your mouth threaten to bite his dick. I bet hell stop really quick lol

  • I would love to lie back in bed and have you suck my dick at your own pace. Plus I think working the head is better than deepthroating.

  • Some girls enjoy the roughness. If you don’t, say something, why do you feel you need to do something you don’t enjoy sexually? Your first problem is having sex with someone you aren’t truly bonded with, cause if u were, neither of u would b okay with this

    • Cause its supposed to be about him, not me. And thats what he likes

    • Isn’t sex supposed to be enjoyable for both parties? Surely you two can find sexual activities u both enjoy?

    • We do those too. Sometimes more focused on me sometimes on him. Iddkkkkkkkk

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